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"If there is a life, he will live, and if there is no life, he will die"
In January 2020, Shenzhen People's Hospital welcomed a critically ill patient in a coma, and at this critical juncture, he did not have any relatives by his side, only a co-worker who shared a house with him was running around for him.
When the co-worker contacted his family, none of his relatives were willing to take care of him, and even let go of the cruel words: "If you have a life, you will live, if you don't have a life, let him die", and even his own daughter has given up on him.
So why didn't any of the relatives want to visit him? Why, exactly, and where does he go from here?
The man's life was in danger, and the family collectively turned a blind eye
Early one morning in January 2020, in a rental house in Shenzhen, Lao Fu and his friend Brother Pan lived in the same room.
On this day, Brother Pan was woken up by the sound of vomiting, and then he saw Lao Fu's whole body twitching violently, foaming at the mouth, his eyes tightly closed, and he was no longer conscious.
Seeing that the situation was wrong, Brother Pan hurriedly dialed the 120 emergency number, and it didn't take long for the roar of the ambulance to sound in the alley.
The medical staff hurriedly ran into the rental house with a stretcher, and got Lao Fu into the ambulance very carefully.
On the way, he kept praying for Lao Fu, hoping that he would be able to survive this crisis, but deep down, there was a sense of foreboding.
After arriving at the hospital, Lao Fu was rushed to the emergency department and underwent a series of examinations and preliminary rescue, and Brother Pan followed all the way, but was told that he was just Lao Fu's friend, and there was no way to directly intervene or understand the detailed condition.
Due to the urgency of Lao Fu's condition, Lao Fu's immediate family members must be contacted as soon as possible to understand Lao Fu's medical history and specific condition.
Brother Pan hurriedly took out Lao Fu's mobile phone, found the family WeChat group with more than 40 people, and then began to dial the phone numbers in it one by one.
What is unexpected is that no matter how Brother Pan explained and pleaded, each of the relatives in the group prevaricated with various excuses, and some people even directly told Lao Fu to "live if you have a life, and die if you don't have a life".
Brother Pan hurriedly called Mr. Fu's sister's phone, and the other party actually said that he was just Mr. Fu's cousin, too far away from home to come, and asked Brother Pan to find Mr. Fu's sister, but when he called Mr. Fu's sister's phone, he was directly and ruthlessly hung up.
Even Lao Fu's biological daughter hung up the phone directly and irritably after receiving the call, which made Brother Pan completely dumbfounded, he really couldn't understand how these relatives could be so ruthless.
Warmth is in the world, and friends stand up
In the face of the cold-bloodedness of Lao Fu's family members, Brother Pan was completely desperate, Lao Fu's situation became more and more critical, but none of his relatives were willing to come to accompany him and raise funds.
At this juncture, Brother Pan, as a layman, actually stood up in danger and became the only person willing to accompany Lao Fu.
Every day, he would stay in the ward, take care of Mr. Fu's daily life, feed him water, turn him over, change the oxygen tube, etc.
Once, when the nurse was doing rounds, she found that Lao Fu was laying a new turn-over pillow under him, which was full of cotton, which was extremely intimate.
Sometimes Brother Pan would leave for a while, just go to the hospital door to smoke a cigarette and relax, but he never went far, always sat on the bench, and returned to the ward from time to time to check on the situation.
Although Brother Pan's behavior made the medical staff feel puzzled, they admired him more from the heart, because in this materialistic era, it is not easy for an outsider to work so hard for a friend.
Although Lao Fu has been in a coma, Brother Pan will talk to him every day, tell him some previous things, and share some interesting stories about life.
Once, Lao Fu's body had a brief convulsion, and Brother Pan hurriedly held his arm and comforted him over and over again: "Uncle Fu, it's okay, I'm here, don't be afraid..."
Although Brother Pan had limited funds, he still paid for Lao Fu's medical expenses without hesitation, and at the same time, the hospital was also doing its best to treat Mr. Fu, and never refused treatment because Mr. Fu had no family, no financial resources and other factors.
In this way, with the family members watching coldly, Brother Pan silently guarded Lao Fu alone, because in their friendship, they had long regarded each other as family.
The hospital is benevolent and never abandoned
As time passed, Lao Fu's condition still did not take a good turn, because he did not get the specific medical history and cause of Lao Fu, even if he invited a number of specialist doctors for consultation, he could only passively deal with it according to the symptoms.
What's even more troublesome is that the medical expenses for treatment have gradually climbed to more than 30,000 yuan, and Brother Pan and Lao Fu are both low-level workers, where do they have so much savings?
Seeing that the situation was not good, some not very benevolent people began to secretly inquire about Lao Fu's situation, hinting that the hospital should consider giving up treatment and treating him as a "three-no person".
Hearing these gossips, kind-hearted doctors immediately felt a nameless fire, as doctors, they can never give up on any patient.
What's more, Brother Pan's wholehearted dedication to Lao Fu made them see the best side of human nature, and giving up Lao Fu is giving up the principle of benevolence of doctors.
As a result, after weighing the pros and cons, Shenzhen People's Hospital made a moving decision - according to the standard of "three nos" personnel, the hospital will fully bear all the hospitalization expenses of the old man until he fully recovers.
"We are the ones who save the dead, how can we not save the dead? What's more, Lao Fu has such a close friend by his side, and the light of humanity has never been extinct! The attending doctor said firmly.
Soon, the hospital began to arrange relevant procedures for Lao Fu, and Lao Fu was officially listed as a "three-no personnel", which means that all expenses will be borne by the hospital, and the hospital also specially invited senior doctors in this area to consult Lao Fu.
After the unremitting efforts of the doctors, Lao Fu finally passed the life-threatening period and was slowly pushed out of the operating room.
But at this juncture, Brother Pan found that there was still no relative to visit Lao Fu, not even a phone call or a text message.
Fortunately, in this seemingly indifferent world, there is still a glimmer of warmth burning, and Brother Pan is still by Lao Fu's side and takes care of him to the best of his ability.
epilogue
Family and friendship, which is more important? In this incident, we see a thrilling contrast.
On the one hand, more than 40 relatives spoke coldly and ignored the critically ill Lao Fu, and even directly released the cruel words of "if you have a life, you will live, and if you don't have a life, you will die".
On the other side, Brother Pan, an outsider who was just a friend, stepped forward when Mr. Fu was in crisis, guarding his hospital bed day and night, and doing his best to help him.
From Brother Pan's words and deeds, we see the most unpretentious and heart-warming side of human nature, and he uses practical actions to interpret what is the unswerving sincere friendship for friends.
Full text information source: "My White Coat" Season 1 Episode 6: The man suddenly fainted and no one in the family responded, and Dr. Gui Pei pulled out seven teeth in a row quickly and accurately