Time is rushing, the winter vacation is coming to an end, and there is not much "balance" left.
School is about to start and spring is coming. For most of the students, this winter vacation will be more fulfilling, and the gap between them and other students will become larger and larger.
But for left-behind children, even if they are school bullies, their mood may still be unhappy, because their parents have to carry their bags and go away to work.
"Today is a sad day for me. Why be sad? Because my mother is going back to Lanzhou to work..." A student's parents are about to leave for Lanzhou to work.
I just checked the navigation, lanzhou city and my place here is up to 2298 kilometers, if you drive over, sleepless if it takes about 26 hours and 23 minutes.
Children are placed in their hometowns to be handed over to their elders, but parents themselves have to go to Lanzhou, which is more than 2,000 kilometers away, to work.
If you don't go to Lanzhou, you can have no worries about food and clothing, and I guess parents don't want to leave their hometowns. "If you can be happy and healthy in this life, who wants to be displaced?" The helplessness of parents and the inseparability of children have become a unique scenery among villagers in rural mountainous areas.
"At night, my mother was preparing my luggage, and I also came forward to help my mother sort out the luggage. First take some of the family's Su Qian (qi shi rice from Suzhou) in a medium bag, then take a lot of ripe peanuts in the bag, and put some lotus seeds... After a while, I hugged my mother and cried, and my mother comforted me and touched my head..."
Although the writing of this classmate is average, the detailed description gives people a different sense of picture.
The pain of parting jumps out of sight. This is a scene that children in the mountains do not want to see, and it is also the scene that parents in the mountains and mountains are most reluctant to face. Of course, in rural schools, there is no shortage of left-behind children.
Among the left-behind children, there are also quite good students, but there are more problem students. These children, if they are not careful, may have problems of one kind or another. What should we do in the face of the education of left-behind children?
On the one hand, parents should care about their children even if they are in other places.
Parents working in Lanzhou or Argentina should often contact their children. Children are the continuation of parents' lives, usually make a phone call to contact children, and children for video chat, so that children feel the love of parents, children in the process of growth will be less "stumbling blocks", children and parents will be less estranged.
According to a peer, a child in his class, his mother went out to work, actually eloped with a "guest side" (a foreigner).
The rhetoric of the "guest side" deceived the female parents, leaving two poor children stranded in their hometown.
The child's father rarely returned home, and the grandparents did not care much about the growth of their grandchildren, so the two children directly became like orphans.
And if parents often contact their children, they can not only comfort their children's hearts, but also make themselves have a stronger sense of family, and once the home becomes the spiritual pillar of parents and children, such a home will not be fragmented.
On the other hand, the elder guardians must also play a corresponding role.
Grandparents raising grandchildren from generation to generation should have certain abilities, such as grandparents can barely understand the child's homework, can take care of the child's diet and living, can understand the child's psychological dynamics, and can meet the various needs of the child's growth.
If even these basic things cannot be done, I think the old man should serve the old man, don't force himself, and when the time comes, he will be complained by his son and daughter-in-law, and then he will be pointed out by others.
If the grandparents can be competent for the responsibility of guardianship, they must be a qualified guardian, so that left-behind children have good learning habits, today's society to raise children and raise livestock is not the same, not only to let the children eat enough, but also to pay attention to every detail of the child's growth.
How to care for left-behind children, if you are the parent of left-behind children, what good advice do you have? What are your requirements for the school's teachers? Welcome to leave a message to communicate.