Text | Rice grain mom
Last week, I had a terrifying time.
After the emergency suspension of classes in the East and West Sides on Monday, I filled in various information in the class notification group almost every day: the situation of the students leaving work, the situation of the co-residents, and the situation of the flow solitaire.
Every time I filled out one, I was afraid that the teacher would not send a notice: it will not be used for school tomorrow. This was the last straw that overwhelmed the middle-aged mother.
After carefully delivering the grains of rice to school in the morning, I panicked again, informing the group if a notification would suddenly pop up: speed to pick up the child and take it home.
Shivering.
I only hope that the earth does not explode, and the school does not stop!
Fortunately, this week did not wait for the suspension notice, however, the rice grain football class did not wait for the suspension.
I thought it was only temporary, a big deal to go bouldering.
Unexpectedly, the city suspended all offline training.
The grain of rice asked me: Why is this happening? The children in the East Side stayed at home for at least 3 days, and he did not stay for 1 day, but the football class was gone???
I didn't pay attention to him.
After all, for me, as long as I don't take online classes at home, any result is a good result.
A few days ago, a friend pushed me a video:
At home with the baby for three days of online classes, the mother was so angry that she broke down and cried.
In the video, the mother wept bitterly:
"He couldn't keep up with one step at a time, he couldn't keep up with his steps, and the teacher said that he couldn't find it when he took out the textbook and turned the page, so I watched him and was still picking the eraser there...."
All the mothers who have experienced their children staying from January to September, and after the winter vacation and summer vacation, they understand that it is so desperate to accompany their babies to online classes.
It is known that the child learns ordinary, and after being sent to school, at least he can only understand his general knowledge when he is tutoring homework after school.
After taking online classes, all day long, you can know how pudd he is.
You can even see the whole process of his slow progress from pu to slag, powerless, anxious to catch fire, and be hit every moment, but the eraser in his hand has never been put down.
At this moment, you are eager to blow up all the erasers in the world in situ.
After a day of online classes, blood pressure really can't stand it.
If the rice grain is suspended, I can only send him to the rice grain grandmother's house.
Usually, go 1 day or 2 days a week, and rice grains are still very rare.
There is no need to learn, the old and the young play chess, play a card, learn to stir-fry a dish, all of which is the joy of the world.
When it comes to online classes, the style of painting changes.
When I go to work, I get a call from my grandmother every 45 minutes, very punctual:
The address of the online course can not be found, the textbook can not be found, the book can not be found, the rice grain can not be found...
At the end of the day, the relationship with my mother's mother and daughter was in jeopardy, and when I went to pick up the child at night, my grandmother pulled me and asked bitterly:
"You weren't like this when you were a child, why don't you love to learn so much? I really can't manage it, the homework does not know whether it is finished, you go home and check it yourself, anyway, three meals a day are not delayed, and the meal is also finished. “
It can be said that as soon as the online class was taken, the whole family suffered, and now looking back on the years when people turned over on their horses, my heart still twitched.
Nightmares roll in.
At the beginning of the week, the class notification group was quiet.
My heart also settled a lot.
To be honest, the epidemic is a top priority, we must unconditionally support, really want to suspend classes, not a second will delay.
It's just that now I have only a small wish, I hope that the epidemic can be controlled as soon as possible, and the class can be stopped one day late.
Looking at the state of these days, I can't help but boldly estimate that as long as I resist this week, there should be no worries about class suspension.
Come on Beijing!
Rice grains are a little scornful of my timid and cautious attitude.
He asked me repeatedly: What is there to worry about? Am I so reluctant to spend time with him?
I told him, "Is that ordinary day and night together?" That's a day to accompany you to online classes and take you to study! There is only one heart and it doesn't feel enough. "
Grain rice said, "You don't want to, you can let Daddy come." ”
While picking up his mobile phone, His father said very coldly: "No, your father is worse and more unwilling." ”
The grain of rice suddenly showed great confusion and questioned us: "Is it so difficult to accompany me to write homework?" ”
I laughed and patiently analyzed with him:
"Don't you know yourself?" A homework, you are not to drink water is to pull, 30 minutes can be written homework, you can write 3 hours; after writing, you can also make a mistake of half, correct the mistake is not humble, not wrestling or crying, I am time-consuming and laborious and heart-consuming, you say it is not difficult. “
After speaking, the rice grain skimmed his mouth and muttered: "I am not easy, the homework is many and difficult, I can't finish it." “
"So, I'm going to send you to school and let professional people do professional things, and you see that with the help of the teacher, you don't write fast and right?!"
"Yes. However, if the class is really suspended at home, I will try to drink as little water as possible, and I will try to write the questions correctly, so that you don't consider letting me be at home?? “
"I said this is not counted, for the sake of the whole family, let's try not to stop the class."
After the whole family talked with all their hearts and lungs, Rice Grain was still a little obsessed with the suspension of classes.
In his mind, the suspension of classes ≈ a holiday.
He heard that Dongcheng's hair was small, and after the suspension of classes the next day, after going to eat a hot pot at noon, his envy and jealousy reached its peak.
Therefore, every day I strongly demand and supervise me, to complete the various notices in the group, especially the matter of his offline football class, must be reported in detail.
Every morning, he would take my mobile phone to read the notifications in the group, the breakfast was also trying to chew slowly, the shoelaces were slowly tied, in short, until the last moment, he was determined not to go out.
At the school gate, I was also hesitant to look at my mobile phone before entering the school gate.
I knew what he was waiting for, and he knew what I was afraid of.
After all, last week, I won.
On Monday, when the grain of rice was about to tie a flower on his shoelaces, I told him:
Now that the epidemic is under control, you can go to school with confidence, the whole country is strictly controlling and preventing, and countless "big whites" are working hard to pay their hard work.
Therefore, please don't think about it, study hard, it is the greatest reward for your family and society.
He looked up at me and said unconvincingly: "I know, I'm just afraid that we didn't see the news in time and dragged the epidemic back." “
I told him: "You stared at my phone early in the morning, the phone is about to be spontaneously combusted by your stare, in the message part, you will not fall behind, go to school, speed." ”
On the way to deliver the grains of rice to school, I was pleasantly surprised to smell the sun.
Last week, there was a snow in Beijing, and this week, Monday, the weather warmed up and there was sunshine in the early morning.
The moment the grain of rice entered the school gate with his school bag, there was sunlight shining down, as if following his footsteps.
I feel like spring is really coming.
Lately, a lot of people are looking back: what were you doing in the spring/summer before the pandemic before 2019.
Hahaha, I don't have to think, as a parent of a primary school student, the spring before the epidemic was just like today in sending children to school.
It's just that the ordinary of the past, the happiness of the present.
However, without experiencing the pain of online classes, how to be a mommy of a primary school student.
I firmly believe that soon, our mothers who take online classes at home will be able to send their children to school early.
After all, spring will come and the children will eventually go to school!
Don't worry, than heart
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