It lasted five years, 1896 days and nights!
Jiang Ge case verdict announced! The wait, though long, shows us that human selfishness is not evil.
On January 10, 2022, Jiang Ge's father, Jiang Qiulian, sued Liu Xin for violating his daughter Jiang Ge's right to life, health, and body rights, and finally announced the verdict! Liu Xin compensated 696,000 yuan and undertook all the case acceptance fees.
Jiang Ge's mother comforted her daughter: Her mother did it.
More than five years ago, on November 3, 2016, the murder of Jiang Ge, a female student who stayed in Japan, shocked the whole society.
Jiang Ge, a Chinese female student studying in Tokyo, Japan, was brutally killed by the boyfriend of her friend Liu Xin, and with the arrest and imprisonment of the murderer, the public did not weaken the attention to this case, and the "Jiang Ge case" became---- a hot topic that everyone never put down in the past two years.
It was precisely because Liu Xin had an emotional dispute with the criminal Chen Shifeng that Liu Xin moved to Jiang Ge's residence in order to avoid entanglement, and Chen Shifeng found it, which led to Jiang Ge being brutally killed.
What is chilling is that when Jiang Geyu was killed, Liu Xin was in the room, and it was she who pushed Jiang Ge out of the door, who was about to enter the door, and locked the door tightly, causing Jiang Ge to have no way to ask for help, and was stabbed by Chen Shifeng more than a dozen times, cruelly killed.
The criminal Chen Shifeng was sentenced to twenty years, but what about Liu Xin, who caused this tragedy? Is she really "innocent"? What made Jiang Ge's mother shudder was that after her daughter was killed, Liu Xin, the key figure in the case that led to this tragic incident, did not have the slightest apology and remorse for Jiang Ge, and even defended himself completely innocently in court, claiming that he did not close the door and shirked his responsibility.
His beloved child was brutally murdered because of a girl, but the other party not only did not appreciate it, but also shirked his responsibility completely. Jiang Ge was killed, and Jiang Ge's mother alone suffered a huge pain of losing her daughter, but Liu Xin's family did not show the slightest comfort and pain, and even escalated their malice and said that "Jiang Ge's life is short" is extremely vicious. We can't imagine how tormented Jiang Ge's mother's heart was during these nearly two thousand days and nights.
At no time should we underestimate the love and power of a mother. Even if you give everything and fight for this life, you must let your heart have no regrets, in order to get justice for your daughter. This great mother, after nearly two thousand days of unremitting efforts and painful suffering, finally won justice for her daughter, tore off the mask of the bad guy, and let her daughter wait for fair treatment.
Never underestimate a mother who is willing to give all her determination for her child, the child is not only the weakness of the mother, but also the love of the child is also the armor of the mother. We often complain about the unfair fate of "good people do not have good rewards". But although fate is not easy, malice will always be rewarded. Having ignored the locked door of her friends, faced the sophistry and lies of the mass media, and the malicious humiliation in the face of Jiang Ge's mother, all these evil deeds of Liu Xin have now been duly sanctioned and condemned, and all of this has become the shame of her life.
The Jiang Ge case explains the great power of a mother, but it also sounded a wake-up call for us parents--- teach children to stay away from friends. If Jiang Ge could see clearly Liu Xin's bottomlessness as a person, he might avoid a tragic tragedy. Raising children to grow up is never an easy task, and parenthood has a long way to go. We strive to meet the children's food, clothing, shelter and transportation, strive to improve the child's educational environment, and strive to plug the child's wings beyond the high-flying, but also to give the child a solid armor, tell them the dangers of the world, give them the ability to protect themselves and the awareness away from harm.
Teach children to learn to stay away from "losing friends" and avoid being hurt and used
We often say: those who are close to Zhu are red and close to ink are black. There is a classic saying in the classic educational masterpiece "Zhu Zi Jia Xun": "There is little evil in the fox, and it will be affected for a long time; Qu Zhi is old and old, and he can rely on each other in a hurry." The meaning of this classic epilepsy is that if we are often close to people of bad character, we will certainly be implicated by them for a long time, and if we often associate with people of good character and rich knowledge, they will certainly help us when we encounter urgent matters.
Jiang Ge and Liu Xin are both students studying in Japan, and because they are fellow countrymen, they have a very good relationship, and even develop into girlfriends, but it is such a "poisonous girlfriend" that ruins Jiang Ge's life and makes a happy family ruined.
As the child grows up, they will slowly move away from their parents and enter the society, and friends will become an important part of the child's life, but who the child has made, who speculates with, and who is close to, the parents really cannot understand, nor can they grasp, so it is necessary to give them the ability to recognize people when the child is still young, be wary of people with bad conduct, stay away from losing friends, and avoid being innocently implicated and hurt.
In the Analects of the Ji Clan, it is said: "There are three good friends, friendly straight, friendly forgiveness, and friendly and heard." There are three friends who have lost their friends. Friendly and gentle, friendly and gentle. The meaning of this wise saying is that there are three kinds of friends worth making: people of integrity, honest and generous people, and people who are eager to learn and know. And there are also three kinds of friends that we should stay away from: those who are accustomed to taking crooked doors and evil ways, those who are good at flattery, those who are always accustomed to talking rhetoric, and those who are all people with bad conduct should be kept away.
1 Stay away from people who don't let you progress and take you away from the right path.
Xiao Bei's father found that since Xiao Bei went to middle school, he always showed great fatigue and could not get out of bed in the morning. During the day is always listless, at first think that the child may be learning pressure, and then careful observation found the cat greasy, the original child in the class to know a "storm figure" Jiajia, and became a good friend, all day together, but Jiajia is a "problem teenager" always with Xiaobei skip class smoking and drinking, playing games until midnight. At first, Xiao Bei still resisted, but Jia Jia always laughed at his coward, little fart. Under the pressure of Jiajia's instigation and ridicule, XiaoBei also began to slowly deviate from the scriptures.
Jiajia's parents found out and immediately went through the transfer procedures for Jiajia, and accompanied Jiajia to and from school, patiently guiding Jiajia. In the end, Jiajia stayed away from Xiaobei, a "loss friend", and put her study and life on the right track. A child meets a toxic friend, must be affected by it, infected with some vices, in the long run, must stay away from this friend, in order to put their lives on the right track, will not be implicated by it.
2. Stay away from friends who are full of negative energy.
If you often contact lazy and negative people, they are full of negative energy such as complaints, troubles, prejudices, greed, etc. When they make friends with such people, they are bound to be affected by it and implicated. The murderer chen Shifeng in Jiang Ge's case is a person who is full of revenge and full of "evil", and Liu Xin, because his private feelings are not handled well, actually handed over all contradictions to Jiang Ge to deal with, and let Jiang Ge be her shield. Both of these men are typical negative energy loss friends.
3. Stay away from people without borders.
They often fail to abide by the boundaries of human interaction, like to violate the boundaries, arbitrarily intervene in the lives of others, interfere in other people's affairs, invade the privacy of others, and even arbitrarily control others. Or very dependent on others, life and work always rely on others to assist, do not care about each other's feelings, take advantage of the kindness of others, soft control over the lives of others. Just like Liu Xin in this case, he took advantage of Jiang Ge's kindness to win pity, took himself in, and threw all the problems and dangers he encountered to Jiang Ge to face, resulting in Jiang Ge's murder.
If the child encounters such a friend, be sure to tell the child to dare to refuse, be brave and say no, and stay away from this kind of loss of friends. Let children understand that helping others must be within their own ability, learn to protect their own people, and have a bottom line and boundaries. You can't cross the border, otherwise you will be unflattering and even get into trouble.
Parents are the strength of a child's life, and they should give their children enough armor to protect themselves. It is also a safety education to guide children to have a pair of eyes to identify damaged friends, and to stay away from toxic friends.
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