Author: One flower
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Zhang Ailing once said: "The happiest thing in the world is that the person you love also happens to love you." ”
On the road of chasing love, everyone craves an equal response, and it is natural to pay for love, just as a point of hard work, a point of harvest, while paying, should also get the strong love of the other party.
But after all, this is an idealized state of thinking, in real life, not all the thoughts have an echo, and some of the emotions paid cannot be withdrawn or responded to.
Sometimes, the emotions between men and women cannot be accurately classified, and many people think that only one party's clear pursuit, coupled with the other party's "I do", can two people be called lovers. In fact, the crossing of the line between men and women is often carried out quietly.
Generally speaking, cross-border behavior represents the love of men and women, but if the process of crossing the line is mixed with some strange elements, the feelings between men and women will become no longer pure, and love will become the "wishful thinking" of one party.
A woman allows a man to "cross the line", and if it is premised on three "costs", she does not love you at all.
First, no more contact
Before allowing men to "cross the line", a woman puts forward the request of "only this time, no contact in the future", which means that she is only teasing you and does not really love you. Treat feelings as a game, and the serious side will lose miserably.
After having physical contact, the woman coldly talks, lets you disappear into her social circle, and even lets you escape from the city where she is located, even if you meet by chance in the future, you have to pretend not to know, which can be said to be quite desperate.
A woman would never utter such harsh words to a beloved man, and the only explanation is that she doesn't love you at all. Perhaps, some people will say, if you don't love, why allow men to cross the line? This involves physiological needs, and it is impossible for men not to understand.
Second, do not marry
People say that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is "playing hooligans".
Many men naively think that women allowing themselves to cross the line means that they will have to live with themselves for the rest of their lives, first fall in love and then get married, everything is a matter of course. As everyone knows, a woman has no intention of getting married at all, and for her, you are just a hurried visitor.
Not getting married means not being bound by law and morality, not being responsible for each other, and the reason why two people will be together is only because they take what they need, they are tired of playing, the freshness fades, and they will reach the moment of separation.
Women act like this, just because she does not love men at all, so she can hurt men at will, and once she loses interest, she will turn away gracefully.
Third, you cannot let a third person know about your relationship
Generally speaking, once a woman is in love, she is eager for the whole world to know, and it is no exaggeration to say that she will immediately pick up a big horn and inform everyone around her, which is a clear manifestation of the woman's true feelings.
On the contrary, the woman carefully disguised and explicitly stated that she would not let the third party know about your relationship, and the behavior was so strange, which just showed that she had a ghost in her heart and her love for you was false.
Don't make your relationship public, just make love in the secret space, continue to maintain her single identity outside, and will not interfere with her flirting with other men, and the queen of the sea often uses this means to pedal several boats.
In summary, a woman allows a man to "cross the line" and give the body to you, does not mean that she is really in love with you, sometimes, the so-called true love, but you are willing to move yourself.
If a woman takes the above "cost" as the premise and "crosses the line" with you, it means that she does not love you at all, nor does she intend to fight with you for the rest of her life, and the most feared thing in her feelings is that she is not serious and irresponsible, and hopes that all men can polish their eyes and not suffer from love.
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