These days, I am occasionally chasing the CCTV hit drama "The World of Man", when I saw Zhou Bingyi say to his brother Zhou Bingkun, "My parents will really die", I burst into tears in an instant, crying for more than half a day. A simple sentence

These days, I am occasionally chasing the CCTV hit drama "The World of Man", when I saw Zhou Bingyi say to his brother Zhou Bingkun, "My parents will really die", I burst into tears in an instant, crying for more than half a day. A simple word poked straight into the depths of my soul. I also have a mother who is eighty-two years old and has complete dementia. For nearly a year, when the symptoms of dementia were more severe, they were cared for by two sisters. The eldest sister suffered from cancer five or six years ago, although it has been cured, but her physical condition has not been good, and she replaced it for a week or two when the second sister had a critical matter. I'm so busy at work that I can only drive back every weekend or holiday to deliver medicine and food to visit.

At the end of December last year, the outbreak of the epidemic in Shaanxi, the mother was sealed in the second sister's home, no one replaced in the past two months, I could not send back the drugs I wanted to take, and the second sister and brother-in-law were tired and miserable. As soon as I unsealed, I immediately took my mother to Xi'an, and after more than a week of experience, I realized how hard it was to take care of the elderly with dementia. My mother was restless in the house, looking for her shoes every day, walking around non-stop, her legs and feet were very dull, she could fall at any time, and I had to be behind me at all times. It was hard to coax me to lie down, to sit up for a while, and to lie down again in a few minutes, over and over again, and I was both distressed and helpless to see. After 10 p.m., alprazolam and risperidone can be taken orally before you can sleep quietly. Five or six hours at most, getting up at four or five in the morning, and then walking around the house repeatedly as if it were daytime.

Years later, in the first six years, I had to start a busy work, thinking about it, there was no other way, I could only entrust people to look around for investigation, and found a nursing home in Xi'an that combined medical and nursing care with good reputation and conditions.

Thinking that my father died of illness fifty years ago, my mother was able to raise the three of us strongly and provide for me to go to college in such a difficult time. Today, the standard of living is good, but we can't let our mother enjoy her old age in peace. Every time I think of this, I burst into tears and am in extreme pain. My mother has been in a bad mood for many years, but I really can't do it without regrets and a peaceful conscience!