At present, the child's condition has improved, but the vision has not yet returned to normal levels, which makes people feel sad and regretful. Reflecting the many deficiencies in the process of parents' education of their children, this makes us as parents wake up, what should we do to treat our children?
Trust your own children
When it comes to trusting children, many parents will say that there are too many "bear children", very clever, trickery and more than enough to prevent, even if the child's mischievous mischief is nature, parents should also judge carefully after the child reflects the problem.
As a parent, do not rush to deny and blame the child, psychological orientation should choose to believe their children, and give corresponding feedback and support in time.
Parents can only give their children enough trust, and children will fully trust their parents, otherwise children really have a lot of things that they dare not talk to their parents, which is the greatest sadness.
respect
In today's relatively stressful life, everyone is wrapped in overwhelming information, and parents are prone to various negative emotions.
"Compare parents", "irritable parents", publicly blame children, do not pay attention to children's ideas, forget to fulfill the promises they made, do not have the patience to listen to their children...
These behaviors are destroying the child's self-esteem, which will make the child lose self-confidence and lose confidence in learning and life.
The first thing parents have to do is to respect their children, to treat them as an independent person, to be able to talk to themselves on an equal footing, and to help form children's self-confidence.
Love and support
There was a girl who had reached adulthood and still talked to her mother, and she and her mother said that there was a friend next to her who was unexpectedly pregnant and did not dare to tell her family.
The mother said to her daughter, "You see if this friend needs help, the mother can provide money and other aspects of support, you accompany her to the most formal hospital for examination and surgery, you must take physical health and safety as the first...
Even if you encounter an accident one day, don't be afraid and hide, there is a mother, no matter how big things we face together. ”
It can be seen that no matter how big the child encounters, the love and support of parents is the best education. On the contrary, from childhood to adulthood, give the child enough love and support, and pass on the most positive messages :"You are safe", "We all love you", "You are the most worthy of being loved"..., giving the child the confidence to face everything.
It is not difficult to "be" a parent, and it is not necessarily easy to become a qualified parent, and it is not necessarily easy to conscientiously implement every step and break through every level in the "big project" of parenting.