Introduction: The baby's old items, these things look new do not send people, so as not to hurt feelings, do not understand
After having a baby at home, everywhere you have to spend money, like diapers, milk powder, bottles, clothes, carts, etc., and the baby grows fast, many things do not take long to buy again, buy and buy the home is piled up into a mountain, everywhere you can see baby items, after this situation, many parents want to give some new things to relatives and friends, otherwise directly throw away feel strange, this can also help others, it is also a good thing. I wonder if you've ever done that?
Some people are very willing to accept gifts from others, and they can spend less money when they receive other people's old things, but once something bad happens, some parents may not be happy, good things become bad things, and the two families who got along very well were hurt because this hurt harmony.
A few days ago friends came home, the bottle was bitten by the baby, the friend was going to go out to buy, at this time the friend's sister-in-law said not to buy, there are clean bottles at home, but also said that before the bottle was not used after cooking twice, so far it has not fallen ash, but also like new, see the sister-in-law said so, friends are not good to refuse, so they will be the bottle again hot washed again to soak the milk for the baby to drink, did not expect that in the middle of the night when the baby cried non-stop, how to coax not good, toss a night did not sleep.
Friends look for the reason, think it must be the problem of the bottle, the next day to find the sister-in-law theory, the result is that both of them are red ears and thick necks. The baby does not know whether it is a problem with the bottle, but as soon as this kind of thing happens, it is easy to think of the bottle, after all, it is a second-hand item, so for their own good, but also for the good of others, do not casually send the baby's old items, think twice.
Baby's old items, these things look new don't give away, so as not to hurt feelings, don't understand! Check it out.
The first is the baby's used bottles, food bowls and other things. Some parents have simple ideas, think that it looks like there is no bump, intact, and then washed, it is okay to give it to others, it is definitely not right to do so. Because they are after all food items, it is particularly easy to breed bacteria, and cleaning can not guarantee 100% sterilization, so it is too inappropriate for others to use, in case the other party's baby uses a problem, it would have been a good thing to become a bad thing.
The second is the shoes that your baby wears. Some parents love to buy clothes, may be two or three times to wear the baby to replace the new, then these old shoes look like new, think it is good to give away, if you do it is wrong. Because each baby's foot type is different, wearing shoes worn by others will affect the development of the baby's feet, and it may also be because the shoes are worn through the bacteria that breed bacteria to make the feet infected with long athlete's foot, so the shoes are not new, unless the shoes are bought small once and are not worn, such a gift is OK.
The third is the toy that the baby often carries in his mouth. Many toys are not bad to play, but after the age is not suitable for the baby to play, so some parents want to give these toys to others, the mood is good, but pay attention to the distinction, some toys are bitten by the baby do not send, especially the other party is a small baby's family can not send, otherwise the baby bites the toy is easy to get sick from the mouth.
The fourth is the baby's intimate clothes. Many people love to receive other people's clothes, think that the baby grows fast, there is no need to buy clothes all day, just wear the old one, just someone likes to send clothes, if the baby wears no problem, if there is a problem, there will definitely be contradictions. I have encountered this situation before, the mother-in-law has to accept other people's old clothes, when the baby sleeps in her, the mother-in-law will change the baby, once because of wearing other people's old autumn clothes, there are a lot of red dots, which scares me not lightly, since then I have explicitly forbidden not to let the mother-in-law receive such clothes again.
These kinds of items should not be given away, must be remembered, so as not to affect the feelings, have you done it right?