The second sister-in-law in the family is a person who loves to show off, this time going home for the New Year, talking to her when eating with the second sister-in-law: Now the child you see it yourself? It was so hard, and I couldn't go to work, and I took the children every day

The second sister-in-law in the family is a person who loves to show off, and this time she went home for the New Year and talked to her during dinner

Second sister-in-law: Now the child you see it yourself? It was so hard, and I couldn't go to work, and it was enough to take children every day.

Me: It's okay, when her father is not busy, her father watches, and the children are more well-behaved, not very noisy

Second sister-in-law: How old is that grandmother, why don't you help you with the children

Me: Grandma is also in her early fifties, I still don't need my grandmother to breastfeed, and when I quit breastfeeding, it depends on the situation, and if I want to bring her, she will also bring it

Second sister-in-law: Oh, then you are hard now (the point is coming), unlike my family Shanshan (her daughter), all of them are grandma belts, when she was just pregnant, the mother-in-law took care of her, a big family took care of her, after giving birth she didn't have to do anything, three months to go to work, everything in the family is done by the mother-in-law, the clothes are also washed by the mother-in-law, take it home after work, sleep with the grandmother at night, don't worry about anything.

Me: That's fine, it's easy to have someone to help

Second sister-in-law: Yes, she works for eight thousand a month, does not work four thousand, and is appreciated by the leader. (Her daughter is working at the Nanning Railway Bureau, I don't know what position, I heard that it was a conductor, I didn't ask specifically)

Then she asked my sister these questions, my sister herself with two children, her mother-in-law grows vegetables to sell, so there is no time to bring, but give my sister two thousand yuan a month, my brother-in-law is a cook, also busy, basically my sister herself to bring, the big five years old, the small one year old, the second sister-in-law saw the words outside the words are saying that my sister no one to help bring very poor, now the epidemic tourism is damaged, the brother-in-law does not have to go to work, the second sister-in-law asked them, do not go to work that eat ah, my sister said: Every month the mother-in-law will give two thousand, and there is a rent of fifty or sixty thousand a year, Now when I don't go to work, I still have to eat, (my sister is on Weizhou Island) and then the second sister-in-law doesn't talk

The second sister-in-law says every New Year that her daughter has entered a good unit, and only her daughter in the family has entered the unit to work, and others are part-time workers, so she always looks high, low-key, the days are so long, who is better than whom

Like her daughter living with her mother-in-law, do you like it? If the child does not participate in everything, will the child kiss her? Does she have a say? Anyway, I bring my own children, do not live with my mother-in-law, I have a husband, my husband is not a hand-throwing treasurer, housework with children we are all shared, so I am very comfortable, do not feel hard, are behind closed doors to live, who has not a little friction, do not have to show themselves