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How should the three actresses deal with the positive demonstration and being dragged down by the emotions of failure?

Everyone has seen more or less of Zhang Jike's recent things. The whistleblower has gradually released the hammer and burst the IOU.

Although there is no solid hammer and final conclusion on whether the actress's private photos have been used to settle the debt, it is certain that Jing Tian has indeed been dragged down by this failed relationship with him, and is still involved.

If it is false, Jing Tian was rumored for no reason, and if it is true, it is more real as a victim. It will cause certain damage to image, work, life and psychology.

When girls encounter scumbags, they often rarely retreat from the whole body, and some will even be dragged down by failed feelings to ruin their entire lives. However, some will find their light again in the darkness and walk forward bravely again.

Here we will take a look at some of the actresses who have been dragged down by failed feelings, but have not been defeated, and who are now beautiful, have survived the difficulties, hoping to give all girls strength.

Jing Tian: Find a way to redeem yourself

How Jing Tian will deal with this storm, we don't know yet, but I believe she has come out once, and this time with the support of the majority of netizens, she can be brave again.

In 2019, when he separated from Zhang Jike, everyone just saw Jing Tian's official announcement of the breakup, and did not know the reason and process, and the separation was decent and peaceful.

After that, the two did not say on the public platform that the other was not.

But in fact, at that time, Jing Tian also had a relatively long period of depression, she did not go out of the door to film for almost two years, and after broadcasting a "A Trip to Meet Love" in 2019, it took two years for "Sito" to pick up.

Later, when Jing Tian was talking about "Si Ten", she said that the experience was "it's good if you don't cry a lot, and it's not sad if you don't sleep well at all."

Until I met the character of Sito, Sito in the book "has no soft knees, a very hard head, never embarrassed, wears the most tattered clothes and does not forget his manners, even if he is knocked to the bottom, he will carefully trace his eyebrows in the mirror..."

In the play, Sito also suffered a big loss because of love at the beginning, and even almost lost his life. She did not depend on anyone, first split in two, then planned to be reborn, redeemed herself, and still lived beautifully.

Jing Tian said, "It was Sito in the book who redeemed Sito in his drama world and me in the gray world at that time. ”

Jing Tian's revival mainly met a character who is highly compatible with himself and can inspire and energize himself. Half of the power of words, half of it is the support of work.

Therefore, if you feel that you can't get over it, you may wish to read a good book, find an image to look up to, and start the ability to feel good again.

Mao Xiaotong: Sober counterattack

Although several years have passed, Mao Xiaotong's textbook-level demonstration of dealing with bad feelings and preventing being pitted is still worth saying.

Once, Mao Xiaotong and Chen Xiang's relationship also received a blessing. However, in 17 years, they suddenly broke up, and at first it seemed peaceful.

However, after three months of online violence, Mao Xiaotong turned on the counterattack mode. After her counterattack, she was also accused by Chen Xiang's side of designing to frame and smear Chen Xiang.

However, looking back at the entire process of opening and tearing, Mao Xiaotong was all seeing the tricks and dismantling the moves, and adopted the strategy of "if the enemy does not move, I will not move, if the enemy moves, I will move first". There is no problem, do you have to accept being pitted, and my sister also has to engage in a career.

Let's briefly review Mao Xiaotong's demonstration operation.

First, four years of relationship, five hours to quickly sort out:

In fact, Mao Xiaotong and Chen Xiao have been quarreling and breaking up since the end of June, but they have not been completely sorted out, judging from the two-day records that broke out later, Chen Xiang gave people the meaning of wanting to redeem, and Mao Xiaotong was also hesitating and still pulling. After all, after four years of love, there should still be feelings.

However, on October 1st, Mao Xiaotong suddenly came back, but ran into other girls in Chen Xiang's house. So, he sorted out his luggage overnight, and five hours later, he left Chen Xiang's house.

There are internal contradictions and differences between the two people and the possibility of resolution, but when they develop into external branches, they can only be cut. Once unfaithful, not for life, this is a matter of principle.

Then, actively prepare for second-hand and beware of being pitted:

Mao Xiaotong's girlfriend once broke the news that at the beginning of the breakup, because the man was about to have a variety show broadcast, he begged the woman bitterly and broke up peacefully.

The woman also cared about the four-year relationship and did not speak out at first.

However, not speaking, not doing nothing, in Chen Xiang's description, Mao Xiaotong went to call up the surveillance on October 5, and recorded the screen to leave evidence.

It was indeed used later. During Mao Xiaotong's silence, after being chased and scolded by male fans for nearly four months, the video appeared on the Internet.

Public opinion began to turn the wind.

But that's not the end of the story.

Four years later, Chen Xiang brought up the old matter again and revised his previous remarks, saying that he and Jiang Kai had made an appointment to go for skin care, and the other party came to the house to wait for him. Mao Xiaotong, who had long broken up, came back to pack his luggage.

Jiang Kaitong also issued a document to confirm it, saying that because he felt the embarrassing atmosphere, he left first, and let the two of them have a good chat before leaving.

According to this development trend, it seems that public opinion will once again lead public opinion in an unfavorable direction for Mao Xiaotong.

At this time, Mao Xiaotong did not fight with them, and directly released a recording of the call with Chen Xiang to restore the truth of that year.

First questioned the day of the breakup (October 1), and then debunked the recording of variety shows digging holes in advance to sell singles.

The most important thing is to keep calm throughout the process, clear thinking, emotions are good, it is okay to say intentional planning, in short, you can't be too passive.

Although people who used to love each other eventually have to guard against each other and even calculate a little unbearable, but it is still necessary to keep a hand without knowing whether the other party is a human or a ghost.

If you gather well and disperse, you can leave a feeling, if you want to be against me, then I must also have Mjolnir that hits the point.

After this turmoil, Mao Xiaotong's career also advanced by leaps and bounds.

Huang Yi: Find yourself in your career

In fact, there is another typical example in the entertainment industry that is dragged down by failed feelings, that is, Huang Yi.

Huang Yi and her ex-husband Huang Yiqing have been tossing and turning for many years, and the two have a discord and a dispute over taking women. She once said that the marriage was a nightmare for her.

Every time Huang Yi has signs of coming back, he will be stirred up by Huang Yiqing. For a long time, when Huang Yi was mentioned, everyone thought that it was no longer her work, but the confrontation between her and Huang Yiqing on social media.

In those years, Huang Yi's image was seriously damaged, and his career almost stagnated. It wasn't until Huang Yiqing went in that this state ended.

Since September 2020, Huang Yi has finally been able to make an official comeback and participated in the variety show "Actors Please Take Position", although her achievements have been brilliant, but in the show, she is very modest. Actively strive for opportunities, hoping to regain the identity of the actor and change the state of more attention in his private life.

In the following year, he took over a number of resident variety shows, and also made cameo appearances in some film and television works, although the roles he played were not many, but they were all praised.

In "Summer Flower" broadcast this year, Huang Yi played the heroine's mother, playing the mother-in-law of the role played by Yan Chengxu, who is one year older than him. In the play, he has an emotional scene with Yu Xiang, who is more than ten years younger than himself.

This scene is not small, and the performance is also very exciting.

Actor Huang Yi is back, and Huang Yi's own state is also visibly better.

As Huang Yi himself once said, "Love is not the whole of life, fate must be in your own hands, never give up on yourself." ”

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