Life ends in death. A lifetime of decades soon hung up. Most died of myocardial infarction and cancer. The average life expectancy is now more than 70 years old. In my 70s, some were demented, and some were bedridden. Some walk crookedly and are not flexible. Some have suffered a stroke and are paralyzed in a wheelchair. At this time, life can no longer take care of itself, and it needs to be served. If there is a healthy old partner around them, the lonely old man is not only lonely, but also the pain of the disease is also bothering them.
So think about how to spend your life in your later years, how to avoid pain, and how to reduce the trouble with others. Because death is something that no one can escape. Only face. What to do?
First of all, when you can eat and use your brain clearly, enjoy life. Money is only spent on oneself, that is one's own. So you should eat, drink, enjoy, and leave no regrets.
The second situation is when the brain is clear, but life cannot take care of itself. At this time, put your money in two cards, bind the mobile phone, give the small card to the children, keep the large card for yourself, and the child card as your daily expenses, let the children or nanny buy vegetables to cook, and spend a little money. Recharge your small card at any time. With a large bank card in hand, life will be guaranteed in the future.
When you are sure that you are going to be unconscious, even when you are dying, give all the money management around you to your children, and wait to go to another world. But you must go with dignity, go to the general department, don't intuate the tube, go with scars.
Friends, what do I think? Which one has anything to add? Feel free to share and comment in the comments section.
Netizen comments
The average life expectancy in big cities is in their early 80s, and the parents of classmates and friends are more than eighty, and now they are all fine. There is pension and there is health insurance. Those who have girls are all with their daughters and are very happy.
On the twenty-fifth day of every month, all the postal savings banks in Taiyuan, Shanxi, were crowded with seventy- and eighty-year-old retirees waiting in line to call for money, explaining three problems, first, the children are not filial, seventy or eighty-year-old people, the withdrawal password can not be remembered, the input is not accurate, and there is no fear of falling on the street, but also the children to serve, second, the ancients cloud, seventy do not leave meals, eighty do not stay overnight, afraid of not taking today, tomorrow can not spend, third, the old man has no sense of trust in the children, the old man spends money on the children, it is natural and righteous, Children spend money on the old man, it is a dream, they themselves are not enough to spend, if their own money is in the hands of the children, when they use it, can they use it, only God knows, I said this to the old man who took the money around me, the old lady of eighty-nine years old drew a hand with her hand, the palm of her hand was down, the mouth was chanting, look, this is how dashing, the palm of the hand is up, look, ask the children for money, just like begging for food, how difficult! Whoever has it, it is not as good as it is for themselves, and once one day suddenly goes, I would rather be in heaven, the money is in the bank, and I would rather donate the property
I know an aunt 72, her mother is 93, she can take care of herself, she is also in good health, her wife 75. The only child is more than fifty years old, the other party's family is also two elderly people in their seventies, her son has high blood pressure, fatty liver, high uric acid, daughter-in-law has long been laid off, no job at home, although the grandson is working, the salary is not high enough to support himself. Fortunately, they are all in the city, there are pensions, medical insurance, if this is not available in the countryside, how much pressure should her grandson have! How old is this!
The average life expectancy is 79, 80 years ago, demented, unable to take care of themselves, I have not yet seen. Unless there are special circumstances, basically healthy, that is, cancer, but also with the disease to survive, a chronic disease with, not cured may still live longer. More than 80 years old, enough, can not take care of themselves on their own self-judgment, do not drag others well, the key is to have money.
The analysis is quite thorough, most of them are in line with my 90 hemiplegic father 88 years before the death of the mother of the elderly dementia, the mother also before the loss of all the memory to remember all the passbooks, card passwords, including my father's, of course, these are all used in their last 10 years of life, medical treatment, ask for a babysitter, I think the money is not taken away, can spend it, a nanny is not enough to please one more, nevertheless, they still experienced the torment of disease. If you can take care of yourself in your later years, you don't have to spend money on nursing homes and hire people at home;
If you are completely paralyzed, you will not be able to control yourself, the right is in the hands of your children, and there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time.
If it reaches the point of being undignified and powerless to return to heaven, it may be waiting to open euthanasia [Ma Sichun's smile] [Ma Sichun's smile]
I really want to die with dignity and innocence, and if I die in sleep, it is the greatest gift. Don't want to be disliked by your loved ones, busy for yourself, spend money. If you can't die for your sins and endure all kinds of medical means of torturing yourself, it is better to come to a happy end. Unfortunately, it's just a luxury!
I mildly old terrier, hoping to further develop, that way, people will end at once, and the pain will be less. I live alone with the elderly, my wife has been gone for almost seven years, and there is really no fun in a person's life
Prepare yourself with a comfort pill, enjoy life more when you can move, have no self-care ability, don't leave any trouble for future generations, and go to Elysium in the blink of an eye. That's my wish.
Every New Year's Day, it feels impermanent
The so-called "feast of the world is not scattered, the relatives who are inseparable in the world", "the end of the song is a dream, the prosperity is empty", after the Spring Festival holiday, the relatives who are briefly reunited will wave goodbye to each other, leave one after another, and return to their respective places.
It can be seen that everything is impermanent, not eternal, no matter how prosperous, in the end it still returns to silence, no matter how gorgeous, and finally returns to normal. Bustling, lively, touching, enthusiastic is temporary. As the Sutra of Immeasurable Life says:
Love and glory, can not be guaranteed forever, should be separated, there is no pleasure. Man in the world, in the midst of love, lives alone and dies alone, and goes alone; When the line is fun, the place of bitterness, the body deserves it, and there is no substitute.
Therefore, in these six cycles of samsara, we all come alone and go alone, although we have companions now, we will not have companions in the future. The Jizo Sutra says, "Father and son are dear, and they have different paths, and even if they meet each other, they will not accept it." 」
Each of us in this world is flowing with karma
