In today's society, the pressure on young people's lives is very large, and mortgages, car loans, and raising children all need money. It is said that money is not omnipotent, but money is inseparable from life, and making money is the most basic survival need. If it is a family, the couple can work together to earn money, and may be slightly richer.
But some families with children can't do it, and mothers have to stay at home with their children and can't go out to work. Therefore, when the child goes to kindergarten, he will go out to work by himself, which is the wish of many mothers. However, when the mother really waited for this day, she was punched in the face by reality.
My daughter went to kindergarten, and my mother changed three jobs in a month
Xiao Ning is the mother of a three-year-old girl, and when her daughter finally goes to kindergarten, she decides that she wants to re-emerge as a professional woman.
Contemporary women must not only take children and do housework, but also be able to earn their own money, achieve economic independence, and be the most perfect woman. However, the ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, and she is ruthlessly tripped by reality again and again.
▼ Applying for kindergarten nursery - failed
Xiao Ning's first job search experience was to apply for a nursery school nursery, she successfully became a nursery nurse in her daughter's kindergarten with her own academic qualifications and ability, and her daughter was also happy for several days. However, she soon discovered that the job of a nurseryman was not so simple.
The children enter the kindergarten at 8:30, and she needs to enter the kindergarten at 7:30 to do cleaning, disinfection and so on. Moreover, the kindergarten does not allow the nursery staff to take the child while working, and the child also wants the father to send a trip, and the child often eats a bad breakfast. In the evening, the kindergarten is out of school, and the nursery staff also has to go home late, clean up, learn to hold meetings, and so on. The job didn't take a few days and ended in failure.
▼ Applicants for company clerks cannot work from nine to five
Xiao Ning went to apply for a clerk in a real estate company, although the salary is not high, but fortunately the work is relatively idle, the clerk is generally nine to five, Saturday, Sunday double holidays, you can also bring children.
However, after she went to work, she learned that colleagues often work overtime at night, sometimes need to socialize, go home very late, her husband has opinions, and it is a big problem that no one has children to take. The second job, too, was lost in disappointment.
▼ The teacher with the class at the small table is not allowed to take a day off
Xiao Ning is good at cooking, and she was hired to work in a student care center as a little kitchen lady. Her daughter eats at the kindergarten at noon and does not come home. After sending the children in the morning, she went to buy vegetables for the care center, made a meal at noon, after the children went to school, she cleaned up the hygiene, cleaned the kitchen utensils, and went home from work at about 2 o'clock in the afternoon, and did not delay picking up her daughter to and from school. However, the daughter had a cold on a Wednesday and needed to rest at home, but the care center could not find anyone to help cook, and more than a hundred children had to eat, which was not a small matter. The boss did not allow her to take time off, and had to lock her sick daughter at home. She thought about it again and again, but decided not to do it.
The mom has been trying to get rid of the identity of a stay-at-home mom, and it can be seen that she has made a lot of efforts. If a woman is a stay-at-home mother for a long time, it is difficult to find a suitable job for herself, and it is easy to derail from society. Taking care of children and going out to work, no woman can do it perfectly.
Those professional women, the balance they find between taking care of children and going out to work, is probably that there are elderly people in the family who are willing to help with the children, and the efforts behind the family are also a lot.
Some moms want to work to make money, but there is no one at home to help with their children, which is the biggest hard wound. There are always difficulties, but life is not completely hopeless. Moms with their own children can try to do some of these jobs, just fit themselves.
First, be your own boss, physical store or online store.
If you prefer to do business, or have a certain business acumen, it is still good to do a small business yourself. At the very least, we can make clothing, maternal and infant products, open physical stores, open Taobao stores, and Bao Mama is also quite free in time.
People with sales experience can also work as insurance salesmen or real estate agents, and the working hours are relatively free.
Second, couriers or takeaways, there is no limit to working hours.
Couriers and takeaways are more hard, but they are more work, less work less, we can take care of children can run a few orders less, there is no hard requirements, but quite hard.
Third, adhere to the self-media, to fun-oriented.
There are many mothers who like to photograph their daily lives and post them online, and there are many mothers who do self-media, but there are not many who can really make money, or they still have to learn from people, and they have to have time and energy to study and deepen cultivation.
There are also mothers who work as self-media writers, and if you are interested, it is also a good job, mainly to see if you are interested.
No matter how difficult it is, you have to take your own children, which may be the belief that supports many mothers, when you stick to it, there will be gains.