In the past two days, Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan has gone out of the circle, not only graduated from a famous school, but also educated her daughter so well that people are envious.
For her daughter's education, Gu Ailing's mother implemented an educational concept - trust.
She doesn't set tasks for her child, to what extent they have to do it.
Because she is not forced to learn, Gu Ailing shows great interest in her choices and always wants to do her best.
The super difficult action 1620 in the final of the big jump is also a decision made by Gu Ailing himself.
Mom advised her to do a less difficult move and compete for the silver medal.
Gu Ailing said that it was the hardest thing for him to do.
The mother did not argue with reason, let alone force her daughter to listen to her opinion. She just said, "OK, this is your game, then enjoy it." ”
The mother is willing to give the child the greatest trust.
When the daughter decided to challenge herself, the mother immediately chose to encourage the child:
"You can definitely do it, it's not hard for you."
In terms of learning, Gu Ailing is under the pressure of the whole family being a famous school. Mom told her:
"You don't have to go to Stanford, and more importantly, you don't give up studying for the rest of your life."
When Gu Ailing was distressed by the failure, her mother's opinion was:
"No one is perfect, so I want to love Ling and not be a perfect person, because there is no such thing."
Gu Ailing: "I would like to thank you all for Chinese at the Winter Olympics. ”
Mom's reply was: "Then you must be able to go first, and the second has to win the award, and the winner may come to interview you, so that you have the opportunity to thank everyone with Chinese." ”
Gu Ailing: "My mom is the best mom in the world. ”
Mom's reply was very heartwarming:
"I said you don't have to thank me when you grow up,
You don't owe me anything,
I just thank you. ”
