For parents, everyone expects their children to get ahead when they grow up. As the saying goes, "three years old to see big, seven years old to see old", it can be seen that parents want their children to have a wonderful and excellent life, it is necessary to do a good job in education and guidance from an early age. For some incorrect or unreasonable behavior of children, parents should promptly propose correction and correction.
At present, many children are all grandparents, grandparents and grandmothers, just as the so-called next generation of relatives, children are about to be spoiled. Many parents are working people who have to work every day and don't have time to take care of their children. This kind of baby will become the "princess" and "little prince" in the family, and if you want to do anything, you can get it, and you will be spoiled in one, all of which are the hearts and livers in the house.
That same spoiling pushes the child to lose himself, to be selfish, regardless of the experience of others. Anne is the heart of the family, the family will guarantee all her requirements, and slowly she becomes more and more weird, and she also has conflicts with the students. In the ordinary high school stage, Anne felt that she did not have enough pocket money, so she quarreled with her mother, and even began to fight with her mother, and then left.
Not every child can become a biologist and astronaut, and every child's corporate qualification certificate is different, and the field of good at it is different. Parents should actively pay attention to the personality characteristics of their children and see what they are suitable for and like.
No courtesy
Children have a strong ability to imitate, therefore, in front of the child's eyes, we must pay attention to their own words and behaviors, what should not be said, what should not be done, what can not be said, can not be done. For children, parents are their own role models, they do not know right or wrong, only imitate the words and behaviors of their parents as their own pleasure. Children are not civilized and polite, and they speak dirty words, and many of them are learned by their parents.
Failure to be civilized and polite will lead to great defects in children, will lead to weaker impressions for others, and will also make others feel that this person's tutor is not too good. Parents are children's models, parents are children's bath mirrors, and every word and deed reflects cultivation.
Parents should attach great importance to their children's civilized and polite cultural education, when his speech and behavior are inappropriate, parents should correct as soon as possible, create bad habits quickly, but correct many years of involuntarily but can not. Therefore, parents should extinguish this spark before the child creates a bad habit. A child who is not civilized and polite will make him unable to closely focus on economic and social development.
Poor compressive resistance
Life is unlikely to be smooth sailing, life is not smooth, and having a high-quality compressive strength ability is the basic lesson for everyone. Many children want me to raise too well at home, the wind can't blow gently, the rain can't rain, and the same child will choose to bypass when it is difficult, or cry and make trouble, expecting that some people will solve the problem for him, which shows that the child's ability to resist pressure and frustration is poor.
Children with poor compressive strength ability will grow up to be widely pampered, and a little hardship will defeat the child's heart. Cowardice is the most immediate main manifestation of poor compressive strength, parents should seize the opportunity, when the child faces the dilemma and worry, parents need to continue to motivate the child to do it, and quietly assist the child when it is indispensable.
Cowardly children, they have always used the concept of depression to deal with problems, lack of a mental state of motivation, long-term past, that same psychological state will damage the child's physical and mental health, and even may cause depression. Therefore, when children try their best, parents should spend more time waiting for their children, grasp their thoughts a lot, and help them create a natural barrier to compressive strength and frustration.
Eccentric and angry
There are some children who have a strange nature, cry and make trouble all the time, love to lose their temper, love to make trouble, in many cases will make their parents helpless, such children they do not have the ability to manipulate and control their emotions. Therefore, as far as possible, parents should immediately give their children assistance to prevent their children's emotions from running more to the bad level of development and adversely affecting their physical and mental health.
Before solving the child's emotions, parents must first manage the system and manipulate their own emotions, and do not have to lose their temper with the child. I firmly believe that parents are defensive and helpless when dealing with "bear children", but the most important thing is to keep calm, gradually look at the child correctly, and tell him how to adjust his emotions, teach by example, and gradually start from himself.
For the change of emotions and management system, no matter who it is, it will happen in the case of stretching, if it is gradually built since childhood, it can reduce the organizational concept of sexual outbreaks, in any case, learn to manage the mood of the management system, for everyone's life is a relatively large capital, can make us in the economic and social development is not so easy to be grasped by others.
The child's behavior and temperament are ocean-going ships that are safely driven in the mystery fog, and there is no paying attention to the guide, only in the sea. For now, let's recall: Will our children gather in the crowd to fight first? Or cowardice and weakness? Or a lie? Or selfish? Does this also indicate a failure of parenting? Reasoning for children is very likely to be unclear, but what if it is a story?
Defending the three-year best-seller list of "Children's Emotional Management System and Temperament Construction Children's Picture Book" for 2 to 6-year-old children design program, a set of 10 volumes, each volume will eventually have words attached to parents, so that parents can grasp the child's psychological state, deal with the concerns of the entire process of parenting education. Uk-Chinese children's picture books can also teach children's English thinking in early childhood.
The book has a total of ten thematic elements: be yourself, honest and friendly, good temper, understand the safety factor, not afraid, can be united, polite, will share resources, I am the best, good habits. Until the age of 3, parents can read to their children as bedtime storybooks. A fairy tale book that is developed as a good habit at the age of 3-6 to help children manage their behavior and shape their personality.