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The opposite sex gets along, in fact, to know how to grasp the measure. Only people who know how to divide and measure can make people feel comfortable.
Feelings of this kind of thing, or pay attention to fate, not blindly pay, or blindly forced, only to maintain a comfortable state, the other party is willing to make deep friends with you.
You know, some feelings need to follow fate, don't care too much. It's yours, you can't run; it's not yours, you can't keep it.
Therefore, in the process of getting along, grasping the degree and understanding these truths may go longer.
Maintain a comfortable distance
Two people together, not intimate is very good.
If you go too close, there will also be a sense of exhaustion, people need to have their own time, too close, will only give each other pressure, and even let the other party escape.
Over time, you will understand that good feelings are a sense of distance.
For people who are tired of being together every day, they may feel very good at the beginning, but after a long time, the other party will get used to it, and even get tired.
Only by keeping a suitable distance, occasionally giving the other party some surprises, appearing in front of him, the other party will be more fresh.
Between the opposite sexes, it is important to retain a little sense of proportion, which determines how far you can go.
The two people who really go for a long time must not stay together every day, but do not interfere with each other, do their own things, have time to be together, so that they do not lose their temperature and have their own space.
Therefore, no matter how close people are, they should keep a little distance in order to get along comfortably.
Don't just give
Feelings are not the more you give, the more the other person cares. Sometimes, if you invest too much, you will not only put pressure on the other person, but also lose yourself.
It is said that the monthly surplus is a loss, the water is full and overflowing, and only with certainty can we maintain balance.
It is not a good thing for a person to love too much, and the focus of life is on the other person, ignoring the self, and such feelings lose their meaning.
Good feelings are managed and maintained by both parties, not by the efforts of one person.
You think that if you give, you will be able to get a corresponding response, but in fact, the more you give, the more you may want, and when you don't get a response, your heart will be lost.
Instead of taking the time to please someone, love yourself. The secret to maintaining a long-term relationship is to love yourself first and love others with spare energy.
Don't be too demanding in everything
Two people together, get along with each other, don't think about the result at the beginning, everything goes naturally, everything will be fixed.
You put pressure on the other party at the beginning and ask the other party to respond, it is the individual who will be scared away, and only by following the good inducement will it develop in the direction you want.
A relationship, if you put too much pressure on the other party, will make the other party want to give up. Only by following fate and going with the flow is the best way.
Regardless of the outcome, when you can love each other, cherish it; if you can't love, let go and make each other perfect, this may be the best attitude to life.
A person, if he can't maintain a stable mentality to face life, is actually not good at living this life, and he can't manage a relationship well.
Therefore, don't pay too much attention to the results of everything, and if you want to be fast, you may not be able to achieve it, and fate may give you the ending you want.
summary:
Feelings of this kind of thing, really need to be well managed. Know each other's way of getting along, respect each other, treat each other with heart, and naturally get the ending you want.
It is said that if you bloom and the butterflies come, when you keep a good state, everything will be fine, and so will the feelings.