Not long after the start of school each year, many children take time off to rest at home, a phenomenon that is more common in kindergartens.
Children who take leave of absence to return home are not sick when they return to kindergarten. This phenomenon is also strange to say, the child's usual health is not bad, the whole holiday to eat and sleep well, somehow, after returning to the kindergarten, the body becomes very poor, the school season has become the "season of sin", is it really a kindergarten problem?
Sugar Mom also questioned the school and teachers at the beginning like everyone else, but if you think about it, most of the children in the class are very healthy, so the reason is not simple.
The child is sick in kindergarten and has little to do with the teacher
Sugar Mom saw such a scene in the TV series, the child had a stomach cold in the kindergarten, and the grandmother did not say a word, and put all the responsibility on the teacher.
From the perspective of parents, I want to understand the old man's approach, after all, the child is fine when he goes to kindergarten in the morning, and as a result, he feels uncomfortable before school is over, and anyone will be angry. We don't want to hurt our children a little, but rationally, it's not necessarily the teacher's responsibility to get sick.
Teachers teach children to learn knowledge, take care of children to avoid some safety problems, and kindergartens have the responsibility to ensure the health and hygiene of their diet. But sometimes children get sick, which teachers can't predict and avoid.
Parents cannot pin their children's hopes for good health on kindergartens and teachers, and start from the actual situation of their children in order to solve the problem.
Parents should understand the cause of illness after the child returns to kindergarten
Sitting in a classroom, some children can quickly enter the state, but some children return to kindergarten for a few days and get sick, most of them are common situations such as colds and fevers or coughs, and there may also be inexplicable and uncomfortable manifestations, for the following reasons.
Not adapted to kindergarten meals: Children eat and drink differently from school every day during the holidays. Children with sensitive and fragile stomachs, after returning to kindergarten, can not adapt to the garden meal immediately, it is easy to diarrhea, stomach pain, not necessarily the quality of the garden meal itself is a problem.
Such children often rest at home for 1 to 3 days, and after returning to kindergarten, they can slowly adapt to eating a few meals.
Infected by children in the same class: Kindergarten children are generally 2 to 6 years old, which is the stage of weak immunity of children, and it is easy to get sick and easy to be infected.
If parents take good care of all aspects before their children return to kindergarten, then the child's illness is likely to be infected by other children. There are many children in the kindergarten class, coupled with the low temperature can not often open the window ventilation, bacteria and viruses spread, children with slightly worse physique will be recruited.
There is no way to blame anyone, because children do not care about their own physical discomfort, and some diseases are contagious before they are obviously manifested, and it is difficult for teachers to find out which child is sick.
Psychological factors: the causes of children's illness after returning to kindergarten, psychological factors are easier to ignore. Kindergarten children are more likely to develop separation anxiety, but they will not resolve themselves. To use a common word to describe, it is that the child returns to the kindergarten "on fire", and the body will also have a series of reactions.
More common are inflammation of the tonsils, or lack of appetite for meals, grumpiness and poor discipline, and another situation may be that the child is "pretending" to be sick.
Kindergarten children who are sick may also be "pretending"
Have your children ever had the experience of "pretending to be sick"? There are only two reasons why children pretend to be sick.
The first is to avoid going to kindergarten, because the child is sick, and the teacher will notify the parents as soon as possible. This means that the child will be taken home for observation, or go to the hospital for medical treatment, in short, without sitting in the kindergarten. The child's idea is very simple, can drag out a day is a day, really can not pretend to obediently go to kindergarten.
The second is to get care, in "The Perfect Partner" there is such a plot is very realistic, jumping hope that the mother will come home, pretending that his stomach is not feeling well. When she saw that her mother was anxious for herself, she no longer emphasized her pain.
Kindergarten children are not very mature in their minds, so they prefer to use the way of pretending to be sick to get care, this behavior does not mean that they are bad children, we need to use some small skills to guide.
Kindergarten children are always sick, parents pay attention to these things
Children live in the kindergarten environment, can not guarantee that the teacher to take special care of him, in addition to the basic protection given by the kindergarten, parents also have to do some assistance, in order to avoid the child in the kindergarten love to get sick.
1) Regulate diet and protect the stomach and intestines
To avoid children being unable to adapt to kindergarten meals for a while, parents can adjust from the aspect of diet first. A few days before the start of school, ask the teacher if there is a new semester recipe, if the recipe has been set, according to the above ingredients, make it at home for the child to eat.
In addition, after the start of school, children can eat a few bites of breakfast at home first, and then go to eat kindergarten breakfast, which can alleviate discomfort to a certain extent.
2) Don't always let your child be bored at home
There are many children in kindergartens, and there will inevitably be a large number of bacteria, which will cause children to be easily sick. If you want your child to have stronger immunity, only to be sterile at home or to avoid bacteria outside, it does not solve the problem, mainly starting from improving the child's immunity.
On the one hand, we should pay attention to the child's balanced diet and develop good work and rest habits. On the other hand, don't always let the child be bored at home, go out to play appropriately, adapt to the outside environment, and will not be easily knocked down by bacteria.
3) Pay attention to your child's mental health
Studies have shown that children are chronically in negative emotions of anxiety or nervousness. Not only will it cause the problem of short stature, but immunity will also be reduced.
Psychological development and physical development are synchronized, the child is really sick, parents will take him to check and cure in time. If the child is pretending to be ill, parents should not immediately poke him. After the examination, he ensured that he was unharmed, and he was decisively sent to the kindergarten.
We need to let our children know that the little trick of pretending to be sick is not a reason to take time off. But don't forget to keep an eye on your child's condition when you have enough care.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Kindergarten is the first step for children to move towards a small society, during which a good foundation of body and mind is laid, and the road to future learning and life is smoother.
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