Coordinates Weihai. A few days ago, our family of three went to the badminton hall on Hainan Road to play, and a very young couple on the same field warmly invited us to play together, and everyone had a good time. Unexpectedly, when I was leaving, the little couple came over and said a word to us, which touched me.
They said, "Uncle and aunt, thank you for playing badminton with us!" At that time, listening to this sentence, I felt warm in my heart, and it was clear that we were accompanied by each other, and it was clear that the two people were not very old, but they were so grateful, and they were instantly impressed with each other.
Here a badminton court can accommodate 4 people, you can choose to fight, but this fight is very affecting the play, one is that the next group will be deflected from time to time to cause interference, and the other is because of the fear of interfering with the people next to it, when playing, you must always be careful and cannot play to the fullest.
So after a short fight, the little beauty next to us invited us to fight, we gladly accepted, the two sides cooperated very tacitly, more than an hour, we played sweaty, very happy.
Seeing that the two were so sensible, I asked them how to go back, whether they could take a ride along the way, and the little beauty said that they would take a taxi and go to Han Le Fang in a while, and I said: "That is just the way." The little beauty jumped up happily and said, "Thank you aunt so much, otherwise we would have to take a taxi." ”
In fact, we are not on the way, in Fenghe we are going to go west, I hinted to my husband not to say broken, I sent them over.
It was snowing heavily outside, and I was chatting on the road, only to learn that the two were still studying in college, living in Xindu Community, junior high school was Xindu Middle School, and they were their son's brothers and sisters. We have also lived in Xindu for over 10 years, so it feels very homely.
When we arrived at our destination, the two thanked each other again, and we happily broke up.
A few days later, we went to the badminton hall to play, and coincidentally, this time we met 3 of our sons' former junior high school classmates, one of whom lived next to the old house in our original new capital.
They came over and warmly invited their sons to play together, and their sons gladly went, because they were 3 people and they were also buying a fight, so I took the initiative to quit and let the 4 children play together.
20 yuan / hour for a person, I thought that if the children come to give me money, I don't want it, as long as the children have fun, the right when I am invited, and then the children in school have no money. But the 3 of them played the whole time with peace of mind and seemed to completely ignore this matter.
When I had had enough to play, I carried 3 children to the Fenghe intersection, they opened the car door like rabbits, and suddenly jumped out of the shadow, not even a word of thanks, and slammed the car door, feeling that the car door was going to fall.
At this time, the son sitting next to me skimmed his lips and looked at me with a disdainful look, and the subtext was that I abused kindness and helped people who should not be helped.
In fact, when I opened my mouth to say that I wanted to carry them, I saw that my son was not very willing, and halfway I said to send them to the community, and my son also signaled with his eyes that I was not necessary, and after they got off the bus, they complained: "They also played a private room in front of them today, and drank a lot of sports drinks, how they also spent hundreds of dollars, not bad money at all, in the middle to buy back drinks, but also only care about their own buried drinks, completely ignoring my existence." ”
In fact, it is normal for the son to have emotions, the children he met twice are really worlds apart, the first two children, Zhishu Dali, let people feel warm, and willingly help, the second time the children also helped, and did not expect anything in return, but it is true that what they did, let people feel very unhappy.
The behavior of several children also reflects the parents' usual tutoring.
I thought about it for a moment and said to my son: "Through a relationship, to understand a person, there is nothing to lose, and the same is true in daily life, when encountering the same three views, everyone may become a good friend, on the contrary, it is like a strange road; but the most important point is that people must have a grateful heart, so that they will have more friends, get more help, and become people that everyone likes." ”
My son nodded silently, and also agreed with my point of view, hoping that my son could also be a grateful person in later life.