This peace of mind is my hometown, home is a safe haven for a lifetime, is the warmest place in the world, there are relatives we love, there are meals we like to eat, there is water to drink when thirsty, there is food to eat when hungry, and clothes to wear when cold.
A family should rely on each other in the wind and rain, should be warm to each other, and there will inevitably be friction when the family is together, but the family does not worry about the night, and it will pass when it is opened.
The most taboo is to show the worst temper to the family, when quarrelling, use the most ugly words to hurt the family, and outsiders will pay special attention to the way to get along, and return home to become unreasonable.
The influence of the original family on a person is a lifetime, and many people's personality defects are because the original family is unhappy, so parents should be a good example for their children, create a warm and healthy growth environment for their children, and do not always quarrel in front of their children.
Recently, a man in Wuhan, Hubei Province, had a fight with his wife because of trivial matters, and after the quarrel, his wife was angry and entered the room, leaving the man and his son in the living room, and a video of the man's son persuading him to fight next to him was exposed.
On this day, the man came home from work as usual, and after dinner, the family of three sat in the living room together watching TV and enjoying the parent-child time, and after a while, when it was time for the child to sleep, the son made a fuss to let his parents sleep with him.
Neither of them wanted to sleep with the child, and the child kept making trouble, so the mother asked her husband to accompany the child, and a sentence casually said by the man angered his wife.
The man said, "You don't do anything during the day, you don't have to go to work, you go to sleep with him!" The implication is that she is more hard, the wife is very relaxed at home, and the wife who is a housewife is angry when she hears this sentence and goes back to the room to rest.
The son saw that his mother was in a bad mood on the side, so he argued with his father in the living room, and the words of persuasion poked his heart, and the son told his father that he wanted to talk to his mother well, and his father asked in disbelief: "Which sentence of mine is not good?" ”
The son said: "That is the sentence that you said she is not doing", the father does not understand the reason, a child is very clear, the child clearly knows the mother's hard work as a housewife, but perhaps because he is still angry, the man does not realize his own problems, but began to pick the son's faults.
Accusing his wife of not teaching her son well and writing homework, the son retorted domineeringly: "That's my business, not hers." ”
The man also showed no weakness: "She is in charge of learning", which means that the son has a problem with learning, and the wife does not manage it well.
At this time, the son rolled his eyes and said something that touched many netizens who were mothers: "Learning is under her management, housework is under her management, and she is not tired to die." ”
After saying that, he went to his mother's room to comfort his mother, hugged his mother tightly and said: "Housework is also a matter, you don't have to be sad, I will give you a loving kiss", kissed my mother's face and then went back to the living room to write my homework alone.
The mother felt that her son was a bit abnormal, so she turned out the monitoring and saw the dialogue between her son and her husband, and felt very touched and shared it on the Internet.
What the little boy said not only touched his mother, but also touched countless netizens, netizens have praised this mother for teaching her child well, but the father's way of treating his wife and son is very problematic.
Some netizens said that the father is not as good as the son, the author believes that the man who is a father does have something wrong, he should not belittle the wife's efforts in front of the child, nor should he deny the child.
We should not put ourselves in a higher position than our wives and sons, and no one in the family must be higher than anyone else, and should be equal.
But there is no need to criticize him, they are all first-time parents, there are mistakes, as long as you can realize the mistakes and correct them is a good parent, do you think?