The Song Dynasty poet Wang Anshi has a poetic cloud:
In the sound of firecrackers, the spring breeze sends warmth into Tu Su.
Thousands of households always exchange new peaches for old charms.
The sound of firecrackers rings the bronze bell of the New Year. This is not only the description of the lively scene of the New Year by the ancients, but also the New Year memory of our generation. And when the sound of firecrackers disappeared with the smoke, we also knew that the Spring Festival was hurriedly passed. As the words say: the sound of firecrackers is closed, the lantern festival is burned, and it is just the end of the month.
However, fireworks and firecrackers are now banned in many places, and the ritual sense of "firecracker sound" has gradually been diluted until it is stranded in memory.
The sound of firecrackers can be silent, but the sense of ceremony must be full.
The "sound of firecrackers" can not be loud, but the traditional sense of ritual must not be lost, it should be replaced by a new sense of ritual, or even several.
If the family sits neatly together to watch the Spring Festival Gala, it is already a traditional ritual. Then rubbing mahjong as an emerging sense of ritual is also very interesting, and has the meaning of "mahjong sound one year old, the spring breeze warms me and paste".
Whether traditional or emerging, the sense of ceremony must be full. The reason why the word "pull" is used is because the sense of ceremony of the New Year is lively and harmonious. Everyone got together and enjoyed the most precious time of the year.
But there are also some families, the sense of ceremony is not full, they sit together and play with their mobile phones without saying a word, as an emerging sense of ceremony; or wait for their parents to work hard to make a table of dishes, after eating a sentence of "the dish is really fragrant", they hurried back to each room; or although the body is at home, the heart floats on the Internet, busy on their respective social platforms.
In addition to the above-mentioned several, there are also a variety of marriages, parents urged, relatives and friends urged, and being urged to marry has naturally become an emerging sense of ceremony.
The accompaniment of children should be effective
And the sense of ceremony, for children, is very necessary. It can not only shape the child's sense of beauty of life, but also let the child know how to love life. It can also enhance the emotional communication between children and parents, so that children feel that on the same day every year, it is a particularly meaningful thing to explore and experience the same thing with their parents. At the same time, it can also enable parents to understand the changes in their children's personality and thinking every year. In turn, to guide the child to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life, such a change is a lifetime for the child and is engraved in the depths of the soul.
And companionship is also divided into effective and ineffective. I think that effective companionship is to communicate ideas and play a guiding role in doing things suitable for children with children.
What I want to say here is that it is especially necessary to help children establish a sense of ritual for the New Year. It can make children understand that the New Year means growth, deeply feel that the plan of the year lies in the spring, and understand what is the education of love in a loving family atmosphere.
Finally, in fact, whether it is for children or parents, there should be effective companionship. It is said that there is an old family, if there is a treasure, the older the parents, the more like an old child, the same need to be paid attention to, the same need for family companionship. Listening to the nagging of parents and nagging with their parents is also an effective companionship, but also a new but timeless sense of New Year's ritual. Again, the atmosphere of the New Year should be full, and the company of children should be effective.