After the First Day of the Chinese New Year, all walks of life have started work one after another, whether they are bosses, leaders or ordinary migrant workers, many people have to leave their children and go far away to work hard. Whether it is an adult or a child, the happy day of the Spring Festival reunion has not yet passed for a few days, and it will experience the pain of separation.
Fuyang, Anhui: A man is ready to go out to work after the New Year, and "having time to come back to see" makes him uncomfortable
On February 7, the seventh day of the Lunar New Year, in Fuyang, Anhui Province, Mr. Hu (pseudonym) finished lunch and prepared to drive back to the county town to do business.
Before leaving, the daughter came out of the yard and walked to the car, Mr. Hu asked her "little brother", the daughter pointed in the direction of the house and said that she was asleep, and then Mr. Hu said to his daughter "goodbye, goodbye".
At this time, the daughter said to him very reluctantly, "Daddy, you have time to come back to see it more" and "Daddy, you forgot something."
After listening to his daughter's words, Mr. Hu felt very uncomfortable in his heart, and immediately decided to get off the car to spend more hours with the child and wait until the evening to leave.
Related videos have triggered a large number of likes and forwards on the Internet, and many netizens have broken their defenses:
"Such a small baby, she wants to be with her parents"
"For the sake of life is a last resort"
"When I left on the night of the seventh day of junior high school, my 7-year-old daughter cried very sadly, I did not dare to turn back, sorry daughter"
"No matter how bitter and tired you are, you must take the baby with you, stay up big, life is short, leave no regrets"
"How many parents have to leave their children in order to earn money?"
"Left-behind children are not conducive to their development when they grow up, whether they can get into college or not"
"Try to take the baby with you, when you are a child, your heart needs care, and you need love and warmth"
"The most correct decision in my life was to keep my parents and sons around! See it every day."
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A similar scenario is all too familiar to millions of Chinese people, who basically stage such a scene at this time of year. In order to make a living, in order to give their children better living and educational conditions, many parents have to be separated from their children and go far away to earn a living. In their hearts, they are reluctant to leave their children, and they also hope to be able to accompany their children more, but life is so difficult that most parents can only let their companions give way to work and make their children become "left-behind children".
And because parents are not around for many years, lack of parental companionship and effective discipline, many left-behind children have psychological problems, stubborn temperament, become problem teenagers, not only poor academic performance but also contaminated with a lot of bad diseases, the feelings for parents are also very weak, and even sometimes parents come back, the first glance can not recognize that standing in front of their own parents.
In contrast, the little girl above is very sensible, not only learned to take care of her brother at a young age, but also told her father not to forget this and that like an "old mother" when she left, showing the maturity and sophistication that should not be there at this age. Because of this, it is even more painful.
For children, they have no concept of money, do not know the importance of money to a family, their definition of happiness is very simple, that is, with mom and dad by their side, happy every day. When they grow up, they will know that what their parents have done is also forced, and they will understand, but they will also leave a lifetime of irreparable regrets.
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