Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
Text | The wind stops at night
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"People are old and useless, and not many people are happy when they say a word!"
This sentence was said occasionally when Grandpa was alive! At that time, I felt that my grandfather was really a "nasty ghost", and he even said something unpleasant, which made everyone unhappy with him.
Even, young people feel that Grandpa's words are to attract people's attention without illness and groaning! What others say and do must be "nervous" repeatedly asking themselves whether they should say or should they do it!
When I grew up, I understood that Grandpa's words were not a kind of "temptation" to be careful with his children.
Fortunately, the father and mother, the grandfather has been feeding back, although the grandfather is also cautious, but the parents are also extra cautious about his care, afraid that where inappropriate to provoke the old man sad. However, under the appearance of harmony between them, I always feel a subtle awkwardness!
Grandpa is gone. When I left, I wasn't as "satisfied" as people thought. The beautiful picture of the four generations in the same house is only the consummation in the eyes of outsiders.
Because Grandpa did not pay attention to physical health when he was young, he was bedridden for a year before closing his eyes. How many times did he lament:
I can't go anywhere, I can't eat anything, and it's better to end such a day earlier.
Mother said that Grandpa closed his eyes and looked around, as if he wanted to try to remember more people or things in this world at the moment when the light dried up.
It's just that Jie Lai Jie is doomed to an empty and lonely journey, and nothing can be kept, nothing can be left.
Man, eventually, has a death, and is doomed to be lonely when he is alive. But this process from birth to death, how to redeem yourself, this is the most important thing.
As I get older, I personally experience or see the real situation around me, or hear the real stories of others, and suddenly feel desolate for the reality of getting along with the elderly and young people at the moment:
I don't know when parents and children talk, they must be careful to look at their children's faces!
Just like when Grandpa muttered to himself! Perhaps, in the later years of each generation, they all get along with their children in the same way?
In real life, I don't know how much chicken soup tells the old man to live like this and live like that, so that the evening scenery is not desolate. In fact, whether it is desolate or not, it is entirely up to whether it is difficult to compete with yourself.
After all, the days are their own lives, and the filial piety of the elderly may not understand what contentment is, and the life of the empty nest elderly may not be unhappy.
The most important point is that in old age, people know how to accept everything in the present, and do not compete with themselves for things that they cannot change, which is a wise move!
Individual elderly people, the older they are, the more willing they are to compare with the lives of others, do not know that life is their own, you are sad or happy, others can not feel empathy! Even, how do you live will be pointed at you, than what?
There are also some old people, when they are older, they are accustomed to hurting the spring and autumn, and they can't think of a little thing, either a person secretly hurts his spirit, or passes on negative nagging. In the end, what do you get?
It is nothing more than the children who are bored, and their own bodies are constantly knotted in their hearts and sick and sick to visit.
Everyone is a supporting role in the vast earth, in order to set off the beauty of the world, we supporting characters stand on the trajectory of our own lives, with their own small snickers, small luck to applaud the world.
We, really small, so small that whether we are there or not, there will be no impact on the earth. It is still it, carrying all the good and the bad, but in the journey of life, because of our own state of mind, we will attract and meet with the good or bad it contains.
Life hides a lot of helplessness! When we can't resist, we have no choice but to bear and accept. Leaving fewer regrets in front of your eyes is really winning.
Young people often repeatedly ask "why live", sometimes on a whim to make plans for themselves, and over time the plan is stranded, and then why is it that living becomes "living for the sake of living"...
The elderly lamented "why live", and then recalled this life, the glory and disgrace of the past, as if it were an overnight cloud. There are very few people who are truly grateful and content for the past, and those who assume that time can be turned back in the sigh are everywhere.
Man, why are you alive? What is the meaning?
Man, because he does not have the courage to end his life, and because he knows that nothing is heavier than life and death, he has to live. Its meaning is to live well, do what you like, make friends with people you like, and leave fewer regrets when you are still alive!
Man, after all, lives for the sake of being alive, and living is its best meaning!
And when people are old, their children are filial and rich, is there really a late blessing? not necessarily!
Like my grandfather, his children in his later years were filial piety, but he was sick and cautious, so that he never dared to be himself for a moment.
In fact, when people are old and have seen all the fireworks in a lifetime, they should know how to look down on the loss and loss, sorrow and joy, and live their old age calmly and calmly.
In particular, when people are old, they must hold 2 bottom cards of health and good mentality, so that they really have "late luck":
Health is something that few elderly people can really guarantee to do. However, in old age, opening your legs, keeping your mouth shut, and not doing anything that consumes health is ultimately good for your body!
Good attitude, no need for any exercise and cost, as long as you are willing to let go of yourself, even if it is hunger and cold, you will feel your body temperature and be grateful and content.
People are old, everything is open to the past, the present is looked down upon, the future is calm, and there are no more expectations for anyone.
If you can make yourself as little as possible to be bullied by patients and ensure a good attitude, you will be much better in the short rest of your life.
People with fewer diseases and a good attitude do not have to compare the good or bad of their later life with others, nor do they have to worry about being blinded by anyone, and as the spokesperson of the late blessing, they are also well deserved.
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