Reading can enrich a person's vision and vision, can open the door to knowledge for him, and for children who are growing up, the positive impact of reading is self-evident.
Nowadays, many parents have begun to pay attention to the benefits of reading, but it has to be said that there are still some ways to grasp the method. Many parents believe that reading is based on literacy or helping to read, but in fact, the form of reading does not stop there.
Hangjie's daughter was praised by the teacher at school. Sister Hang was quite proud to "show off" with everyone and said, "My daughter has a good language, and most of the credit goes to me!" Everyone laughed when they heard Sister Hang say this, "You who are a parent are also too good at putting gold on your face." ”
However, Sister Li, who usually lives on the opposite door with Sister Hang, said bluntly after listening, "Sister Hang, she is right!" Everyone saw that Sister Li, who did not smile, "maintained" Sister Hang, and felt a little surprised. Sister Li explained when she saw the situation, "We both live at the opposite door, usually visit the door often, I go to eight times out of ten, I can bump into Sister Hang and read with her children." ”
Speaking of this, Sister Li said with some envy, "Sister Hang's patience is really admirable!" I actually insisted on reading with my children, but unfortunately, the Tao boy in my family did not cooperate at all, and I had no patience after a long time, if I could stick to it like Hangjie at the beginning. ”
Hearing Sister Li say this, Sister Hang also came to be interested, "In fact, my daughter did not like to read at the beginning, and we did not have less conflicts because of this, but in the end we both persevered." Now the child insists on reading every day, because with the accumulation of vocabulary, her Language score has also improved. ”
After listening to Sister Hang's words, everyone sighed, "Sister Hang's education is really far-sighted! It seems that it is better to cultivate children's reading habits sooner rather than later, and I have to buy two books for my children to read when I go home! ”
What are the benefits of reading for a child's development? It's not just literacy
Many parents think that the biggest benefit of reading is to help their children read or simply accumulate vocabulary, but in fact, the meaning of reading is not so simple.
In the process of reading, the child's brain is running rapidly, and they follow the deep and continuous thinking of the content read within the person. This not only exercises the child's thinking ability, but also improves imagination, analytical ability and memory ability.
Just as the so-called "open book is beneficial", reading brings children wisdom enlightenment and knowledge accumulation. For young children, reading can help them enrich their life experience and satisfy their curiosity about the world. Meaningful reading can help children open the door to exploring the world and can lead them to experiment with more interesting experiences of thinking logic.
Parents' simple preaching cannot convince children, but if children love to read, they can get a deeper and more diverse guided understanding from reading.
There are many benefits to reading, but why don't children like to read?
Although the benefits of reading are obvious, in life, many children are not interested in reading. Compared to mobile games or TV cartoons, children have little interest in reading. So why are children who already have a strong desire for knowledge not be interested in reading?
In fact, a large part of the reason behind this is that parents use the wrong guidance method. Many parents are more anxious when cultivating their children's reading habits, always hoping that their children can stay focused like adults.
But in fact, children's attention retention time is very "short", if their reading interest is not stimulated, they will be difficult to sit on the stool, which is easy to deviate from the parents' expected goals.
In addition, there are also some parents who selectively ignore their children's interest in reading, and are more inclined to choose what they like or think is useful in the choice of reading content. But in fact, children's preferences are very different from adults, and excessive "utilitarian" guidance will only attract the child's annoyance, and the interest in reading is constantly consumed.
Parent-child reading is an effective way to cultivate children's early reading habits, but if parents ignore their children's acceptance and communication feedback based entirely on themselves, then the cultivation of reading habits can easily become a "one-man show" that parents struggle to please.
The cultivation of reading habits is not a day's work, and parents should master the correct cultivation methods
Stimulating a child's interest in reading is the first and most important step in the cultivation of good reading habits. Therefore, when guiding children to read at the beginning, parents should take the content that their children are interested in as the starting point. If parents do not know much about their children's preferences, then they can choose to read books according to their children's age, and the picture books on the market are rich in content to cater to the characteristics of children's psychological growth, which also provides inspiration for parents in the choice of reading content.
For young children, they are easily affected by coordinated attention, so if parents do not love to read, then it is difficult for children to calm down and read.
Therefore, parents can try to create a family atmosphere suitable for reading for their children, and realize the environment of parent-child co-reading. Children are obviously influenced by their parents, and they are naturally more able to taste the sweetness of reading.
Pillow Parenting Message:
Children do not like to read is not because they are not born suitable for reading, guide children to feel the benefits and convenience of reading, which is the driving force for successfully cultivating children's reading habits. In the fast-paced world, parents should take the initiative to pick up books to lead by example and be a good example of reading.
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