Zhengzhou, Henan. Near the beginning of the school, a mother found that her daughter's homework was not finished, and usually when she was told to study, she had great resistance, so she decided to use a "cruel move" to burn the book in front of the child, and the child was scared to stand in the same place and did not dare to speak. Netizen: Mom fulfilled her childhood dream.
The child's father, Mr. Tan, said: The daughter usually loves to play, does not like to learn, just close to the beginning of the school, the child's mother thought of a way, burned all her books, but the burned books are useless, but the child does not know, thinking that they are all books to be used at the beginning of the school, and the next day the mother took her to school to get new books.
From the video, you can see that the child is standing by the fire, seeing that his books have been burned by his mother, he is very scared, his eyes are staring straight, but his body does not dare to move. At least in this moment, the child is aware of the seriousness of the mother.
However, for such a practice, many netizens have given different views, thinking that such a method is not advisable, perhaps at this moment of burning books, seeing that the daughter is afraid, parents think that the purpose of education has been achieved, but from another point of view, children will not feel that if the learning problem cannot be solved, they can use the way of burning books to replace it.
In fact, we can all understand the reasons for parents' irritability, now the pace of society is accelerating, everyone will experience a lot of pressure in their usual work and life, at this time, when they return home, they see their children playing and making trouble, they don't love to learn, and they will definitely have some blockages in their hearts. But think about it in another way, when we were young, we didn't love to play. If my parents burned the books at that time, would they be able to learn on their own? Not necessarily.
Children do not love to learn, in fact, this premise is not right. At this time, we have to talk about another question, what do children really like to learn? Is he really interested in anything? Many children may be very focused from childhood, often a puzzle, a book can be optimistic for a long time, but with the problem of school, it is urgent, if the amount of questions is large, just look at the daze resistance.
Instead of scaring him, it is better to use a variety of ways such as life, gamification, hands-on operation and scenario simulation to change the child's rote learning style, through the eyes to see, mouth to recite, ear to listen, with strokes, with body performances, etc. to stimulate the child's brain nerves, so that the brain is in a very excited and peaceful state when learning, the learning efficiency at this time will be high, and the problem of attention and rubbing will also be improved.
In addition, the learning environment is also very important, take the child to the place where the readers are concentrated, such as: bookstore, library, university study room, downtown, let the child take the camera to take the quietest and impress his reading scene, each time to go for half a day. Print out the photos taken by the child, paste it on the wall of the home and the room where the child learns to rest, so that the whole family can feel the quiet and input of the reader at any time, slowly, you will see that your family is also quiet, and then the child will unconsciously pick up the book.
Of course, every family and child's situation is different, even if the child makes himself angry again, he must be patient and think of the right way to guide the child.