In the field of natural sciences, there is a subdivision of science called "genetics", which is mainly the study of the genetic laws of living things, which is very important for medicine and even the future of mankind.
Although genetic science is a very complex science, but it is closely related to our lives, take each of us, from our parents to inherit a lot of things, such as chromosomes, DNA, etc., which can be analyzed by medical means to draw accurate conclusions.
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But heredity is not only this, but also looks, personality, temperament, micro-expressions, demeanor and many other intangible things can also be inherited, and some spiritual inheritance is often difficult to explain clearly even by science.
We ordinary people know the most about genetics is the appearance and personality of the children's genetic parents, the most common is that the child's appearance inherited one of the parents, if the child looks particularly like his father, some people will joke that the child does not even have to do paternity testing.
It is a common rule for children to inherit the appearance of their parents, but in addition, many children even inherit the temperament of their parents perfectly.
In ancient times, although there was no developed science and technology such as genetics, our ancients actually discovered some genetic laws very early, such as the saying goes: sons move gold bricks like mothers, and daughters like fathers do not change gold.
What does the proverb "The son moves the gold brick like the mother, and the daughter does not change the gold like the father"? Is there any basis or reason for such a statement? Maybe you have heard a similar statement before, usually the people say that it is better for sons to look like mothers, and conversely, daughters are of course better like fathers.
When it comes to boys, we often say that boys should be "poor", why should they be poor? It is hoped to sharpen the strong and brave temperament of boys, because rich children are generally very squeamish.
But now many people misunderstand the meaning of "poor support", not only in the material restriction of children, but also ignore the child's spiritual and emotional needs, such as both parents with the same strict standards to treat children, which becomes spiritual and emotional poverty, will make children feel the warmth of affection, will make children feel insecure.
In the past, the ancients believed that the best combination of parents was "strict father and mother", that is to say, the father should usually be strict, and the mother was very kind to the child, one singing red face and one singing white face, which is the most common way of tutoring.
In fact, the biggest advantage of family education like this is to sharpen the boy's personality at the same time, but also to make him feel warm and delicate maternal love, in this process of growth, the boy will inherit some of the advantages of the mother in many ways.
For example, we often say that a person is thick and thin, this "fine" part is inherited from his mother, in terms of personality like the mother's boys, often have this kind of thick and fine advantages, there will be more help for the development of his life, so the saying "moving gold bricks" to affirm such genetic advantages.
Similarly, although girls should be gentle and beautiful, they should also integrate some of their father's tenacity and temperament in personality, for example, some girls have been eccentric since childhood, seemingly naughty and mischievous, but in fact, they have inherited their father's intelligence and bravery.
Now there are many families who are too conservative in the education of girls, in order to make girls look gentle and educated, but let them become cowardly and lose their personality. If a girl can inherit some of her father's temperament, then she will be more confident and optimistic, and I think these are indeed some of the rare advantages of "not changing".
It can be seen that as the saying goes, "sons like mothers move gold bricks, daughters like fathers do not change gold" indeed have a certain basis, under the influence of traditional culture, such educational concepts do have their own reason.
In short, whether it is a boy or a girl, parents should give him a sound growth environment, parents not only inherit genes to their children, but also inherit their respective advantages to children, if a child from childhood to adulthood can enjoy the complete love of parents, but also learn a lot of advantages from parents, then he will grow up to be a person with sound personality and mental health.