Author: Main Creative Group Liang Zhizhi
There is a saying on the Internet that goes like this:
"It is good to have a son, and it is good to have a daughter; two daughters are first-class, one daughter is second-class; one son, one daughter, three-class, and one son is fourth-class." Although it is a funny paragraph, the words are broken, and the happiness of having a daughter can indeed rise. Some time ago, In Ji'an, Jiangxi, a mother who had just given birth to her second child in the hospital, was lying weakly in the ward. When the eldest daughter came to the hospital bed, she saw her mother lying on the hospital bed, still with a weak face, and a needle on the back of her hand. When she saw this, she immediately cried bitterly.
While crying, he asked his mother in pain, "Are you okay?" Mom responded that she was all right. The mother's answer also made the little girl uneasy. She wiped her tears and repeated over and over again, "Are you okay?" Are you all right..." until Mom said the words very firmly, "No pain, no pain." The little girl, who had already cried into tears, calmly wiped away the tears in her eyes. The little girl's father said that she had been crying since she went into the hospital bed and saw her mother, and she had been crying for nearly 40 minutes. The daughter was very distressed about her mother, and her mouth kept shouting: "Mother is hurt, mother is hurt..." Let her father and mother, how to comfort her next to her, how the little girl can't stop the tears. After many netizens saw the video, in addition to shedding tears, they were more envious of this mother, who had such a heart-warming little cotton jacket.
Oh, yes! The daughter is the warmest and most intimate presence in the world. They always love us in the way they can. When we are sad, they will hand us a tissue; when we are in pain, they will say all kinds of sweet words to make us happy; and when we are in danger, they will also use her small body to protect us. We always think that in this world, mothers love their children the most; after raising their daughters, we know that our daughters are the ones who love their mothers the most in this world! When they express love, they are pure and straightforward, and they are more affectionate. The following couples of mother-daughter stories, let me, as a mother, see the tears always circle in the eyes. Their love is exposed in every detail of life, touching and warming all the time.
Those nuanced loves are the most affectionate
That year, her daughter was 5 years old. On the way out of school, the daughter invited her little cousin to the house. The two children fiddled with the toys in their hands in the living room, playing happily. Unexpectedly, the daughter accidentally smashed the glass cup on the table, and the glass cut her thumb, and the blood was dripping from the finger. After hearing the noise, she hurried out of the kitchen and looked at the water on the ground and the daughter who had scratched her hand. Nervous, she accidentally fell to the ground, and she still remembered how to comfort her daughter. Because my daughter has been timid since she was a child, afraid of pain and more afraid of seeing blood, I remember several times, my daughter fainted because of seeing blood. But this time, when the daughter saw her worried and anxious, she acted very calm. Enduring the pain of her fingers, she helped her mother up and was busy comforting her: "Mom, don't worry, I don't hurt, I'm not afraid of blood..." Afterwards, she asked her daughter why she was so brave. The daughter said something that touched her: "Mom is scared and anxious, so I have to pretend to be calm, so you can rest assured!" "A lot of times, we think that our mother is the one who knows best how to deal with all kinds of chores, trifles, and emergencies. But when the mother became panicked when she encountered an emergency, the daughter changed from a timid and fearful little girl to a calm little adult for her mother. The love of a daughter tends to be more delicate and affectionate. You can always be grateful for a word she said inadvertently in her daily life, a thing she did. In life, in the adult world, indifference has become a synonym for not being hurt. But the daughter's steaming love for her mother not only warms her mother's heart, but also brings a little light to the adults, comforts their hearts, gives them strength, and also gives them the confidence to love others.
As long as my mother is in danger, I am willing to take my life to protect her
In the year of the Wenchuan earthquake, her daughter was 7 years old. At that time, her foot accidentally sprained and she had to lie at home to rest. In a sudden aftershock, my daughter happened to be playing downstairs. When she felt the shock, her daughter desperately ran upstairs, three steps up the stairs as one step. The neighbor who hurried down saw her, grabbed her daughter's shoulder and said, "Danger, hurry downstairs!" The daughter impatiently threw away the neighbor and threw down a sentence: "My mother is at home, I still have to help her go downstairs", and ran away without looking back. This is what she learned from her neighbors. Until now, the memory is still fresh, and she thinks that she will never forget it in this life. In the moment of life and death, the usually soft and weak little girl has become a little hero who protects her mother. As long as your mother is in danger, no matter how bumpy and tortuous the road ahead is, she is willing to stand up, and she is willing to pounce on you and guard you regardless of herself. When we had a daughter, she became our soft underbelly. But when she grows up and understands things, she will become our armor and protect us for a lifetime.
"Mom, you want another child, that year, her daughter was 9 years old. My daughter has suffered from leukemia since childhood, and long-term chemotherapy not only made her weak, but even her hair fell out. In order to treat her daughter, she and her husband not only spent all the family's savings, but also owed huge debts, and her husband and she lived on thin ice every day. The daughter saw in her eyes, and she also took the initiative to persuade her parents to give up treatment, and even secretly wrote a suicide note to her: "Mom, give up on me, you want another child!" If I had a daughter, I would have come back to you. I just want you to be my mom, you must remember, don't forget me. Wherever I am, you are my favorite mother! She grabbed the "suicide note" so hard that she ran into the bathroom alone, her heartache, sadness, sadness, and heartache lingering in her mind for a long time. Although the daughter is only nine years old, she knows everything, knows that you have poured out your family property for her, and knows that you have given everything for her. She understands that there is nothing to repay in this life, but she still wants to do her best to reduce your burden, even if she exchanges her life for it. She also comforted you: "This is my way of guarding you." Daughter, is the person who cares about you in the world, they do their best to give you warmth, give you strength, she is afraid that she is a burden, you carry her too heavy, too heavy. She would rather sacrifice herself to pay you back the rest of your life easily, she is so cute and painful.
Mom, I would like to accompany you to the end of your life Last year, the covid-19 pandemic raged in Palestine, and her daughter was 15 years old. Unfortunately, she was infected with the new crown virus and was seriously ill, and was taken to the isolation point by the community doctor for isolation treatment. When the daughter heard the news, she was afraid that she was afraid and worried about her condition. Every night, my daughter climbed from the outside wall of the hospital to the window of the intensive care unit and watched helplessly from a distance and helplessly as she lay on the bed with a tube inserted. It wasn't until she finally couldn't stand the torment of her illness and died that her daughter stopped climbing the window to visit. Suddenly I remembered a sentence that Bi Shumin had said: "When your parents are here, there is still a place in life; when your parents go, there is only a way back in your life." Yes, in the eyes of the daughter, the place where the mother is home; but when the mother is gone, the home is gone. No matter where her mother is, whether she is healthy or not, as a daughter, she is willing to accompany her mother and protect her mother. Tormented by the disease, she will certainly walk particularly peacefully and calmly in the last part of her life because of her daughter's love and companionship. Your daughter is the one who can accompany you to grow older and will accompany you throughout the rest of your life.
After reading the above story, I suddenly realized the meaning of raising a daughter.
The daughter is thoughtful, comforting her mother when she is sad, and hugging her mother when she is sad. The daughter is strong and courageous, gives advice to her mother when she encounters difficulties, and can stand up when she encounters danger. The countless healing moments that the mother and daughter spent together believe that they will eventually become the most precious gifts in each other's lives, and they will become the confidence for their daughters to walk the world alone in the future. The writer Long Yingtai once said: "The so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship only means that your fate with him is that you are constantly watching his back in this life and this life. Yeah, we can't spend our daughters with us for the rest of our lives. One day, she will fly high, spread her wings, and in the days to come, she will also become a mother. I believe that it is you who will be transformed into a tradition of love, nourishing the next generation, and continuing. There is a saying on the Internet that goes like this: "When I grew up, I found that I became you". I believe that this is the meaning of inheritance, and it is also the best interpretation of why we should raise a daughter! So yeah! In this world, the mother who can have a daughter must have got a sign in the previous life, and this life will have such a good life.
The most advanced show of wealth in the world is that my family has a daughter. May all parents in the world treat their daughters well, protect them for a whole life, and protect them for a lifetime of happiness! Encourage all parents!
About the author: Liang Zhizhi, with a baby in her left hand, writes with her right hand, and wants to change her life through writing. New Oriental Family Education (ID: xdfjtjy) transmits the concept of professional family education, provides family education information at home and abroad, and shares absorbable and operable methods and suggestions. Let continuous learning become a habit of the family.