Since the liberalization of the three-child policy, many people in the previous generation have hitched a ride on this ride, hoping to realize the original dream of three children. Even a subset of ultra-senior women over half a century old (in the medical field, women over 45 years old are defined as super-advanced), they make the same choice.
Case: 50 years old fighting three children, the whole family chicken flying dog jump, was originally laughed at, but now people are envious
A friend's relative Aunt Zhang suddenly decided to have three children at the age of 50, not to mention the surrounding neighbors, even Aunt Zhang's family could not understand, the whole family was advising her, a son and a daughter have become a family, it is not easy to relax, why add more trouble?
Aunt Zhang did not think so, felt that she had the ability and energy to take care of the child, and she just liked to take care of the baby, the original son was married, but also looked forward to the daughter-in-law can give birth to a little guy to her early, but the daughter-in-law said that in the past five years there is no plan, Aunt Zhang plans to have one herself, anyway, she has savings, do not worry about the difficulties of raising children.
But Aunt Zhang's children feel very outrageous, after all, the mother is fifty years old, and then give birth to one, in case of suddenly can't move after the future, in the end it is difficult or children, but no matter how to persuade, Aunt Zhang is not moved, resulting in the whole family chicken flying dog jump.
Under stubbornness, Aunt Zhang and her husband went to test tube technology, spent three months to successfully conceive the baby, and when the story of Aunt Zhang spread, the neighbors around her laughed at her behind her back, and there was no less ridicule in front of her, but Aunt Zhang didn't care at all, and she was happy.
Now the youngest daughter is 12 years old, the child is in elementary school, very sensible, more considerate than children of the same age, in fact, all this is also the credit of Aunt Zhang, because she taught well, which also makes the neighbors around her very envious, because no one expected that the original super-old childbirth is not necessarily a bad ending.
01 After giving birth at an extra-advanced age, what problems should we pay attention to?
What I want to emphasize here is that before female friends choose super-advanced age to give birth, it is best to ensure that their physical state is suitable for fertility, if the doctor judges that the physical state is not suitable for childbearing, then it is best not to blindly choose to fight, otherwise it will bring great harm to women.
The next step is to consider what problems super elderly mothers should pay attention to after giving birth to their children. The first is the physical recovery, after all, it is a state of super advanced age, and the recovery speed after childbirth is definitely slower than that of young women, so it is necessary to spend more time to recuperate, otherwise the damage to the body may be greater.
Ultra-elderly women should pay more attention to rest after childbirth, avoid fatigue, mainly to restore the vitality of the body, nutritional supplementation is also based on a balanced structure as the first priority, to avoid the intake of single nutrients. Of course, in the process of postpartum recovery, it is also necessary to pay attention to the fact that the recovery time of ultra-elderly women will definitely be longer, so mothers should not be overly anxious, nor be anxious, otherwise they will not achieve a good recovery effect.
Secondly, in terms of child-rearing, for babies at the early stage, mothers should learn scientific parenting methods, after all, the past parenting methods are no longer suitable for current children, and mothers must keep pace with the times, so that they can be more conducive to the growth and development of babies.
In the process of children growing up, how to educate children is also the key. Because with the children slowly growing up, parents are also slowly getting older, young parents and children have a relatively large generation gap, let alone super-old parents, and the generation gap between children will become larger, and it is more difficult for elderly parents to understand the current children's thoughts.
Therefore, elderly parents should learn how to be parents, learn to communicate with their children, effective communication is the key to forming a good education, many young parents are defeated in this regard.
In fact, even if it is a super-old parent, as long as they can educate their children well, in the process of their children's growth, many problems will naturally be solved. On the contrary, for elderly parents, if they are not able to educate their children well, it is not too much for a family to even describe it as a "disaster".
Because children may go astray if they are not well educated, children who are now on the wrong path are caused by the lack of parental discipline. Therefore, the issue of children's education is not related to the age of the parents, but to the parents' way of education.
Of course, in the end, we must remind the super-aged couples who are preparing to get pregnant again, it is best to have a certain economic foundation, otherwise in the process of raising children in the future, they will also face a lot of pressure, and it is far greater than imagined, but do not think that having one more child is just a matter of one more pair of chopsticks, this idea is too naïve.
Conclusion: It is a woman's right to have children at an extra-senior age, but I hope that I can fully consider it before making this decision, and do not let myself regret it in the future.