Colleagues have been complaining to me for two days, recently finally the child sent the child into the kindergarten, I thought that the parents were like a relief, but the child just went to kindergarten is very uncomfortable, not only sick and uncomfortable, vomiting diarrhea all day with low-grade fever, but also crying every day.
The old and young in the family did not dare to have the slightest slackness, heard the news of the child's illness and immediately sent the child to the hospital, and then sent the child back to school, but the child was sick again not long after. Tossing and turning back and forth many times, parents are also tired.
She said with a dejected head: The child is healthy at home and gets sick when he goes to kindergarten. In fact, when the child goes to kindergarten, he gets sick, revealing the child's psychological problems. Parents can help their children adapt as soon as possible from the following three points!
First, give the child full psychological support
Sometimes children are not adapted to unfamiliar environments, but because they are young, they can't say clearly, which makes it unconsciously affect the physical and mental health of children. For example, because children feel constrained by unfamiliar environments, they are embarrassed to open their mouths when they have the need to urinate or drink water, and now they are uncomfortable and dare not say.
Therefore, before the child goes to kindergarten, parents should give the child more encouragement, let her adapt to the kindergarten life in advance, after going to kindergarten, life also talks more about the daily life of the kindergarten with the child, such as what to do today, how well to get along with the children, etc., so as to help the child gradually adapt to the new environment.
Second, develop good hygiene and work and rest habits
After entering kindergarten, children will deal with many children and teachers every day, especially in the public environment, and will inevitably be exposed to many bacteria and viruses. Therefore, when children are at home, parents should cultivate their habits of washing their hands and paying attention to hygiene on time to avoid mutual infection.
Children suddenly changed the environment, but also easy to lead to mental anxiety and other situations, in order to avoid the child's immunity decline, you parents should also cultivate the child's daily rhythm such as sleep and eat on time, so that the rhythm at home and the rhythm of the kindergarten as much as possible. Only by getting enough sleep and a reasonable diet can the body's immunity be improved.
Third, teach children some disease knowledge
Children have to grow up step by step, and we can't always accompany them to protect them, so after the child goes to kindergarten, parents should properly teach him some disease prevention knowledge and temporary treatment of problems, such as what is a cold? What to do to prevent it and so on.
If the child is too young to understand, parents can often tell the child to drink water, pay attention to keep warm, etc.; when the child is older, you can tell him what symptoms there are before the cold, how to express to the teacher when he is aware of his discomfort, and so on. In this way, children have some common sense of disease, which can reduce their panic about the disease, and the corresponding number of illnesses will also be reduced.
In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of when the son is sick, and parents do not have to be overly anxious. Children always have to learn to grow up, the most important thing is not how to protect parents, but should actively adjust their mentality to let them grow on their own, in the process of children's illness and healing, we must fully believe that children have strong self-protection and regulation ability.
Parents should not worry too much after illness, they can follow the advice of teachers and doctors, and if they think that their children have no problems and can go to school, then parents should not be reluctant to give up. The process of giving children a fight against illness and bacteria is also something they must go through when they grow up.
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