Recently, a social survey was conducted and found that the proportion of elderly people who help their children take care of their children is as high as 66.47%! And a considerable number of these elderly people are not very good at feeding children, perhaps because their generation was hungry when they were young, right? Therefore, when feeding children, they often measure their own standards to measure their ability to eat.
Of course, we are not writing this to criticize the parenting disadvantages of old people. On the contrary, we also want to thank the elderly for helping us with children, after all, parenting is a particularly hard thing, but also a special need for our attention.
But the benefits of elderly parenting need a lot, but we really should look at elderly parenting from a rational point of view. After all, the times are different, and there are also great requirements for the way children are educated. And the old people are subject to various restrictions in the past era, so they may be prone to make some mistakes in the process of parenting.
Mistake one, the child will stuff a bottle as soon as he cries
Some elderly people see their children crying, and the first verse they use is to stuff a bottle for the child. Of course, this trick is indeed very effective for children to manage their children's crying. But there are also certain disadvantages, because the child eats milk when crying, but also inhales air, which will lead to the child's gastrointestinal flatulence, it is easy to cause the child's intestinal colic.
In fact, in the face of children's crying, we still recommend that parents can coax more, hug more, and observe the reasons behind the children's crying.
Mistake two: Add complementary foods to your child too early
If your child started eating complementary foods before they turned six months old, it means that our baby added complementary foods too early. This practice can greatly increase your child's chances of allergies.
In addition, after the prize, adding rice paste to the child may also affect the child's absorption of various nutrients. Clinically, many babies who are more than 20 days old have appeared to have stones in their kidneys after eating complementary foods.
Mistake three: Feed the chewed food to the child
Some old people still maintain the old habits of the past, thinking that children chew unfavorably, often chew themselves and then feed food to children, but do not know that adults' mouths will contain a lot of bacteria, we chew the food, and then feed to children, it is likely to form a cross infection, so that children have adult diseases. Therefore, it is recommended that parents start to prepare special tableware for their children after adding complementary foods to their children. It is important to eliminate the habit of adults chewing and then feeding their children food.
Mistake four, chase after the child to feed
This kind of chasing and feeding children is very common in the family. The elderly are always worried that the child will not eat well and not enough to eat, but forget that eating is the instinct of human beings, blindly chasing the child to feed, will only lead to the weakening of the child's digestive ability. Children lose the ability to concentrate on eating.
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