A few days ago, in Zhoukou, Henan, a netizen shared a video of relatives retiring from marriage at home on the Internet, which attracted the attention of netizens.
The girl and the boy are blind dates, the two sides feel good together, so soon the family arranged an engagement, the man paid the engagement dowry according to the woman's requirements, but after the engagement due to the woman's reasons, the woman's family and the man proposed to withdraw from the marriage.
Knowing that it was necessary to return the goods, the man's family could not avoid being reluctant in his heart, but he could not get the girl's meaning, and finally the two sides agreed to return all the money for the engagement bride price.
In the picture, the man's family and the woman's family are gathered in the girl's yard, and the relatives and matchmakers witness that the woman has returned the dowry money a lot, and the boy and his relatives have counted the returned dowry money on the spot.
Netizens saw this scene not only sighed, have expressed their own views, some netizens said that this woman's family is still reasonable, at least the bride price money is all refunded, there is no excessive reasoning, we here want to withdraw from the marriage deliberately from the man to find problems, wait until the man can't bear to withdraw from the marriage after deducting the bride price money, the reputation is also stinking in our place.
Some netizens also said: I am more lossy, engaged, the man talked about one outside, and then snubbed me not to call and not to send a message, send a message, and also say something that makes you unhappy. Gave him a refund, the money was all refunded and added four thousand, less than a week after the refund he brought the girl back to get engaged, I came back at the end of the year to know.
Some netizens also recalled: when I quit the marriage, I saw the character, when I retired, all kinds of expenses were counted on me, including the cost of refueling the car, buying a bottle of water was counted, it didn't matter, one or two wide is good, the break is clean and neat.
Some netizens also helplessly said: I was forced by my parents to go on a blind date, but I am used to it alone, and I also know that my parents are worried that I will be lonely in the future, and want me to find a partner, but how do they know how much pressure this invisibly brings to me, and does not want to marry.
For many young people, blind dates are an embarrassing thing, on the one hand, they reject this mode of entering marriage, and on the other hand, they have to try, because they have reached the age of talking about marriage.
But the twisted melon is not sweet, the emotional thing can not be forced, and it may not be the best result for everyone to get together and disperse.
What do you think about this event?
