01: Mrs. Jin's guilt for the Zhou family
To tell the truth, until Hao Dongmei's mother died, I still could not understand her "indifference".
How can there be such a family?!
The daughter and son-in-law have been married for twenty or thirty years, and as the father's parents, Zhou Zhigang and his wife have not seen Hao Dongmei's parents until their deaths.
The Zhou family lives in the "dirty and messy" light tablets, and the Hao family lives in the family villa of Gao Gan. You said that there is a huge disparity between the two doors, and it is indeed a huge disparity.
Even if you want to say that Zhou Bingyi is a "phoenix man", you can reluctantly accept it.
Who made the Hao family's door really ridiculously high?
There is a huge disparity in the door, the words are not going to go together, and even sitting together is to add pressure to each other. These are completely understandable, after all, the gap is there.
But as for not coming and going at all?
Feel that there is a gap, there is pressure, then less contact is not enough, the need to be so completely different?
Living in the same city, I did not go to the Zhou family to see Zhou Zhigang and his wife, nor did I invite the Zhou family to the Hao family. When I was alive, I didn't see it.
When Zhou Zhigang and his wife died, they did not see the Hao family come to mourn. It is rare for in-laws to do this.
If you don't see the Zhou family's parents, you won't see Zhou Bingyi's brother and sister. In the eyes of the Hao family, all the people in the Zhou family, except for one Zhou Bingyi, had to see each other every day.
Everyone else, almost all of them, are "flood beasts."
Zhou Bingkun and Mrs. Qu have a good relationship, and every time on the third day of the Chinese New Year, they will sit at Mrs. Qu's house.
And the Hao family, just next door to Mrs. Qu's house, it can be said that every time Zhou Bingkun came over, Mrs. Jin almost knew.
However, not once, he and Zhou Bingkun had met face-to-face.
Not to mention inviting him to Hao's house for a cup of tea.
There is a scene that is particularly ironic, that is, it is already the time when Mrs. Jin is in her old age. Also on the third day of the Chinese New Year, Mrs. Jin was helped by her daughter and son-in-law to walk in her own courtyard.
When I walked to the window of Mrs. Qu's house, I saw That Zhou Bingkun, Mrs. Qu, and Ma Shouchang were talking and laughing, and they were not warm.
Seeing this scene, Zhou Bingyi half-jokingly complained: "This guy, come and don't say a word."
Hearing her son-in-law's words, Mrs. Jin took over the stubble:
"This is not kissing me, not wanting to come to my door."
Whether it is Zhou Bingyi or Mrs. Jin, there is really no position to complain about Zhou Bingkun's "ignorance".
Zhou Bingyi moved to the Hao family's small western-style building, what did he tell Zhou Bingkun? There is nothing else to do, try not to go to the door of Hao's house.
And Mrs. Kim.
Why didn't Zhou Bingkun kiss you?
It's not just because you didn't see Mr. and Mrs. Zhou Zhigang when they were alive. When they died, they didn't mourn.
Moreover, from beginning to end, you have never released a trace of closeness to the Zhou family.
You are not willing to kiss the Zhou family, Zhou Bingkun has a good face, how can you take the initiative to post it?
Mrs. Jin's tall stature, "really indifferent", once let me see this role, very disgusted.
The same are all high-ranking cadres, why can Mrs. Qu be able to mingle with the masses, but Mrs. Jin can never put down her body in front of her own relatives?
The whole Zhou family, whether it is Zhou Zhigang and his wife, or Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Rong's children, which one is not a person with cultivation and enlightenment?
One day or two days, I can't figure out the temperament and understand.
After ten or twenty years, it is still not clear?
But Mrs. Jin, until she died, did not see anyone in the Zhou family. To the Zhou family, she was guilty.
In this life, Mrs. Jin has been careful in her words and deeds, and stressed principles and discipline. The only "exception" was to "rely on the old and sell the old" to intercede for Zhou Bingkun before his death.
It was this "exception" that could fully see her guilt towards the Zhou family.
02: Zhou Bingyi loves and hates his "guide" mother-in-law
Zhou Bingyi once did something that the author hated very much.
That is, when Zhou Zhigang and his wife died, Hao Dongmei proposed that his mother, Mrs. Jin, come over to mourn.
But in the face of his wife's proposal, Zhou Bingyi actually refused. And the reason for his reply is also very "considerate".
"The road of the light piece, the car can not drive in."
"It's too cold, my mother is not in good health, and there is no point in forcibly coming over to mourn."
When I heard this passage at that time, I really didn't understand it.
When her parents were alive, Mrs. Jin did not come to see them. Now that everyone has passed away, there is no more to mourn, that is really impossible to say in any way.
But at Zhou Bingyi's insistence, Mrs. Jin still did not come to mourn in the end. Zhou Bingyi's reaction once made people feel very cold.
His filial piety was almost all given to the Hao family.
His filial piety to his parents was just lip service.
It wasn't until I watched the two episodes updated yesterday that I reacted to the death of my parents, and Zhou Bingyi's "thoughtfulness" turned out to be the most brutal "revenge" against Mrs. Jin.
In the plot updated yesterday, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei finally broke out for the first time after marriage because of work problems.
The conflict that broke out this time, ostensibly, was caused by the contradictions caused by the transfer of work between the two sides.
In fact, it is a "grudge" that has been accumulated for twenty or thirty years.
Work is just a fuse.
Hao Dongmei complained that when Zhou Bingyi made a choice, she never considered her feelings. In this family, she will always be the one who is sacrificed and ignored.
And Zhou Bingyi?
But it also expressed the "resentment" that had been pressed in his heart for decades.
"As soon as she got married, she moved to the Hao family and became a disguised upside-down son-in-law."
"Because of Cai Xiaoguang's affairs, I asked for governor Hao, but I was borrowed by the other party to play, cold and cold."
"His parents, until their deaths, did not see the family of the great leader in their legend."
The first two were still good, and Zhou Bingyi almost gritted his teeth when he mentioned that his parents had not seen Mrs. Jin and his wife until their deaths.
Both hated the indifference of Mrs. Kim and his wife.
Hate your own powerlessness even more.
He worked so hard, even sacrificing his body for work, more or less, a little bit of a fight for his parents.
Just because his parents were ordinary workers, he was guarded and alienated by Mrs. Jin and his wife everywhere.
If the same is a high-ranking cadre, then Mrs. Jin, will they still die and not see the Zhou family?
Parents are snubbed and prejudiced, Zhou Bingyi wants to make his deceased parents raise their eyebrows and breathe through his "political achievements".
Not disappointing his father and having an explanation for him is almost one of the most important beliefs of Zhou Bingyi's hard work.
Understanding this layer of Mentality of Zhou Bingyi, let's see how he didn't let Mrs. Jin mourn his parents in the first place.
Is it really "compassionate"?
Not really.
It is obviously "resistance" and "unwelcome".
I didn't see anyone before I died, and after I died, I came to mourn, who did I show it to? Does it make sense? The only meaning, I am afraid, is to make Mrs. Jin feel more comfortable.
A little less guilt...
Refusing mrs. Jin to come and mourn is a "revenge" for Zhou Bingyi.
He wanted his parents, whether before or after death, to continue to be "tough" in front of their relatives. I also wanted Mrs. Jin to feel more guilty about the Zhou family in her heart.
And Mrs. Jin, indeed, was full of guilt for the Zhou family until she died.
Zhou Bingyi was both grateful to Mrs. Jin's mother-in-law and some inexplicable resentment.
03: Mrs. Jin's "indifference" to the Zhou family, is it really wrong?
Mrs. Kim is a visionary.
This can be seen from Feng Yue's affairs. When she took one step, she already thought about the possible consequences of five or even ten steps.
At first, I thought that she and Governor Hao were completely defensive not to see the Zhou family.
I am afraid of getting involved with ordinary workers, and then I am waiting for them with all kinds of bad things about asking for the back door.
Help, that's a violation of discipline. No help, that hurts the feelings of relatives. In this way, it is better not to see.
But with the deepening of the plot, now close to the finale, I really understood Mrs. Jin's "indifference" from Zhou Bingkun's "difficulty".
Having a big brother who is the mayor, for Zhou Bingkun, is it a good thing or a bad thing?
Zhou Bingkun in the play is honest and generous, and he is also very sincere in dealing with people and things.
And his friends around him, like Xiao Guoqing, Sun Chaochao, and Chang Jinjin, are basically such people. But Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao are exceptions.
These two people are not only greedy.
The heart and eye are smaller than a needle.
In the play, Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao resented Zhou Bingkun twice. The first time was when the Women's Federation wanted to take back the house, and Zhou Bingkun did not intercede with Zhou Bingyi on her behalf.
The second time, qiao Chunyan was implicated by Qin Zong and was arrested, and Cao Debao resented Zheng Juan and did not open his mouth to Zhou Bingyi.
The so-called "Pifu is not guilty, carry his guilt", placed here in Zhou Bingkun, is the same reason.
There is a brother who is the mayor, and in the eyes of some people, it is Zhou Bingkun's "original sin".
Xiao Guoqing and Sun Chaochao and others understood Zhou Bingkun's difficulties and could clearly distinguish between right and wrong. But not all friends, all relatives, can understand.
Take Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao, if Zhou Bingkun did not get a single benefit from Zhou Bingyi, they would never believe it.
When Zhou Bingkun, who has obtained "benefits", says again and again about their "small" requirements, qiao chunyan and Cao Debao will be completely out of balance.
In the latest trailer, because of the demolition, Qiao Chunyan, Cao Debao and Zhou Bingkun completely tore their faces, and openly sang the opposite tune with Zhou Bingyi.
If it's soft, it's hard.
This is the face of a person like Qiao Chunyan.
In their eyes, they can't see Zhou Bingkun's "difficulty", what is within their reach is his identity as the mayor's younger brother.
Being able to take the handle but not reaching out is the source of their resentment.
But Qiao Chunyan did not think that Zhou Bingkun helped catch up and help Yu Hong, that is life-saving, and more importantly, people's demands are reasonable and more legitimate.
But what about her?
Which request was not a violation of discipline?
In the face of such a friend, Zhou Bingkun was in trouble. There is a brother who is the mayor, and it is difficult to become like this.
So what if there was a relative who was the governor of the province?
Only then did I thoroughly understand Mrs. Jin. If she had married the Zhou family, she did not "hold" her identity and deliberately estranged herself.
In that zhou family's days, can the life of Zhou's father and mother be so peaceful?
I'm afraid it's not this door today, tomorrow that door. According to Father Zhou's enlightenment, he must have rejected all of them.
But the number of rejections is more, this kinship, neighborly relationship, can it be so harmonious? And every rejection is to make Zhou Father and Zhou Mother embarrassed.
On the contrary, because of Mrs. Jin's "indifference", she did not meet before she died, and did not mourn after death, so that the Zhou family was "troubled" by Governor Hao's relatives, which was very rare.
At the very least, the TV series has been updated to 54 episodes, and the only thing that makes Zhou Bingkun difficult is the mayor's identity of his brother Zhou Bingyi.
Until this moment, I fully understood that Mrs. Jin had acted as an "evil person" herself, in exchange for the peace of the two families.