Although the three-child policy has been liberalized, many families have not even had a second child!
In the time of family planning in those years, there was such a propaganda: if you want to get rich, have fewer children and plant more trees. This sentence is telling everyone that having more children is not a good thing.
However, family planning, which was originally thought to be adhered to forever, has been hit in the face by the plummeting fertility rate, and the population aging rate is far ahead, which is not a good phenomenon. Therefore, the two-child policy and the three-child policy were born in response to the situation.
The situation of multiple births is very good, why can't it drive everyone's enthusiasm?
There is no upper limit to the cost of raising a child
When a pregnant woman is pregnant, the cost of the child is launched, and when the child is born, the milk powder, diapers, clothes, and toys are like a bottomless pit. After school, it did not end.
A mother once roughly calculated that it takes about 1 million to send a child to college. If the child has the need to study abroad, the cost is even more up.
In this way, let alone having multiple children, even if it is very difficult to pull a child, what remaining energy to regenerate the child? Therefore, economic cost is the biggest constraint restricting the enthusiasm for having children.
Parents are able to enjoy the advantages of multiple children, and very few
Parents can't stop struggling until their children go to college. Children need money to eat and wear, forcing them to dare not stop, even if there is an emotional problem, they will still endure it again.
And parents can really enjoy the advantages that their children bring to themselves, but only when their parents can't move. As long as parents can still move, they must shine for their children.
If the child cannot support himself, is the parent really sad? He devoted his life to his children, and in the end he still got nothing.
"If you don't have a second child, you will prepare more money to live in a nursing home later" The advice of people who came over had to listen
After ChenChen gave birth to her first child, her mother-in-law has been urging her to have a second child, at first Chenchen just felt that the mother-in-law in the world may be the same, and wants more children to prove that Ding is prosperous.
But Chenchen's willingness is not very high, because she herself does not like children very much, as long as it must be the cry of the child, she wants to escape from this world.
Just when the mother-in-law talked about this matter with Chenchen for the last time, Chenchen confronted her mother-in-law, "I don't want to be born, why do you keep forcing me to give birth?" Is it that easy to have a baby? It's hard to raise one child, let alone two! ”
Seeing Chenchen's reaction, her mother-in-law was really a little surprised, and she said to Chenchen: "I let you have a child for your own good." I have a friend who is not in good health, had a stroke in the previous stage, and is now directly sent to a nursing home by his son! ”
Chen Chen didn't speak, just thinking about her mother-in-law's intentions, what does it mean to make this scene? Then the mother-in-law said: I went to see her in the nursing home, and she told me that the most regrettable thing in her life was that she only had one child left.
Since then, the mother-in-law has not forced ChenChen to give birth to a second child. Chen Chen also figured it out, there is no need to resist the second child so much, after giving birth to the second child, it can also be regarded as a guarantee for their future, let it go with the flow!
Having only one child can only pin all your hopes on him
Having a child, although the energy and material resources are relatively small, are not as haggard as the parents of multiple children, and they still have to maintain family harmony. However, when children are needed, they can also become isolated.
Because, if this child refuses to support you, who can you rely on? If you have two children, one can't count on it, there's another chance and hope.
After all, it is impossible for two children to be like this, even if they have lived together since childhood, there are still good and evil, there is a sense of responsibility, and there are also disapproving.
A child supporting the elderly is too stressful
When you don't have siblings, all the things of your parents have to do yourself, and if you still have children to raise at this time, the pressure of life will be suffocating.
This kind of pressure is something that many people who have experienced can understand, and parents who have more life experience will think more about their children and try to avoid the pain that their children may suffer in the future.
In this way, even if it is for oneself and for the sake of the child, it is necessary to give birth to more than 1 child, the best of both worlds. When the parents are not there, the siblings can help each other.
Today's Topic:
If it were you, how many children would you choose to have? Do you consider economic conditions and energy? Welcome to share your thoughts!