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"The child is quiet, quasi is a demon", most of the parents who have brought the baby are deeply aware of this sentence, it seems that the child does not cry, does not make trouble, silently "plays" in a corner, the parents feel that it is not relaxed, because the child is likely to be "holding a big thunder", to a large extent, it is "engaging in destruction" No doubt.
A 2-year-old girl smeared her mother's entire can of concealer
Recently, the video of "2-year-old cute baby using up her mother's whole can of concealer" has attracted the attention of netizens.
On this day, Ms. Xu's 2-year-old daughter was watching cartoons alone in the room, and her mother was cleaning up the room and washing clothes, and the mother and daughter were also busy with each other during the whole process, and the child was unusually quiet.
Just when Ms. Xu returned to the room after busyness to see what her daughter was doing, she was suddenly shocked by the scene in front of her, only to see that her daughter was taking her own "concealer" to apply to her face, and the whole can of concealer that she had not used several times had been used by her daughter almost.
And the daughter also painted the concealer all over her face, even covered her eyebrows, and her hair was covered with concealer everywhere, which was simply "changing her face in place". Seeing her mother come in, her daughter proudly asked her mother: "Am I beautiful?" At that time, Ms. Xu was also very angry when she saw her daughter like this, and hurriedly pulled her daughter to the bathroom to clean.
But helpless concealer applied too much, cleaning for more than an hour or can not wash clean, finally, can only take to the barber shop to wash, fortunately after the final cleaning, the child can barely see.
The child destroys the cosmetics, and the mother is angry but does not fight or scold
Although watching her daughter get the concealer everywhere and having to work hard to clean it up, the mother was also angry at the time, but she did not criticize or scold the child. The daughter also seemed to know that she had done something wrong, and asked her mother if she would beat herself.
Mother Ms. Xu naturally did not scold her daughter, but only took her daughter to clean, but the next day, the daughter wiped a tube of hand cream on her face, Ms. Xu felt that it was normal for children to do these things, if the parents were big and scolded, it might cause shadows on the child's psychology, so Ms. Xu simply said a few words to her daughter.
Why are children used to touching adult cosmetics?
In the face of such behavior of children, I think many parents can empathize. In life, it seems that many children will be interested in their mother's cosmetics, especially for little girls, in fact, a large part of the reason is because of children's curiosity.
She wondered why her mother would wipe these strange little things on her face every day, and her mother, who originally had no spirit, would immediately open like a flower after wiping these things, which was really amazing.
So the child thought about trying it himself, but at this time he would definitely be stopped by his mother and told that these things could not be touched. But in the perception of children, the more adults say "no" to her, they want to try it.
Because for children, the excitement and charm of this matter lies in the mother's rejection attitude, she feels that by touching the cosmetics to get the attention of the mother, or the look of the adult angry is interesting to her, so she will tirelessly touch the mother's bottom line.
How to solve the problem that children like to move adult cosmetics?
First of all, the mother needs to calmly explain to the child the use of cosmetics. Like cosmetics are what adults need to dress up daily, as well as their own true thoughts, like cosmetics contain ingredients that are not conducive to the health of the baby, children can not touch casually.
Then, in order to better satisfy the baby's curiosity, the mother can buy a set of children's cosmetics for the child, which can satisfy the child's curiosity under the premise of ensuring safety.
Finally, mothers should not forget to teach their children to have a clear sense of "property rights". Cosmetics are mother's things, no matter who it is, it must be approved by the mother herself before use before it can be touched.
Bud Care Mom wants to say:
In the process of taking a baby, children will always do something that makes their parents crazy, although it is indeed very angry, but after understanding the reasons behind it, it is actually the psychological changes of children in the process of growing up. Parents should educate their children according to their age characteristics.