What can a 16-year-old understand? When encountering difficult problems, it is difficult to solve them alone, talk to parents, find teachers to enlighten, and find classmates to relax. I thought it was normal to go out and relax, but I didn't bring anything, just wearing a black down jacket and white sneakers and running away from home.
When Li Mengxue left home, he didn't bring anything, didn't say anything, only left a piece of paper for his father, saying: "Dad, I am in the river in our village, see this paper, you take me home", the father saw the note and was devastated, hurriedly called the police to deal with it, after many days of searching, finally found the child.
I thought she would go home healthy, just go out to relax her emotions, but after seeing the child, the father burst into tears, and the father could no longer hear the child say: "Daddy, I'm back, I'm a little hungry, cook for me to eat", when li Mengxue was found, she had lost her vital signs and left this world forever.
She thought that the child's writing of the note was just angry words, but she still left, leaving the family forever, leaving her father who loved her deeply. The child has a bad personality from an early age, and in 2019, he was raised by his father alone, and occasionally quarreled with himself over some things, but this time there was no sign.
When he left the house, the child did not bring anything, and his mobile phone and ID card were at home. However, there was no quarrel with his father at that time, and with the help of volunteers and the efforts of the police, sonar detection was conducted on the river water 1,000 meters away from his home, and the remains of the girl were found, which had no vital signs at that time.
The child ran away from home, lost contact for many days and did not return, the saddest is the parents, thinking of working hard to earn money, for the child to study and study, and find a stable job in the future, but the result? The 16-year-old child left him forever, and there was no goal in his heart, and his father's mood could be imagined.
The most tragic thing in this world is not life and death, but the white-haired people sending the black-haired people, and the children die young, leaving only the family to endure the pain. If there is a chance, even if the parents leave for the children, the parents are willing, but in this world, there is no regret medicine.
Perhaps, we should think deeply about whether we really understand the child's thoughts while paying attention to the child's grades. Thinking that children study hard, can achieve excellent results, and have a stable job when they grow up, but the pressure of it, who can understand how many students who suffer from depression at a young age?
Parents' mood can be understood, everyone hopes that the child can get ahead and can complete their unfulfilled wishes, but they ignore the child's ideas and only care about instilling the idea of good learning to the child, but how many parents can really consider the child? Although the results are important, there are indeed people in the future, but there are physical problems, and no one can do anything.
The impact of family education on children is far-reaching, not to mention the divorce of parents, the child's psychology is inevitably some fragile and sensitive, perhaps not a quarrel or a contradiction, so that she chooses to use such a method to escape the facts to leave the world, but all the contradictions and emotions are backlogged together, becoming the last straw that crushes her.
Don't look at the young age of children, but they face a lot of problems, adults know how to relieve stress and release the emotions in their hearts. But she is only 16 years old this year, if she is still in school, but she is a sophomore in high school, what can she understand? When you can't solve it yourself and don't ask others for help, you can only go to the extreme under the depression of emotional collapse.
I don't know whether the times have changed, or personal concepts have changed, there are no problems in this world that cannot be solved, there are contradictions and difficulties, they cannot be solved by themselves, they can completely rely on the help of others, life is only once, they do not enjoy a good life, they do not experience a happy life, they leave early, somewhat regrettably.
I hope that when you educate your children, you should not only pay attention to their children's achievements, not too strict requirements for children, but also pay attention to their hearts, although grades are important, but health is the most important, everyone can not ignore. I also hope that the girl's father can mourn, after all, the matter has come to an end, and life will continue.