After reading Dr. Zhang Zhiying's headlines about "there is a doctor in the family, the whole family benefits for generations", I deeply understand.
My brother-in-law is a doctor in a provincial top three hospital, and he has grown from a small doctor to a chief doctor. My brother-in-law and my sister met in 88 years, when doctors were not yet a popular profession, my parents were only middle-aged, I was still in high school, the whole family was in good health, and I did not feel the importance of having a doctor at home. When my family and I needed to see a doctor, my brother-in-law and many of his classmates had become the backbone doctors of the hospital, and now they were all at the level of chief doctors. The funniest thing is that my grandfather, in the early 90s, when he was in his 70s, was highly respected in their village, and wrote notes to the villagers who wanted to go to the city to see a doctor, and asked them to go to my brother-in-law with the simple introduction letter he wrote. My brother-in-law also tried to help, even though he couldn't figure out what kind of relationship these people were with my mother. I have 5 uncles and 3 aunts. My brother-in-law couldn't tell these people apart. For 30 years, my uncles and aunts, my aunt's cousins, my uncle's cousins, and even my uncle's own family have all been stained with my brother-in-law's light.
My family and I benefited even more from my brother-in-law. First in 94, on the third day of the Chinese New Year, I was scratched by a cat in my classmates, the blood on my face could not stop, did not dare to tell my parents, called my brother-in-law for help, he first contacted the college classmates who worked in the hospital where I went to seek medical treatment, and then hurried to meet with my classmates. His classmates sutured my wounds, using aesthetic medicine techniques, and I couldn't see the scars if I didn't look closely after the wounds healed. If this is a simple stitch in a general surgery clinic, leaving a conspicuous scar on the face, I will lower the standard when I look for a partner. Thanks to the doctor at home!
My mother used to say that my brother-in-law was my savior and my daughter's savior. It goes back to April 15, 1996, when I was sick and the symptoms were severe abdominal pain and nausea, when I was 37 weeks pregnant. My parents sent me to the hospital where my brother-in-law worked, because it was in the doctor's shift time, the outpatient clinic was a bit chaotic, there was no doctor responsible for me, the doctor on duty saw my belly and poop, and vomited, so he sent me to the obstetrics and gynecology department, a midwife simply checked it, and let me wait aside. My parents looked at me in pain and were anxious and distressed, and rushed to find their eldest son-in-law, the brother-in-law was preparing to leave work, and after hearing about it, he quickly went to the obstetrics and gynecology department to find his college classmates to do a check-up for me, and his classmates found that the situation was not good, and raced against time to push me on the operating table for a caesarean section. I had a B ultrasound before the operation, my daughter's fetal heart was very weak and slow, my low pressure during the operation was almost impossible to read, and my daughter would not cry when she was born. It's a lot of danger. If the medical treatment is delayed again, it may be possible that the child will die twice. [Laughing and crying] Was later diagnosed, my stomach pain is pancreatitis, acute pancreatitis is fatal.
During the operation, I heard the doctor and the anesthesiologist and the nurses chatting, saying that this was a relative of whoever it was, and that they had a good attitude, felt very warm, and even the pain was relieved by a few points. During the hospitalization, the attending doctor was also very kind to me. What I remember most is that a gentle and beautiful nurse sister gave me a massage 🦶, and I still don't know her name. Later, I asked my sister, and my sister said that she might be a girlfriend of a nurse in your brother-in-law's department. With these treatments, of course, it is the face of the brother-in-law. After I was discharged from the hospital, I found new problems in my body, and my brother-in-law took me to their hospital to do various examinations and consult with hospital experts. With him there, I really walked a lot less, and my feeling in the hospital was not bad.
In my brother-in-law's words, my family loves to get sick. One day in January 2000, my husband also had a severe stomach pain and vomiting, so I accompanied him to the nearest tertiary hospital to seek medical treatment. In the dark and empty corridor, I half-supported and half-dragged my husband, went to the blood test and urine test, and then waited, the doctor on duty saw that the patient was in pain, and did not pay attention, and really felt helpless. I had to call my brother-in-law for help, and the moment I saw him in their hospital, I suddenly felt saved! The brother-in-law took his husband and did another examination, and soon the diagnosis was confirmed, and the appendix was perforated. The brother-in-law's classmates seem to be all over every department, haha. His classmates in surgery gave my family patients an appendix removal operation that was successful. My husband felt a stomachache from more than 3 p.m., and insisted on playing mahjong and going out to eat hot pot, dragging until more than 8 p.m. to go to the first hospital. It was already 10 o'clock by the time I tossed to the second hospital. If I hadn't looked for my brother-in-law and dragged myself to the day shift doctor the next morning, I might have been in a situation.
After a few years, my father suffered a stroke, and in this case he had to find a son-in-law, and even when he went downstairs, he had to have my brother-in-law's back, not his own son. In the hospital, my father received good medical treatment and rehabilitation. My father's three strokes, including the last brainstem hemorrhage, were treated at my brother-in-law's hospital and finally died at ICU. During the treatment, my brother-in-law was the main heart of our family, and with him communicating with the cardiovascular doctor, we didn't have to worry about anything. The brother-in-law has a kind heart, he prescribes medicines and surgeries to patients, and will consider saving money for patients with poor economic conditions, and when it is his father-in-law's turn, he also strives to save us some drug costs.
Having a doctor at home is a valuable resource. Brother-in-law, thank you very much! 😄🙏
