Just now, Gu Ailing won a gold medal for the Chinese team. Some people once predicted that there will be a superstar in the entertainment industry in 2022. The launch of the Beijing Winter Olympics and the birth of Gu Ailing seem to confirm this prediction.
Gu Ailing
18-year-old Gu Ailing, is of mixed Chinese and American descent, and she followed her mother's grandmother, and she resolutely chose to become a Chinese national and represent China in the Winter Olympics.
How good is she? Fluent in English plus Chinese, bilingual free switching; excellent academic performance, two years to complete high school studies, and was admitted to Stanford University in the United States with a high score of 1480 (out of 1500); healthy skin color, good looks, tall head, more importantly, self-confidence from the inside out; she is good at various instruments and sports, is a model, an artist, an athlete, holding more than 20 international endorsements such as LV...
Even when she appeared next to the top superstar Yi Qianxi, the fans not only did not have acid, but also shouted that Yi Qianxi was not worthy. Netizens said that Gu Ailing probably took the script of the shuangwen heroine, what window did God close for her?
In fact, looking at Gu Ailing's growth experience, you will find that it is precisely because her mother Gu Yan chose the right track in educating her children that Gu Ailing's success has been achieved.
Gu Ailing and mother Gu Yan
"No one is perfect, I don't ask my children to become 'perfect people', don't compare with people, and most importantly, don't give up learning for a lifetime." This is the parenting concept shared by Gu Yan, she even indulges children to learn laziness, develop various hobbies that are "not doing the right thing", and give up the key learning that is too far away in order to let the children sleep more.
Those parents who have many requirements and all kinds of chicken babies, many of them have raised rebellious children. And Gu Yan did not require children, but also achieved Gu Ailing, what is the matter?
First of all, talk about the track that Gu's mother chose for Gu Ailing, "environment + gene" has made her win at the starting line. Gu Yan, who graduated from the Department of Chemical Engineering at Peking University, stayed on Wall Street after studying in the United States. The United States has the best resources in the world and the most free and relaxed environment.
Gu Yan, who has a high IQ and high education, later chose her ex-husband, who also graduated from Stanford, and gave birth to a child who was both high in business. Again, this is genetically, winning over 99 percent of people.
Secondly, Gu Yan's education method is not to have no requirements for children, but to use another way to encourage children to be strict with themselves. She says she never hits the child's creativity and praises her efforts.
When he has excellent results, his mother's praise is not an encouragement, which makes Gu Ailing have more courage to rush forward. Therefore, when her grandmother came to the field, she would be so nervous, just hoping to perform well in front of her family.
In addition, Gu Yan checks every important level of Gu Ailing. For example, she allowed Gu Ailing to sleep ten hours a day without folding the quilt, instead of forcing her children to stay up late to read.
Does this mean that she does not pay attention to her children's learning? Of course not, she would take her children to Beijing's Haidian district for training every year, telling her that studying there for a few days could catch up with the United States for a year. Because although American schools are free, the quality of teaching content is far inferior to that of the fiercely competitive domestic country. She combined the advantages of Chinese education with the advantages of the Western model to send her daughter all the way to a prestigious school.
Finally, she created an environment of love and trust for Gu Ailing. In Gu Ailing, who cried her heart out because of her illness and lost her memory because of a ski fall, she did not force the child to give up, but accompanied her with love and surrounded her with a trusted hug.
When you see Gu Ailing no matter what shot he faces, he is always talking and confident, but after the game, he makes more than a dozen phone calls to find his mother. You will know what it is like for a child raised by a truly good parent: with maturity and calmness in the face of society, but also with dependence and pampering in the face of parents.
Chinese has always paid attention to education issues, and the children's Chinese studies teachers of the two yimen have not also shared many cases of ancient education. But there are also ways and skills to educate children, and it is also necessary to choose the right platform and track for children. This is something that all parents need to learn for life, what do you think?