In the past, when the fertility policy was tight, most families had only one child, and now that the policy is open, many families have stepped into the ranks of two children and three children, and some of them are very concerned, this part of the people are over fifty or even sixty years old, and they have become mothers at the age when they should be grandmothers, as super-elderly mothers, although they also enjoy reproductive rights, but the series of consequences they face are very "severe".
Aunt Chen, who lives in Guangdong, is 58 years old this year, her eldest daughter has married and had children, and her grandchildren are 3 years old, but she has not helped her daughter see the child for a day, and in turn, the daughter often has to help her with the child.
Five years ago Aunt Chen gave birth to her little daughter, although everyone was against it at the time, but she had no remorse, the pregnancy experienced a series of risks and finally gave birth to a child early, after childbirth Aunt Chen was once weak enough to take care of the child, the newly married daughter had to come back to take care of her, so it was difficult to pull the little daughter to the age of five, do not have to worry so much.
The kindergarten that the little daughter goes to is very close to the eldest daughter's home, so usually the eldest daughter picks up more, and occasionally Aunt Chen goes to pick up the little daughter she is not happy, she said that she likes her sister to send her to the kindergarten, because the mother of the kindergarten children is as young as the sister, but the mother is like the grandmother of other children, she does not want her mother to pick up.
Listening to what her daughter said Aunt Chen was stunned, the younger daughter's words made her very sad, but it was also a fact, she went to pick up and drop off the child and was always chatted by her peers to ask if she came to pick up her grandson, she thought that her daughter was so young and had already cared so much about this aspect, and would she be more "disgusted" with herself when she grew up more delicate?
Ultra-old childbearing does need to face many problems, but also need to have a lot of courage, because their pregnancy and production road is indeed not peaceful, a series of dangers and sequelae are also directly forced to the ultra-elderly birth population. This also has the clinical practice to prove that the incidence of pregnancy complications and complications faced by ultra-advanced births is much higher than that of women of appropriate age, resulting in the health of the mother and the fetus being threatened at all times.
We all know that there is an optimal age limit for childbearing, and women over 35 years old are even if they are in the ranks of advanced mothers, they not only face the threat of gestational hypertension and diabetes, but also at this time, ovarian function has begun to show a downward trend, and the corresponding egg quality will also decrease, so even the risk of deformity of the successfully conceived fetus is greatly increased. Not to mention the ultra-old women over 50 years old, some of them have menopause or are on the verge of menopause, and the ovarian function has long declined.
It is precisely with the decline of fertility that the probability of premature birth and miscarriage faced by ultra-advanced women after pregnancy is greatly increased, and it is extremely prone to placenta previa. It should be known that placenta previa is a serious complication of pregnancy, it will aggravate the risk of maternal bleeding, infection and even implantation of placenta, which can seriously lead to fetal asphyxia and postpartum haemorrhage, posing a great threat to the safety of maternal and fetal life.
In addition to these maternal risks, the problem of postpartum recovery faced by ultra-advanced births is also a major problem. Young women have to have a long period of recuperation after childbirth to be able to recover, and many people have fallen ill because of this, not to mention the ultra-old women whose physical function has long declined, their physique has long declined to a certain extent, and after experiencing pregnancy and childbirth, it has aggravated the damage to the body, and the recovery in the later stage is more difficult. A series of postpartum sequelae such as low back pain and joint pain have intensified, which seriously plague the daily life of ultra-elderly women and seriously affect their care for their children.
It can be seen that ultra-old women are really on the verge of danger at all times, from pregnancy to childbirth to postpartum, there are always problems accompanied by problems, but these are not nothing for those who have already given birth to ultra-old women, and what really makes them feel bitter and helpless is probably this problem.
As mentioned in the previous example, the super-elderly mother is a "mother with the age of a grandmother", and usually taking the child out may be more regarded as the child's grandmother, which makes herself embarrassed and will also hurt the child's heart. Perhaps when children are very young, they do not have this knowledge of this aspect, but as they grow up, they have thoughts, have their own feelings, and face their own differences from others and feel inferior. No one wants to let their children hate their old age, but their children's self-esteem may make them more sensitive in the verbal ridicule of everyone, and finally become inferior and rebellious. This point is actually the most disturbing point, but we can't judge who is right and who is wrong, and this real problem really needs to be faced by super-elderly birthrate people.
Fertility, not only because of the desire for children, we bring children into this world, we have to be responsible for him, let him feel more beautiful and happy, super-elderly birth groups really need to seriously consider, to see if they can really bear all these consequences, whether they have the confidence to make children a psychologically strong person?