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We will then share with you the "Disciple Rules" in the section of "Entering the Filial Piety", "The body is injured, and the relatives are worried; the virtue is hurt, and the relatives are ashamed." ”

In the last class, we left a topic, that is, how can we not be injured, morally uninjured, and let our parents feel at ease? Then protect the body and make it healthy; protect morality and make it healthy. We shared with you how to keep our bodies healthy from three aspects, that is, "eating and drinking moderately, living and living regularly, and not working in vain." "In particular, I reported to everyone that we should live in a state of presence, and the state of the sense of presence gives us the greatest support and contribution to our lives, that is, it can keep us from wandering and keep the energy in a full state." How can I not lose my mind? Do not have selfish distractions, always have altruistic thoughts. In other words, always have the idea of serving the people wholeheartedly.

I talked about one of my nephews, Guo Shengyang, who, in his cultivation education, basically did what the "Disciple Rules" said, "Although things are small, don't hide them privately" and "although things are small, don't act arbitrarily." He came to my house to see my dad, and my dad gave him some candy and drinks, and he wouldn't do anything, so he looked at his dad's face, and his dad said, "Okay, you take it," and he would take it. During the Spring Festival, we gave him a red envelope, and he didn't take it, so he looked at his father's face, and his father said, "Well, your little master gives it to you, you just take it", and he only took it. That is to say, in his body, we can not see greed, and it is this kind of cultivation education that makes us very satisfied. His grandfather was sick, he stood next to his grandfather, feeding him porridge and massage; his father had a bad stomach, and when his father went out, he prepared the medicine for his father, and he said, "Daddy come back early, make less money, as long as he is in good health." He began reading three books from the age of five and a half, "In Search of Serenity," "Waking Up," and "The Lunar Calendar." You think of a five-and-a-half-year-old, how does he read it? There are some words that are recognized, and some words that are not recognized. Fortunately, his father taught him pinyin, and he checked the dictionary hard. His earliest reading was "Awakening", which was full of notes. When it comes to the book "Looking for Serenity", the notes are less. Now he is reading the Lunar Calendar, and he is almost finished, and basically there is no need for Zhuyin. Now, many listeners across the country are listening to his readings of "In Search of Serenity," "Waking Up," and "The Lunar Calendar."

This time, "Remember Homesickness" went to my hometown of Xiji County, Ningxia, to shoot Taibao and filmed him as one of the characters in the program. The choreographers and directors of CCTV are particularly fond of him, generous, polite, and not humble. Where does such a child's upbringing education begin? That is, "Although things are small, do not act arbitrarily; if you do something good, you will lose money." Although things are small, do not hide them privately; if you hide them privately, your heart is broken. Of course, he can do this, first of all, he has done it: "Parents should not slow down; parents are destined, do not be lazy." Parents must listen, and parents must obey. ”

In our lives, such a child has appeared, which gives us a lot of confidence. Because his first literacy began with the reading of the Disciple Rules with zhuyin. This gives us a lot of confidence, and it also gives a lot of confidence to many parents today. I also introduced him to some schools, and his dad now goes to some schools to share them. In order to make this father take on a greater and more comprehensive responsibility for this child, I asked him to put down some of his business, read it well, and let him write me a diary of the child's growth every week, which is very touching. I read a few of them, and I was about to shed tears. For example, once he had a cold, after he came home, he did not take off his mask, and his parents said: "You went home, why don't you take off the mask?" He said: "If I take off the mask, I will infect the air, and if the air is infected, you will catch a cold." "You see he doesn't take off his mask, he thinks about others at all times, when he reads my book every day, his dad sends a video, and I see him reading, put the book on the table, bow to the book and start reading. His current exemplary role has played a very good exemplary role in our family and around us.

Now my little one, who is more than three years old, imitates him every morning and says, "Hello listeners, now I will read to you aloud the novel "Lunar Calendar" created by the famous writer Guo Wenbin." That is to say, a family, I suggest setting up a learning group, every morning, by these children to read a paragraph, we call it energy reading. Let's say we pick a passage and these kids start reading. For a while, we chose the Disciple Rules. After reading it for a while, we replaced it with some fragments in the "Four Precepts of The Mortals," that is, "that is, when fate is honored, it is often thought of loneliness; when it is smooth, it is often thought of rebellion; that is, when it is enough to eat in front of the eyes, it is often thought of poverty; that is, people love and respect each other, and often think of fear; that is, people are respected from the family and often think of humility; that is, they are well-educated, and they often think of shallow and ugly." For example, in the Four Precepts of the Four Precepts, "What is beneficial to others is good; what is beneficial to oneself is evil; what is beneficial to others is to beat others, and lì is good; if it is beneficial to oneself, then it is respectful to others, and all people are evil." It is the good deeds of the deceased, the good that benefits others, the public is true; the selfish is private, and the private is false", these fragments let him read every morning, you will find that whether it is three years old, five years old, seven years old, these children can read it. This is to say that if one child has completed his upbringing, other children can follow suit. This is also one aspect of our vigilance in making a family "wounded and worried; morally wounded, and ashamed of one's relatives." It is how to make each of our children physically and mentally healthy and morally perfect, which requires us to set an example. To set an example, we must start from his cultivation education, and the cultivation education must start from the details.

In the opening chapter of this round of "Disciple Rules", we must let the traditional culture fall small, fall into detail, and implement, and only by falling small, falling into detail, and implementing can we become our vitality. Like Guo Shengyang, the growth process he showed us, we are very satisfied. This is a projection of the effect of the Disciple Rules on him. Then in his childhood, his dad told me that he was very entangled. Why? Give this child stationery, take it out in the morning, and come back at night without it. He gave it all away, and whoever wanted it gave it to someone else. His dad said what to do with this? What would he do if it went on like this? Later, when he felt that he was undecided, he asked me, "Good thing, give him, let him send, so that sending, is not it cultivating his selfless character"? Sure enough, as soon as this child enters school, he has scored 100 points in Both Chinese and Mathematics, and his studies are no longer in the hands of his parents. Why? Because he understands that "if there is a wound in the body, the relatives are worried; the virtue is wounded, and the relatives are ashamed." ”

In his spiritual world, there was no longer a kind of selfish distraction. Bow when you see someone, and salute when you say goodbye, which is very natural, you can't see the contrivance, it has become a natural action. This is what I reported to you: "Although things are small, do not act arbitrarily; if you are good at doing things, you will lose money." Although things are small, do not hide them privately; if you hide them privately, your heart is broken. The importance in a person's physical and mental construction is to say, "If you are injured, you are worried about your relatives; if you are hurt by virtue, you are ashamed of your relatives." We must let it land on the ground, so that our relatives are not worried or ashamed, and we must do cultivation education from "although things are small, do not hide privately" and "although things are small, do not be good at doing things." Then, when he forms a habit when he is young, when he grows up, he will not have the idea of being greedy and cheap, and he will not be able to take advantage of the idea, of course, he will not be greedy and pervert the law.

This article is excerpted from "Guo Wenbin's Interpretation"

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