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After people reach middle age, the seemingly peaceful life is often full of dangers.
Marriages have entered a period of burnout, and the former radiant lovers have dimmed. Parents enter the old age stage, and their physical health is much worse than before. Children enter adolescence, and rebellious and ignorant are often annoying. Looking back on the first half of his life, it seems that he has been doing nothing, and he also comforts himself with ordinary and precious.
As the saying goes, poor couples mourn.
For middle-aged people, the root of all problems seems to stem from two words - no money.
I want to buy the best skin care products for my partner, but I have no money and can only let it be dimmed. I want to give my parents as much companionship as possible, but I have no money, so I have to let regrets. I want to give my children the best education, but I have no money, so I hope that they will wake up on their own.
When we were young, we would always say with a big face: money is not a panacea, I want to be with people I like. But when I said this, I obviously forgot that there was a second half of this sentence, called: No money is absolutely impossible.
Days without money, let alone with people you like, whether you can barely make ends meet must be a question mark.
For some middle-aged people with financial difficulties, the word "no money" is like a mountain that is difficult to move on their shoulders. Whether it is the distant sea of stars or the mountains and lakes in the heart, it will eventually become a distant place that cannot be reached because there is no money.
When people reach middle age, everyone has to admit that the biggest crisis is no money.
One: No money, no dignity
Two years ago, when Oracle laid off employees, there was a saying that was all over the Internet - when the times eliminated you, you didn't even say hello. Yes, the tide of the times is always utilitarian and eccentric, always more in love with the vigorous "front wave", and always shoot the "back wave" on the beach.
As a typical representative of the back wave, middle-aged people are always easy to be abandoned by the times. Especially at the age of 35, it is difficult to make further progress in the career, and it is easier to face the threat of layoffs than before.
Therefore, in order to protect their rice bowl, many middle-aged people do not hesitate to bend their backbones and sacrifice their faces, just so that they can support their families with an income, just so that they can barely make ends meet.
The workplace environment of middle-aged people is cruel, their thinking is not as good as that of young minds, and their physical strength cannot keep up with their younger colleagues. To accept people younger than oneself as one's boss, to adapt to the reuse of people younger than oneself.
This kind of denial and blow will, of course, challenge the mentality of middle-aged people, but after calming down, they can only accept the status quo and let these things smooth out their sharpness and edges.
Everyone has a strong and rebellious heart, but middle-aged people no longer have the power to be willful. Because their world is already under pressure.
Children need money to pay tuition, and parents need money to see a doctor, so even if they are no longer willing, they can only rush forward. In the face of competition in the workplace and the abandonment of the employment market, they can only face difficulties.
Middle-aged people are in a wave of uneven life, slowly clear what they want, and gradually understand what is more important.
People are all mortals, and in the face of the denial of ability, of course, self-confidence will be hit, but it is better to be hit than to be abandoned. The lack of work and income is more frightening than a slight loss of face.
After all, having a job is just a blow, but without money, there will be no dignity.
Two: No money, easy to destroy the hope of life
For a family, children are the greatest hope. Those unfulfilled dreams and unfulfilled wishes, adults always hope that children can complete. You can have a hard life, but your child must not do that.
As a parent, I am willing to work hard for a lifetime, but I hope that my children can have a happy and safe life.
It is precisely because middle-aged people have seen the other side of life that they do not want their children to be as difficult as this.
Therefore, no matter how limited the family's financial conditions are, they also want to give the best thing to their children. Good education, good food and clothing, good everything, as long as it can give children a decent future, as a parent, how willing.
Rich people can wear brand names and watches for their children, and when they are young, they can cultivate some of the rich people's hobbies, such as learning equestrianism or golfing. But the life of the poor is far from such a dream, and devoting their family capacity to a good education for their children is already their most valuable contribution.
In real life, parents who can get their children a good education are already so outstanding and extraordinary.
Because in the world of ordinary people, not everyone's children can receive education and cultivate one or two interests, and not all children can fly to their own mountains like birds.
Ordinary people, just ordinary, have spent all their strength, in order to achieve extraordinary, often have to burn themselves.
Middle-aged people who have no money cannot send their children to the best cram schools, let alone let their children have achievements in the field of art. Their greatest possibility is to raise their children into another self, and then continue to struggle to make a living, and their children and grandchildren will be endless.
For people without money, hope is a slim thing, far more empty than the galaxy than the future.
When you run out of money, some things will naturally be understood, but not having money is not the most terrible, the most terrible thing is to lose the upward fighting spirit. No matter how much pain life gives, I still believe that the struggle is not stopped, and the hope is not extinguished.
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