It is not unusual for a person to be energetic in the cardamom age, but if at the age of 40, he can still maintain his love of life and exude a positive spirit, it is not easy.
Before I accidentally brushed a photo of a 40-year-old mother, she had a heartfelt smile on her face and looked positive and optimistic.
Due to the epidemic situation, this mother and lover waited at home to return to work, wore her daughter's school uniform when she was bored, and after carrying her school bag, it seemed to instantly return to the green years of that year.
Only to see this mother with a sweet smile, brisk movements, and a vibrant look, just like a 20-year-old girl.
Bao Dad saw the appearance of his wife, but also not calm, the heart is full of amazement, quickly picked up the mobile phone to capture, leaving the beautiful moment of his wife, and uploaded the photo to the Internet, which attracted the amazement of a group of netizens.
After becoming a mother, because of the life confined to chai rice oil and salt, inadvertently, many women lost their original attitude to life, and in the days of day after day, their temper and disposition have changed dramatically, becoming negative and pessimistic.
However, what many mothers do not realize is that their own mental outlook has a lifelong and infinite impact on their children, and if they can maintain a positive mental outlook like this mother, so that life is full of positive energy, the future of children will also have unlimited possibilities.
Mothers with a positive mental outlook, children have more self-confidence
Although children's minds are simple, they also have a small "vanity" and often "judge people by their appearance".
If the mother is sloppy all day, looks overwhelmed by the pressure of life, and has a negative attitude, then the child will easily feel embarrassed without "face" and become unconfident in front of her classmates.
On the contrary, if the mother can face life with a positive attitude every day and do a good job of her own image management, then the child will also be invisibly affected, proud of her mother, and become more confident.
I remember that before there was a mother to share a personal experience, I was very impressed, 7 years old daughter birthday, after making a wish to blow candles, my mother asked her what wish she made, what she wanted was not candy, dolls, but hope that her mother can like to dress up in the future.
The adults present laughed forward and backward, thinking that it was a child's speech, but Bao Mom felt that this was her daughter's voice from the heart, perhaps because of her own image, her daughter's self-confidence had been hit.
Although many mothers are busy with work and life and have been squeezed too much energy, we still have to work hard to adjust our emotions and make ourselves more optimistic, only mothers with a positive mental outlook, children have more self-confidence.
Mothers with a positive mental outlook have a more positive attitude towards life
When the variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" was popular, many netizens lamented that "the 30+ sisters are beautiful and sassy, so that people can no longer worry about getting old" after watching it.
Indeed, the 52-year-old Yi Nengjing in the show is already a mother of two children, still singing and dancing and full of vitality, and Zhong Liti's youthful and radiant appearance makes people forget her age.
And just as netizens sighed after seeing the performance of the "sisters", if the mother can be full of positive energy every day and face life with a full mental outlook, then the child will also be affected in the subtle, and treat life and learning more positively.
My niece once complained to me that the child seemed to have little interest in anything, and at a young age, she exuded a "old age" of people until their twilight years.
I asked her, "Are you usually more negative at home?" ”
The niece gave an affirmative answer, and also complained that "I usually work so hard, I don't want to move when I get home, which is active."
The so-called "child is a mirror of parents", when we complain that children are not vibrant, we may wish to think carefully about whether we have a positive attitude towards life. If the answer is no, the problem may not be with the child.
Mothers with positive mental outlook, children live happier
Although some mothers have given everything for the family and children, they are always full of negative emotions, turning everyone around them into objects of complaint and complaint.
Living in such an environment full of negative energy, children are forced to become the biggest "victims", there is no sense of happiness in life, not only is the personality development easily affected, but also prone to mental health problems.
On the contrary, if the mother can be full of positive energy, face life with a good attitude and spiritual outlook, then the child will also live happier.
Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, the author of "The Little Bean by the Window", has a very positive and optimistic mother.
Growing up in the fiery war years, her mother took her and her siblings to live a life of displacement.
In order to survive, my mother had to sing and say hello to some of the people who hosted the wedding feast in exchange for a few cakes to feed a few children.
In Tetsuko's memory, what impressed her more than the war-torn and miserable life was the way her mother walked towards her with a brisk pace after she got the food.
It is precisely because of her mother's strength, optimism and cheerfulness that she has finally achieved the wonderful life of Tetsuko Kuroyanagi.
Old Miao Conclusion:
The different mental outlook of mothers has a world of difference in their impact on their children.
Mothers full of positive energy are like a small sun, giving children light and heat at all times, while mothers full of negative energy will make children lose hope for the future and become depressed and negative.
Finally, I hope that everyone can accept the child's imperfections, control their emotions, and strive to become a mother with a positive and optimistic mental outlook.
Today's topic: Do you usually pay attention to your mental outlook?
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