If you preach to your children about "getting" the wind, you will lose your morality

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"Do not be violent, do not abandon yourself, holy and virtuous, can be tamed" One cannot be without the idea of self-confidence, self-reliance, and self-improvement. Self-confidence is based on choosing sage books and mentors. We have chosen the concept of the sages, and we have been close to the good teachers and friends, our ambitions will be self-reliant, and after the ambitions are established, we will be self-reliant, to implement what the sages say, and we will certainly exude the virtues and virtues of the sages.

Zeng Guofan used the "Four Trainings of Fan Fan" as a family training, and to this day, the Zeng family is still particularly prosperous. Another example is Liang Qichao's family, his 9 children are more famous scholars. If we think about it, when the father's moral wind blows on the children, the family rises. Confucius's moral wind blew to future generations, affecting nearly 80 generations of descendants of the Confucius family. It's all moral!

Each of us is writing history for ourselves, and we must write it well. As Mencius said, "Man will humiliate himself and then others, his family will destroy himself and his people will destroy it, and the kingdom will cut itself down and the people will cut it down." ”

When a professor prostitute is reported, it is self-insulting; when all kinds of comments in society come out, it is that others have insulted him. We do things that we look down on ourselves, and others don't respect you, and they deserve it. We do things as people, it is easy to smear, it is difficult to wipe clean. We run our own lives, don't humiliate ourselves.

Mencius also said that "the house will destroy itself and the next person will destroy it." I often say that there is a sword between husband and wife, and if you get it in your hand, you will not divorce. Many people chase me every day and ask what is the Shang fang sword? I said, "What is Shang fang is to look up at people and not look down at people." Always look at each other's advantages and benefits, there will be no divorce; always look at his shortcomings, and over time will leave, so this is the fate of the husband and wife can be whitehead to old age.

We have to reflect, he has no merit can you marry him? The act of getting married is already great, so why can't we get along better? If you look for your husband's shortcomings every day, you may have a chat with the opposite sex and say that your husband is not good and that is not good. As soon as this man hears it, he has an evil heart for you, and this is the beginning of extramarital love. You have to praise your husband every day for being so good and so good, and this man will not have a chance when he hears it.

A person who even looks down on her husband can look down on you? A person can't even look down on his wife, and he can look at you as a fake. Otherwise, I often talk about the relationship between husband and wife like a castle, not afraid of outsiders attacking in, only afraid of insiders breaking out.

Let's look again at "the kingdom will cut itself down and the people will cut it down." It's like if siblings can't get along harmoniously, then others will stir up dissension, let siblings kill each other, and lose brotherhood. Shang Shu Tai Jia Yun: "Heaven does evil, but it can be violated; self-inflicted sins, do not live." ”

Mencius also said, "The foundation of the world is in the kingdom, and the foundation of the kingdom is at home." "The stability of a society is the decline in the crime rate, but we are now rising in the crime rate, and the criminals are getting younger and younger." Because what we publicize to our children is the "get" wind, and we pay attention to "get" every day. We now have a lot of upside down. Therefore, I hope that everyone will truly implement the "Disciple Rules" into their own families and continue the moral style.

The foundation of home is in the body. "University" Yun: "From the Son of Heaven to the common people, one is based on self-cultivation." From these classics, we can see that no matter who it is, it must be self-cultivation. We must guide our children to receive a sage education from an early age, first lay the foundation of virtue, do not test the children and themselves as guinea pigs, choose this book today and choose that book tomorrow.

When we study the Disciple Rules, we must go deep, how to go deep, we must first understand the meaning of it, then act, and then we must implement it.

We did not learn the Disciple Rules for Confucius. When we read the Disciple Rules in the morning, we remind us what to do with people and things in our lives, work, and study; at night, we read the Disciple Rules to check what other places today's behavior does not conform to the teachings of the sages.

What should I do first to learn about sage education? Determined! Be determined. I am determined to promote filial piety. I often tell my friends that maybe I am the descendant of Qin Juniper, and he insults the virtue of his ancestors, so I will twist him around, which is called shame and courage!

What's next? To stand up. When we donate, we never publicize it, because we can't save the poor. What should we really do? educate.

To enhance our virtue and cultivation so that there will be no unauthorized embezzlement of charity funds and relying on this phenomenon of cheating money and harming people, this is the fundamental way. This is the reason why we promote the Disciple Rules, and it is also the most fundamental way to solve this chaotic concept and thought.

Our most important purpose is actually to let everyone really understand the education of the sages and implement the education of the sages, so that over time, the social atmosphere will be better.

What is the word "Standing Up"? The Word. A "of", a "first" inside. What is "first"? To do it first means to do it, that is, a moral person must first do it. As one child wrote in his diary: "The Disciple Rules are not for memorizing, but for doing." "It can be done not only in the family, at work, in business, in getting along with friends, brothers and sisters.

Before learning the "Disciple Rules", we felt that moral education could not be associated with life, and it seemed that there was no way out of the mountains and rivers; after learning the "Disciple Rules", moral education and life were blended with the water and milk, which can be described as another village!

Moral education, thick and vivid, "holy and virtuous, tame". It is not difficult to be a modern sage; you are a sage when you say it. You can speak and carry out, and the virtues of the saints have been magnified in you. Wise people are also easy to do, as soon as others say that you are wrong, immediately correct and implement. Congratulations, you have the virtue of a virtuous person! These two kinds of people can become modern sages.

"Disciple Rules" is a book that we should all learn and implement. I hope that everyone will truly understand today that "virtue blows widely" and "virtue" is a virtuous "virtue" rather than a "gain" that we have obtained, and we must understand the meaning of the words. Only by knowing, realizing, and doing can we get it.

Excerpted from Teacher Qin Dongkui's "Opening the Door of Happiness, Qin Dongkui Talks About Disciple Rules"

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