When children reach preschool age, they need to start stepping into small group life - kindergarten. However, at this time, many parents began to worry about their children's campus life, after all, the child's first time away from the family to come to collective life, there will definitely be a lot of discomfort.
To this end, many parents hope that kindergarten teachers can take more care of their children. However, some parents' practices, not only can not get the care of the teacher, but will usher in the teacher's dissatisfaction.
Lele just went to kindergarten this year, and Lele's mother is more uneasy about Lele. In the first few days of Lele's entry into the kindergarten, Lele's mother "monitored" the child's every move outside the kindergarten almost every day, and later because of the poor vision, and also extremely physical and energy-consuming, Lele's mother gave up the plan to stay in the kindergarten for a long time.
But didn't Lele's mother just give up monitoring her child? Not really. Since Lele's mother stopped staying outside the kindergarten, she began to attack Lele's homeroom teacher.
Lele mother will not stop in the mobile phone group to ask the teacher about Lele every day, just entered the kindergarten in the morning to ask Lele whether he is unhappy, after a while, and ask Lele whether he went to the toilet, drank water, and at noon asked Lele how to eat, sleep or so on, Lele mother's "care" has affected Lele's teachers to go to class normally.
In the end, under the coordination of the park staff, Lele's mother stopped such behavior, and Lele's teacher also had a certain emotion because of Lele's mother's behavior.
The three kinds of parents are the least liked by the teacher, and the first one is not the "troublesome" you think
Although teachers are a sacred profession, teachers are also ordinary people, they also have emotions, they also need to be respected, and they do not like to be disturbed when they work. Therefore, some parents' practices will make teachers very disliked.
●Treats, gifts, and red envelopes
Something like this, in fact, if it happens between friends, is a normal communication, a kind of emotional connection.
However, if parents invite gifts and send red envelopes to teachers, then the nature has changed, which is not an emotional connection, but a kind of "unspoken rule" behavior.
This kind of behavior is very disgusting to the teacher:
First of all, unspoken rules mean "insults" to teachers, and it is a practice of wealthgiving. To put it bluntly, it is that parents give benefits to teachers, and teachers "work" for parents, which will obviously sweep away the dignity of teachers.
Second, the education system explicitly prohibits such behavior, and teachers who accept the unspoken rules of their parents may face very severe penalties.
Therefore, this kind of thing is not a good thing for the teacher, but a vicious behavior that may ruin his future.
In addition, the teachers' own righteousness is still relatively heavy, can not see these social pickle behavior, parents do this, will only make the teacher look down on the parents, and even affect the teacher's view of the child.
● Disrespect for the teacher's profession
Some parents do not have a high culture, but the sense of superiority is not small, for the kindergarten teacher does not have a correct understanding, think that the kindergarten teacher is "with the child", think that the kindergarten is "the place with the child", let the child go to the kindergarten, is "to play".
Therefore, in the eyes of these parents, the teacher is the nanny, the kindergarten is the entertainment, and then in the contact with the teacher, there will be a very offensive behavior everywhere.
For example, there is some kind of activity in the kindergarten, the teacher wants to let the parents cooperate, and the result is that the parents immediately reply to "what use do you want you to have", which is really popular.
● "Troubled" parents
This kind of parent's care for their children is almost morbid, they can make countless calls to the teacher in a day, and regardless of the time period, without considering what the teacher is doing, whether there is time to answer the phone, and so on.
Such parents have seriously interfered with the normal teaching of the teacher, and also destroyed the teacher's teaching plan, and constantly looking for the teacher will also affect the teacher's work and emotions.
Parents should really think about it in a different position, if every child's parents communicate with the teacher so many times a day, then does the teacher still have time to take care of the child and educate the child? Wouldn't the teacher just sit there all day and call back and reply to messages? Therefore, teachers are also less fond of troublesome parents.
Now that we know the parents that the teacher does not like, how can we make the teacher pay more attention to the child? After all, this is the most concerned issue for most parents.
After your child goes to kindergarten, how can I get my child's attention from my teacher?
Be a punctual and trustworthy parent
The teacher's favorite parent is actually the parent who can pick up the child on time after school. After all, teachers are also ordinary people, and they also hope to leave work on time and get their own free time.
Therefore, if parents want teachers to pay more attention to their children, they must pick up and drop off their children on time and let the teachers have a good impression.
Actively respond to the teacher's call
The class setting of kindergartens is often only two or three teachers (including nursery staff) in a class, and once there is any activity in the kindergarten, it is difficult for the teachers alone to arrange them in time.
Therefore, at this time, parents can respond to the teacher's call in time to help the teacher, so that the teacher will naturally have a deeper impression on the child.
Choose the right time to communicate with the teacher
Although teachers do not like to disturb their parents often, they do not dislike parents who communicate with their children at specific times. For example, when picking up the child after school, the teacher is idle and idle, and parents can take advantage of this time to ask the teacher about the child's situation at school.
Don't underestimate this behavior, this will make the teacher unconsciously pay more attention to the child, after all, subconsciously, the teacher will think that the next time you will communicate with the teacher about these issues.
epilogue
Parents should know how to understand the teacher, treat each other with sincerity, and communicate with the teacher in the right way, so that the teacher can pay more attention to the child and let the child develop better.
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