Text | Rice grain mom
Recently, the Winter Olympics are in full swing, it is estimated that many old mothers have opened the door to the new world again, and they are itchy to watch at home, and all kinds of ice and snow sports want to take the baby to dabble in it.
In addition to the classmates and friends who started skiing and skating a few years ago, I know that there are two appointments to learn figure skating, one to play ice hockey, and two to ski.
However, before the "passionate experience" ice and snow sports, the rice grain mother wants to give everyone a variety show "Big Ice Boy" for Amway.
The program team selected 14 players from more than 500 ice hockey players across the country, and in two months, they were combined into a team, trained and played with other teams, completely from the perspective of children, recording the dream daily life of a group of ice hockey players.
Whether it is preparing to cultivate interests for children or to feel the growth brought by competitive sports to children, this variety show is very suitable for the whole family to watch together.
This group of little dolls has two faces
The first interview session of this group of hockey players gave people the feeling that... Cute!
The youngest of them is 6 years old, the oldest is only 9 years old, in the conversation, the children will occasionally be as calm as the little adults, but more often than not, it is still childish.
For example, the small name "Tin Can" is Qiuran, who will be embarrassed to say that he got his name because his head was relatively hard when he was a child;
When eating hot pot, in order to burn a piece of mushroom to the head, I had to record the program with scars, and when asked, I was overwhelmed, and I would playfully respond with my tongue;
But when talking about his favorite hockey ball, tin cans will explain and demonstrate, and their eyes are full of light.
Next, this little friend made the rice grain mother laugh until she couldn't do it, and Zhao Kam of the "old cadre" style just appeared on the field with a cute face;
In the face of three consecutive questions from the four-character brother and Lei leader, Xiao Zhao's standard answer was to "don't know" with an innocent face;
When Lei leader asked him what he wanted to do to participate in the show, Xiao Zhao thought about it for a few seconds, saying that he wanted to go to other cities with the team to "get to know";
Mi Grain's mother thought that he meant that he could go and exchange experiences with ice hockey teams in other cities, but who thought that Zhao Kam said that he wanted to "understand" the health of other cities.
The thinking of the old cadres is indeed different.
There are not only mischievous and lively boys in the team, but also well-behaved and cute girls.
As you can see in the Winter Olympics, ice hockey is actually a very confrontational sport, so on the ice rink, collisions are inevitable.
When Ray asked what to do if he was bumped on the court, 7-year-old Li Anyi sweetly said that they must have been careless, so it didn't matter.
The little girl looked obedient, but her heart was very strong, and she did not show weakness in the pile of boys.
Don't look at the cuteness of these children when they visit, but as soon as they put on professional protective equipment and play ice hockey, that momentum completely subverts the impression of the rice grain mother before!
The program group did not have too many politeness, and on the day the children formed the team, they arranged a game to meet the strong team - the "Flying Bear Red Team" that once played invincible hands of the same age group.
A well-trained veteran team, and a temporary squad that has just formed in the morning and can't call each other's names, the result of the game does not need to spoil the mother of rice.
Even the coaches in the team euphemistically said "mainly defensive", which translates to "don't let the score lose too ugly".
In the face of such a difficult game, how did our young players who were still cute when they were in the front of the game behave?
As soon as he picked up the hockey stick, Zhao Kam changed the style of "old cadres" and bravely moved forward;
In the case of the whole team being suppressed, the 7-and-a-half-year-old Pan Siyan broke through left and right by relying on his speed, impacting the opponent's half and boosting the morale of the whole team;
Sun Siwen was ordered to withstand the pressure, completed many perfect saves when the whole team was behind, and joined forces with Pan Siyan at the last moment to resist the opposing team and score double-digit points;
Knowing that they are young enough to bump into each other, they have no hesitation in completing every fight;
At the end of the fight, the children fell down again and again, but they immediately got up tenaciously and continued to fight;
Even if they lose, they will do their best to fight until the last moment, interpreting the blood and persistence with sweat, because they know that as long as they do not give up, the game is not really over!
Two sides of confidence
The two children who left the deepest impression on The rice grain mother in this show were the two children, Wang Zi (Wang Haoyu) and Pan Siyan.
On the first day of the show, the children just entered the dormitory to settle down, and when the other children were still playing and playing, they had already taken out their homework and silently began to write, what kind of fairy child is this! Mu Mu Mu!
They are like the two male protagonists in the hot-blooded teenager comic, the game is evenly matched, a gentle and humble personality, a confident outgoing.
Even their transition from strange to familiar is an idol drama-like "no fight, no acquaintance" scene.
When the starting lineup was selected for the first game, Pan Siyan and the prince "crossed the line", and in the face of the prince's comments, Pan Siyan was quite dissatisfied, and stood up his chest to refute it.
But the emotions between the teenagers came and went quickly, and soon they became good brothers standing side by side.
Pan Siyan, 7 and a half years old, has already won 14 MVPs in the game, and on the field, as long as he sees Pan Siyan with the ball, he can give people a sense of stability, or the hope of winning.
In the words of Ray's team leader, he is more proud on the ice rink than he is on weekdays.
When the situation on the field is glued, he will react quickly and carry the ball straight into the hinterland of the opponent;
In order to prevent the opponent from scoring, he directly threw himself on the ground and broke the ball with his body;
The ice rink is like his "territory", and Pan Siyan is a small male lion, guarding the ball under the club with his domineering strength and strength.
Talented, solid in his feet, and flexible in mind, these beautiful experiences and good strength are the sources of his self-confidence.
Compared with the domineering Pan Siyan, the prince is more restrained and delicate.
In the eyes of the old mother, Prince Du is a "child of others", sunny and handsome, and his learning and sports are fully online.
For the sake of his beloved ice hockey, even if he has a fever, he must insist on finishing the game, and the sense of responsibility, honor, and tenacity in his eyes cannot be hidden and shiny.
The most important thing is that people are still a big warm man! (There is no intention of abandoning the grain of rice)
When Li Chengyan was unwell, he was the first to notice and helped his brother untie his helmet for massage;
When his teammates have a fever, he will also comfort and take care of them from time to time.
One of them is like the summer sun, blazing and dazzling, the other like the warm winter sun, warm and warm, and the teenagers grow together in each other's competition and shine together.
In these two little boys, The rice grain mother saw two looks of self-confidence.
Visionary parents, with a little "desperate love"
Don't look at the children are only 6 or 7 years old, their "ball age" is about 2 years old, which means that these little dolls are on the ice when they are about 4 years old.
Think about when you were 4 or 5 years old, you still ran around the neighborhood every day.
It is often said in the barrage that it is appropriate for such a young child to participate in such a fierce sport? Are parents too cruel?
Indeed, those little dolls on the ice rink have been knocked down, climbed up, and knocked down again and again, and whoever looks at it will be distressed, let alone the parents of the children?
They actually sat in the audience outside the stadium and watched, gritting their teeth, nervously cheering the children and encouraging them to get up strong after falling.
Heartache but restraint, because they know that it is in this fall and rise that children gradually learn to persevere, cooperate, and take responsibility.
After one game after another, children will slowly understand that even if there is tenacious willpower and the strength to not accept defeat, even if you have paid everything for it, you still can't win in the end, competitive sports are so, life is even more so.
Just like the yusheng yu string written by Miri's mother in "Why everyone loves them both, after watching their mother, I finally understand", sometimes I will not be reconciled, and I will question why my efforts have not yielded results.
But next time, they will choose to start again and try their best again.
Life is not a sprint, but a marathon, this kind of "determination to persevere again, the courage to do it again", is not exactly what we want children to understand?
So when Pan Siyan began to trust his teammates and learn to cooperate with them, he found that the team was the force that supported his breakthrough;
Little Crying Bag Li Chengyan calmly accepted the failure of the campaign captain and said, "I don't blame anyone, I only blame me for being inferior to Pan Siyan";
When choosing teammates, "you can't choose the weak one, so it seems that you are not strong." "Dong Yang, Sun Siwen, who wants to train hard to enter the national team, Li Anyi, who is braver than boys...
These are all the appearances of growth.
When sending the child into the team, the parents' farewell session also made the rice grain mother very touched.
6 and 7-year-old children who have never lived alone outside, a walk is 60 days, the rice grain mother brought in, even if the rice grain is so big, I am afraid that it is difficult for me to go for two months.
It can be seen that although parents are reluctant to do so, they also understand that letting go is for the better growth of their children.
Children always have to leave the protection of their parents to bravely face the unknown, will encounter difficulties, and will learn to solve themselves, even if it is possible to experience setbacks or failures, but for children, it is a valuable experience that they have personally tried and experienced.
Understand that growing up is a decent goodbye, and we watch our children fall and get up, and finally run in the wind.
I really didn't expect that a cute baby variety show can make the rice grain mother so touched, I believe that everyone will have a lot of their own feelings after watching it!
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