Children are crazy to chase stars, what attitude should parents have?
Star chasing is a very common phenomenon in the process of children's growth. There are many parents who have headaches because their children chase stars, it is not necessary, we also liked Andy Lau, Chow Yun Fat, Mike Jackson and other stars when we were young, this is a very normal thing, but have you ever wondered why he is so fanatical about star chasing? Is this innate?
This has to be found from the educational environment, that is, if a child is particularly dependent on an external idol, then it is likely to be caused by family education, otherwise he will not be crazy obsessed with stars, mainly because our parents are too concerned about this matter, first of all, parents have worries, afraid that she will become that kind of incurable child in the future; It's that you like to think about things in the future too much, and your parents have amplified this problem all at once, so what will be the result? You will put a lot of pressure on the child, your external education is always criticized, and then his self-esteem is seriously hurt, then he is likely to have a dependent personality, he will especially like to rely on a thing, this dependence will then form a very serious pathology and eventually develop in the direction of fanatical star chasing.
Let's think about it, if your way of educating is not too much of a problem and does not cause this external pressure to the child, and then the child's relationship with the parents is intimate, will he worship idols like this? He believes in his parents, has something to say to his parents, after a period of time will slowly return to his own life, most of the cases children like idols, slowly will get better, so a small child in a certain period of time like something is very normal, parents do not have to worry, you just need to introduce him to better things worth learning, he will be attracted to better things to change; you let him see, and then you can discuss with him, and introduce him to new things, Let him know more about the content, treat this matter with a respectful attitude, advocate beautiful things, is the nature of people, blindly suppress the nature, but it hurts them.