Men who have an affair with each other, why wouldn't they choose divorce. In real life, men like extramarital affairs, but rarely divorce because they always have these two words in their hearts: selfishness. One is

Men who have an affair with each other, why wouldn't they choose divorce.

In real life, men like extramarital affairs, but rarely divorce because they always have these two words in their hearts: selfishness.

One is that they think there will never be an accident. Men are always more rational than women, even in the choice of extramarital affairs, they think that the person they choose, is their most trusted, can be based on marriage, to add some material to their own lives, no matter what kind of situation, are under their control, they will never take into account the actual situation of the lover, only choose the most favorable to themselves, if there is a little wind, they will immediately slip away. They will only consider the person who is good for them, and if this person will affect his development or prospects, even if the other party is beautiful, he will not do it. On the contrary, if he thinks that the object of his extramarital affair will not pose any danger to himself, he will accept the other party's good feelings. That is to say, in extramarital affairs, men always consider interests, not feelings.

The second is that they believe they have enough capacity to control the situation. Men are overconfident at all times, whether it is life or feelings, they are too confident in their abilities, no matter who they have feelings with, he blindly believes that he can balance everything. Whether it is his own, his lover's, or his family's, he has the ability to balance it. At home, he behaved well and well, kept the family in good order, whether it was his wife, children or parents, would think of him as a good comrade, while on the outside, he would use clever words to win the favor of his lover. He is a two-faced faction, inside and outside want to point well, to put it bluntly, he is a hypocrite, but also a good actor, everywhere he tries to show, feel that he can do everything, in fact, he is still selfish in his heart, always thinking about his own interests, playing his own small calculations, blind arrogance, blind self-confidence.

The third is that they think that lovers are voluntary. In the eyes of many men, they are very good, they are voluntary by women, and the appearance of extramarital affairs has little to do with him. Even if it happens in the East Window, there will be ten thousand reasons to push back. In the eyes of this part of the man, they will never put their feelings in the first place, let alone put their responsibilities in the first place, and will not respect their wives and lovers at all, thinking that they are voluntary, and they do not need to be sent home in vain. Because of such a heart, they are often on top, but out of a certain vanity, they are flattered inside and out, but they rarely give their true feelings. Their general mindset is to eat from the bowl and look at the pot. To put it bluntly, it is a greed based on selfishness, with having more as a life goal. On the one hand, you must keep your marriage, whether it is property or feelings, and do not allow others to touch it, on the other hand, you hope to get more experience, so that you will not lose money in this life, to put it bluntly, or a selfish psychology.

Fourth, they think they're just playing. No matter what age men, in the attitude of extramarital affairs, will not be very serious and responsible, they always think that this is just a kind of emotional game, will not endanger the family, they have played enough, will return to the family, will not affect too much. So they like to go to the cabaret and dance hall, and they will go to various places to find the so-called happiness and happiness. The so-called men become bad as soon as they have money, because when their lives and status and property reach a certain amount, they will think that finding more women is a face project, and it is a sign of men's achievements in the past and the present. If they talk about responsibility, they will immediately slip away, and they will put the play on their lips, thinking that it is ancient, but it is actually a kind of cultural, not worth refuting.

Fifth, they think they can accept all the consequences. Men will always think that with their own strength, it must be a man,whether in the family or in society, the man must take the initiative, even if he has an affair, he has enough strength to balance everything. No matter what kind of problems arise in the future, he can deal with them all, even if his wife knows, he will also use clever words, deny them all, take out a pair of dead pigs who are not afraid of boiling hot water, even if the matter is exposed, he will also find ways to escape responsibility, on the one hand, quickly stop loss, on the other hand, quickly clear the responsibility, eliminate the impact, and show extreme roguehood.

Therefore, remind the majority of female compatriots, when you meet the man you like, you must polish your eyes, do not be blinded by their rhetoric, at any time, men are selfish in their hearts, especially on the issue of extramarital affairs, never have any illusions about them. #Emotion PK Desk #Emotion#Emotion# #情感 #