When a woman has a child, she will radiate the radiance of motherhood, become more gentle than before, and be more tolerant of things about children.
It is okay to tolerate your own children, after all, whose children are in pain, but if you ask others to tolerate your children as much as you do, it is a bit selfish.
Take the matter of boys going to the women's toilet, which has always been controversial, most families are mothers with more time with babies, and children are also brought to the toilet by their mothers when they are young.
If it is a small baby can be understood, but three or four years old should have gender awareness, parents should guide children to understand the difference between men and women, whether it is men and women can not go to the toilet of the opposite sex.
But there are always some mothers on the grounds that it is not easy to take the child, the child is five or six years old and still brought into the women's toilet, she is the child's mother does not feel anything, but there are other women in the toilet.
Five- or six-year-old children have long begun to remember, facing a strange boy any woman will feel awkward, but if you look for the boy's mother theory at this time, the mother will say "he is still a child"
If there is really an emergency to enter the women's toilet once, the key is that some selfish mothers do not feel that there is anything wrong with taking their five- or six-year-old sons into the women's toilet, obviously there are mother and baby rooms and children's toilets that do not go, and in turn accuse others of being mean.
Not only the women's toilet, the same is true for the women's bathroom, there are always mothers with boys into the women's bathroom to take a bath, some netizens even met seven or eight-year-old boys into the women's bathroom, it is difficult not to be angry, where is the age limit between the boy entering the women's bathroom and the women's toilet?
Recently, a woman took her son to the women's bathroom to soak in the hot spring, only to be blocked out by the staff, who told the woman that she could not enter and could only play in the entertainment area.
This mother felt that this regulation was unreasonable, because her son was only one year old and eight months old, and she did not understand anything, so she sent it to the Internet to let everyone give comments, and the comment area surprised "prince mother".
A mother with a son expressed her opinion that it is not a bad thing to cultivate the gender awareness of the child early, and she will not let the son see her body since the son can walk, so she feels that the female bathroom staff's approach is reasonable, after all, others will mind.
The netizen said very reasonable, the same mother did not blame anyone, but caused the dissatisfaction of some people, a mother replied to her, she believes that the boy before the age of 6 to see his mother is no problem, the reason is that the son will not be curious when he grows up.
The author read the question mark, how can I not be a boy after the age of 6? Tolerance for children should be limited, which is obviously a bit too much, and no gender boundaries will make children have unhealthy psychology.
Another netizen felt that if it was his own child, it was nothing, but think about it in another way, outsiders will not be so tolerant of other people's children, and more than one year old should let the child know that there is a difference between men and women.
The netizen's remarks are also very mild, but another mother is dissatisfied, and she moved out the sentence "I hope you can say this so rationally after you have children" to respond, is this what the Internet calls "prince mother"?
"Prince mother" refers to the mother who unconditionally shields her son, and even if the son hurts and other female interests, she feels that her son is not wrong.
The author believes that it is reasonable for the bathroom to prevent the mother from taking the boy into the female bathroom, if it is a small baby, it is good for the child who is almost two years old to establish gender awareness early.
The most important thing is that the women's bathroom is not their own bathroom, there are other women, there are many girls, there will definitely be people who mind, boys in the women's bathroom will indeed make people feel uncomfortable, the father-in-law occasion is not their own home, do pay more attention.
If you want to bathe your child, you can let your father take your child into the men's bathroom, all this matter is not insoluble, and the male mother cannot use her own standards for treating children to require everyone, what do you think?