Text | Rice grain mom
When the rice grain was young, he loved to join in the fun, and his melon-eating nature was more obvious after the double reduction.
Last time I came home from work and passed by the community garden, I was far away and saw rice grains and a group of friends lined up on the stone steps to watch the liveliness.
They occupied the best viewing point for eating melons, their hands in their pockets, like a row of sparrows standing on a telephone pole, twisting their heads in unison to the quarreling crowd, watching with relish.
From the quarrel in the community to the cooling off period for the divorce of the parents of classmates, there is no melon that the rice grains cannot be eaten.
However, this can't all be blamed on the grain of rice, his gossip genes are more or less with me. Although in reality I don't dare to go to the front to join in the fun (mainly for fear of being injured by mistake), I am a 5G surfer on the Internet, always walking on the front line of eating melons!
Needless to say, I also especially love to watch some police documentaries, sitting at home to watch the show is not only safe and secure, can eat a complete melon, but also can receive legal education, it is simply a three-for-one!
Recently, The Rice Grain Mother has just finished chasing a domestic "god-level" documentary "Guardian of the Liberation of the West", which has been out to the third season, and after chasing for three seasons, I said that its handsome police officer's excitement makes me want to stop.
Privately put a small Qi police officer, please weld the gold wire glasses to the face! From Officer Yi Dian in the first season, Officer Liu Xijun in the second season, and then Officer Qi Xiangyu in the third season, Po Suo fiercely pinched the traffic password!
In the official introduction, this is an observation program focusing on the police of The Pozi Street Police Station in Changsha City and showing the police documentary of the bustling business district, but as the rice mother of the melon-eating masses, the case inside simply opened the door to my new world!
Illustration of human confused behavior
As soon as the third season returned, there was a case that shattered my three views.
One woman called the police to say she had been watched and beaten by a man.
When the police heard that this was no small matter, they quickly brought both sides back to the office to understand the situation. This interrogation does not matter, but really called the police to ask out a fierce material, the policeman and the man who beat the person have a 5-year-old child!
In the police population, the man not only did not recognize her and the child, but also installed video surveillance on her, beat her with an iron rod, and the iron rod was bent.
The "scumbag alarm" sounded in the head of the rice grain mother at that time, is it difficult to believe that this is a subordinate man who abandons his wife and abandons his son and commits domestic violence?
But what happened next reversed too quickly and almost flashed my waist.
The first was the policeman showing the wounds of the man beaten with an iron rod.
The wound she said about bending the iron rod was only a slight scraping on the finger, and when the doctor arrived at the hospital, he would say, "Fortunately, you came early, and the wound will heal a minute later!" ”
Immediately afterward, the police took the surveillance of the scene of the incident and found that there was indeed harassment and surveillance.
However, all this is what the police did to the boys!
For more than three consecutive months, she squatted at the door of the studio every day, chased and blocked the boy in the corridor, and drove away the customers and students who came to the door, and finally beat a rake to say that the boy harassed her.
Do you remember when she called the police that she had a 5-year-old with the boy? After the police inquired, they learned that the boy was just 21 years old this year, they did not know each other before, and the child of the policeman had nothing to do with the boy.
Whether it is reasoning or posing evidence, it is out of the big spectrum!
The woman's series of riots, the rice grain mother was shocked to see it, the harassed boys were helpless, and even the people's police who had experienced hundreds of battles also said that they were speechless and went home.
But the case has to continue.
The police contacted the family of the policeman by telephone, and after questioning, they learned that she was stimulated by divorce in her early years, her mental condition was wrong, and her family did not pay attention to her, which made her become what she is today.
Although pitiful, she harassed others and deliberately slandered and even obstructed official duties, and if she did not discipline them, I am afraid that she would only cause great mistakes.
Under the persuasion of the police, the policeman promised not to harass the boy again, just when we all thought we could breathe a sigh of relief, I did not expect that her words turned around, and she actually said to PengGe, who handled the police situation, Are you willing to marry me?
Peng Ge listened to it and almost wanted to escape from the slope overnight.
Originally, the rice grain mother was holding the mentality of watching the lively knowledge, after all, the melon in the police station could not eat at all, this time there was a program group to follow the whole process, and also invited the famous law professor Luo Xiang to do off-site explanations, we can also accept the "popularization of law education" in a bright and upright way.
But the more I looked at it, the more I felt that this melon was not eating right.
Things like this invert black and white happen almost every day, and even people who lie are getting younger and younger!
"Perfect Victim" Pinocchio
Everyone told the fairy tale "Pinocchio" to the baby, and the liar's nose will become longer.
But the child in this case perfectly conceals the nose that has become elongated because of lying with a mask of innocence.
"You have a new police information, please pay attention to the collection", one night, the police at the Pozi Street police station received a "catch it" order.
The police were a 9-year-old boy who said that the adults in the family were not there, that he was suffering from domestic violence, and that his sister had his neck and pressed it on the bed, asking for help from the police.
The police criticized and educated her sister, turned around and praised the little boy for being smart and knowing how to use the weapon of the law to protect himself.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, the police at the police station saw a familiar figure in the monitoring of another case.
A toy store in the city center reported to the police, saying that there are always children stealing things in the store, and after the police police took the monitoring, they found that the boy who stole things was actually the boy who called the police a few days ago and said that he was abused!
The police quickly found the little boy, did not expect to see the police, the little boy first grievanced, nervously said that he was also coerced, because there was a sixth-grade child at their school threatened him, if he did not steal something, he would beat him.
But the police have been handling cases for many years, and their rich experience and intuition tell them that this child is likely to be lying.
In order to confirm the suspicion, they found the school teacher to understand the situation, checked a lot of surveillance, and finally determined that the boy was lying, that the sixth grader in his mouth did not exist, and that this was not the first time he had stolen!
Although the result was guessed early in the morning, at the moment of confirmation, the police were still very surprised and sad, the child was too "smart", the lie came out of his mouth, and almost deceived the police.
From being "domestic violence" to being "coerced" to steal, this little boy has always packaged himself as a perfect victim, and the innocence of the child is regarded by him as the best protective color.
Under the careful questioning of the police, I learned that the boy was spoiled by too many family members when he was a child, what to give, and as a result, the child grew up, and he often quarreled with his sister, and he did not get what he wanted or did not like it and began to twist his brain.
By the time parents finally realize that their parents are not doing the right thing, the child has already made a mistake, and it is not easy to change a spoiled child.
Their self-righteous "good for the child" makes the little boy mistakenly think that he can do anything without a bottom line, anyway, there will always be someone to go to the bottom, as everyone knows, this kind of bottomless "love" will only bring harm to everyone.
You think sex education is too early, and bad people are not too small for children
In the above case, fortunately, the parties have not suffered too much substantial harm.
But in the following cases, the sisters of the daughters looked at it leisurely, and anyway, after I read it, my blood pressure was rubbing.
The little sisters went out to play, and everyone ate and drank and talked, and a strange man took advantage of their lack of preparation and took one of the girls.
When the other girls found out that the little sister was missing, they were so anxious that they were about to cry.
Sisters think, drunk + strange man, these two keywords superimposed together, making people's backs chill.
Several girls hurried to the police station to report to the police, the police took the monitoring along the way, and repeatedly compared through the sky eye system, and finally tracked the girl's whereabouts.
The police rushed to the destination with the girl's friends and found the girl in time.
It is also thanks to the boy slamming the door, reluctant to open a room in the bar near the place of the incident, taking the girl to travel several kilometers, until he walked to the hotel that the boy had opened before, just 10 minutes before the police arrived, they had just walked to the hotel, which did not have time to make a big mistake.
But not all girls are so lucky.
The following case made the rice grain mother look at it with pain and anger.
The complainant, a mother from Shenzhen, said her 12-year-old daughter, Xiaoling, was raped and pregnant when she came to Changsha to play.
The 12-year-old girl, who was supposed to play and study carefree on the elementary school campus, was 12 weeks pregnant and had to take a break from school to recuperate at home.
What shocked me the most was the attitude of Xiaoling's mother, when she learned about this matter, her first reaction was not to call the police, but to take Xiaoling to a private hospital for abortion first.
The private hospital refused to accept treatment, so they went to the public hospital again, and as a result, the doctor of the public hospital found that the situation was not right and immediately called the police. (Here's a manual thumbs up for hospital doctors.) ）
After the suspect Zhang Mou arrived at the case, he also had a good word, feeling that he did not force Xiaoling, and the two belonged to "you love me".
But the suspect knew that the other party was under the age of 14 and had a relationship with him, which not only hurt the other party, but also pushed himself into the abyss of crime.
Under the patience of the police officers, Zhang finally realized his mistake and cooperated with the police to collect blood samples to do DNA.
But the results of the appraisal gave an even more surprising fact!
Zhang is not the biological father of the embryo, which means that Xiaoling has also had sexual relations with other men.
The police were also shocked to see the results of the appraisal and immediately called Xiaoling's mother, hoping to continue tracking the other suspects.
Unexpectedly, Xiaoling's mother just said coldly that she was busy at work and had no time to cooperate, saying that she was unwilling to take care of this matter anymore, but the police handling the case said that they would continue to investigate.
The police are more concerned about the child than the mother, and the rice grain mother sees the unspeakable heartache of Xiaoling here.
If I had a daughter, I would have to take care of her with all kinds of care, and this mother did not want to know anything about her daughter's inner world and dating environment, although Zhang paid the price of the law, but the harm that Xiaoling had suffered had indeed happened...
Every time I see a case involving minors, the heart of the rice grain mother will be even heavier.
Behind these children, who should have grown up healthy and happy in the sun, have been violated for various reasons, or have become infringers on others, behind this, not only do children have a wrong perception of "freedom", but also the disqualification of parental education.
Family education is a particularly important part of a child's growth. Only when we as parents continue to learn, grow, be responsible for ourselves, and be responsible for our children, can we give them higher quality love and water these small saplings to thrive.
More importantly, don't forget to tell your child that freedom is never the freedom of indulgence, and freedom should be the freedom of moderation.
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