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From the moment they conceived their babies, many parents began to worry about naming their children. It must be good to hear, but it must not be too tacky; it must have connotation and be smooth... Alas, in the face of the vast sea of Chinese characters, no matter what the name is, I feel dissatisfied.
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Yesterday, a friend said she was going to name the baby in her belly "Pier." I said that the pier is the top stream, and the estimation of the duplicate name will not be less.
This product directly replied, "It's better than your baby's name, two words are explosive, and one of the five surnames on the stall is also not saved." ”
Oh Mom, a mouthful of old blood almost spurted out. Every time I mention the name of my child, it makes people depressed.
At that time, I was following the five lines, comparing it to the Kangxi Dictionary, and I had a hard time picking two words that sounded good together.
As a result, this side has just given the baby a household registration, and four or five heavy words have appeared in the community.
What is even more embarrassing is that not only did he have the same name and surname as the 10-year-old daughter of the neighbor on the other side, but he was also listed in the top 10 of last year's national explosive name.
Sigh, there is no rhythm of doing multiple choice questions perfectly to avoid the correct answer. I thought I had dodged Zi Han Zi Xuan Zi Mo, but I didn't expect to fall into the new explosive pit.
Of course, that's nothing. The most depressing thing is that the comment area is full of ridicule "parents who watched online novels had a baby".
From time to time, I even saw direct ridicule and sarcasm: "But where such a name is given, my parents probably don't have much culture." Chinese culture is broad and profound, how can it be on the same as Mu, Yi, Chen, and Chen? ”
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To tell the truth, whether it is based on the eight characters and five elements of birth, or looking at the "Book of Poetry" and "Chu Ci", the name has been a beautiful expectation of parents for their children since ancient times.
For example, in the past two years, there are many chens with many names, and many baoma's explanations are very warm:
"I named my son Yichen because his father's name carries the stars, and my name carries the river, so I gave him a name." Hopefully he too will shine like stars. Although I know that it is a hit, I am afraid of being laughed at, but I think this name is quite suitable for us. ”
"My baby's name is Mu Chen." Born at six o'clock in the morning, I hope that he will always feel warm in the sun, and grow up to be a person who can warm himself and others. ”
Therefore, there is really no need to point fingers at these names, and the spit is tacky and greasy. It is not necessary to rise to the level of culture that attacks parents.
In addition, when parents do not want their children's names to become popular, they are more reluctant to follow the trend and give their babies a popular name. Before the big data was announced, I really didn't expect that the duplicate name rate would be so high. As for the claim that it is poisoned by online novels, it is even more nonsense.
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So the question is, why are there always a few blockbusters every four or five years? What exactly limits our imagination to name names? I think roughly these, small partners can comment on the supplement:
Avoid the names of elders
In many parts of our country, children's names cannot be homophones with the elders in the family. Sometimes, even the names of distant elders are avoided.
Find Mr. Gua Gua to name him
Many people believe that a name affects a person's fortunes. Therefore, after the birth of the child, many families will find Mr. Gua Gua to name him. But the embarrassing thing is that the divine operators also read books and name names. But the names that match the auspicious strokes in the book are those. So, it's really not the parents' pot, it's the master's manual that should be updated.
Name according to the family tree
Some families are to be named strictly according to the family tree, such as "Poetry Book Ceremony Yile Spring and Autumn". But there are so many good names, and there are only a few that you can choose when it is your turn to be a baby.
Literary film and television works
Some family members will give their children the same name because they like someone in a TV series or a book. For example, when "Shanghai Beach" was popular that year, a bunch of girls were named "Cheng Cheng".
Finally, give the friends a guide to check the duplicate name: log on to the Ministry of Public Security's "Internet + Government Services" platform (https://zwfw.mps.gov.cn/). Complete the registration and login, then click "Query the number of people with the same name" on the homepage, select nationwide, and follow the prompts to operate.
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