Many parents hope that their children can understand things as soon as possible, but most children are often naughty when they are young, which causes a lot of trouble to their parents.
Similarly, parents sometimes cause some trouble for their children. After the husband and wife have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some small quarrels, and time will slowly dilute these unpleasantnesses, but during this period, the parents' quarrels are not only more uncomfortable for both parties, but their children will also be affected by the parents' emotions.
When the child is still young, whenever he encounters a parental quarrel, he will be very helpless, and as the child grows up, he slowly becomes the "lubricant" when the parents quarrel. Few younger children will take the initiative to help their parents resolve conflicts when their parents are arguing.
It is not easy to have your children sensible at a very young age, and if there is such a child, parents should feel lucky about it.
Parents quarrel, the mother feels aggrieved, and the child's words make the father dumbfounded
Parents quarrel is a common thing, but it is rare for their younger children to take the initiative to stand up and resolve the conflict.
Recently, a couple in Wuhan had an argument, and the reason for the quarrel was that the child's father accused the child's mother of not doing enough at home, and after the quarrel, his own child took the initiative to stand up, refute the father's point of view, and speak for the mother.
After hearing that his child seemed to be helping his mother, the father began to accuse his wife of "she teaches you every day how you didn't teach you well", not only that, the father then accused his son, saying that "when writing homework, he is not serious at all, he will do this, he will do that."
The reason why the father will say such a thing may be that he is angry, and then he has been looking for the shortcomings of the other party, but ignoring the usual advantages of his wife and son.
But the child was not angry at his father for saying this, but on the contrary, he responded to his father domineeringly, "Learning is my own business, not her business." It is such a sentence that makes his father dumb, and the child's strong sense of responsibility is also fully reflected.
Seeing that his father was speechless, the little boy did not say anything more to his father, and then thought that his mother was still secretly sad in the room, so he went into his mother's room to comfort her.
I have to say that the little boy is already so sensible at a young age, and uses his own strength to resolve this small contradiction when his parents are arguing.
After comforting his mother, the little boy also seriously thought about what his father said, and the father blamed the little boy's learning problems on his mother, and the little boy also thought that it was wrong.
In order to avoid the quarrel between his parents because of his own learning problems, the little boy then took out his book and studied seriously in the living room.
Write at the end
When we are young, our parents may be our backers, no matter what we encounter, we will look for our parents to ask for help, but when we were young, we did not think that our parents would also encounter many difficulties, and we, as the children of parents, if we could, do our part to help them solve difficulties.
As parents, there will inevitably be some small quarrels between husband and wife, but when encountering contradictions and conflicts, we can't only care about our own feelings, we must not only learn to care about the feelings of our other half, but also we should learn to pay attention to the feelings of our children. If the husband and wife often quarrel, the child will be the most injured person.