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Chinese parents name their children in fact, there are traces to follow, such as the founding of the country, the establishment of the army, the defense of the country of such names are mostly after the 70s, and Zichen, Zichen, Yichen and other such names have become the more favored names of the parents of the post-00s...
The reason why you can guess a person's age from the name is because parents name their children very contemporary, like to use representative or recently popular terriers to name the baby, although parents are convenient, but children may not be proud of it.
In order to realize the dream of "one household and one pier", netizens have tried their best to buy what they can buy, and those who can't buy it must also create "orange piers", "line piers", "cake piers" and so on in their own fields as much as possible, and what is more "mad" is to use their own children to realize this dream.
Recently, a netizen posted his baby's birth certificate, perhaps because he liked the "ice pier" too much, and the parents who asked for the pier actually named the baby "Chen Ice Pier", in order to follow the trend, it can be said that the children are open.
However, this behavior has not been liked by netizens, which has been criticized by many rational netizens online for "funny parents":
"Playing with the child's name, the child will most likely be ridiculed in the future"
"Have you ever considered the feelings of children, really not humorous at all"
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Fortunately, Bao Mama quickly explained in the comment area that "Chen Bingdundun is p, just for the sake of the paragraph", so that this embarrassing misunderstanding did not make more jokes.
Fortunately, it is a paragraph, if the child's name is really called "Chen Bingdun Dun", I don't know how much trouble will be there when he grows up!
Give your child a "funny" name, will the child really be happy?
In order to give the baby a strange and funny name for the eyeballs, it may just be the parents' self-congratulation.
There are many names similar to "Chen Bingdun", such as Xie Lord Longen, Wang Glory, Wu So-called, Fan Tong, etc., parents feel good or fun to follow the wind, but children may not necessarily recognize such names.
Especially when the child grows up, the funny memes that parents have experienced are no longer interesting, but the child has to be with the "strange name" for a lifetime, and the self-esteem makes the child unable to accept that his name is a joke of other people.
Prolonging time will not only affect the child's mental health, but also delay the child's normal social interaction into school or society.
The name of a friend next to him is similar to "Cuihua", which is more old-fashioned, resulting in this friend not liking others to call his name, and even worried about being named in public, and usually very cheerful girls are very humble when they mention their names.
Although you are not satisfied with the name, you can apply for a name change, but you also have to wait until adulthood, which means that the strange name should accompany the most important stage of your youth, and it is still cruel to think about.
And even if you can apply for a name change, the process is very complicated, more likely to affect a series of problems such as future work, going abroad, etc., and the cost is far greater than imagined.
Giving a child a good name really requires parents to think about it
The names of the parents of the older generation are still quite arbitrary, and an old man in his fifties is called "ten and a half pounds", which is because of his weight at birth, which sounds reasonable, but this kind of casual and informal way of naming is really not applicable in modern times.
Parents please try to give the child a gentle and unconventional name, do not let the name, become an obstacle to the growth of the child, first do the following points:
"Big surname" first avoids duplicate names:
Although China has a hundred family names, but there are always Wang, Li, Liu, Zhang family members, at this time it is easy to take the same name, now the network is very developed, like this kind of population of surnames, before giving children a name to check the repetition rate, save the thunder.
Please avoid "traditional characters":
Fan not only refers to traditional, but also has the meaning of complex and cumbersome.
The name is just a distinguishing code name, do not have to reflect the cultural connotation, simple and easy to write well recognized is a good name, those strokes, pronunciation is difficult, difficult to recognize the Chinese characters do not give children as names.
Don't think about following the trend and eyeballs:
Following the trend, Bo eyeballs are a temporary thing, the heat can only leave the child alone, parents do not take the child's name as their own fun, give the baby a name don't just care about their own little thoughts, think more for the child, funny memes, harmonic words can not appear in the name.
The name always has some special meaning, and it cannot escape the affection of parents and friends. But no matter how to say, the name belongs to the child, is a new existence, so parents do not be too selfish to only care about their own happiness, give the baby a name, or "steady" point!