The son is not the fault of the father, and many times the future of the child is often determined by the cultivation of family education. There are also some children who face the dilemma of the family, are forced to precociously mature, and become sensible children in the eyes of others, but who has ever seen that family, as a parent, will deliberately pit their own underage children?
Family education has always been an indispensable part of every family, no matter good or bad, at least as parents, we will not harm our children. Even if you don't have the ability to raise children, you will do everything you can to compensate. Therefore, in the whole world, many families' children are lucky, at least their parents will not hinder their own growth.
The girl beat her mother in the street, and was criticized and watched by the crowd
Xiaofang is 17 years old this year, and she is very helpless about her old mobile phone, but due to family problems, she can only choose to work during the holidays to earn money. After the end of the holiday work, I earned 4,000 yuan, but the price difference between the mobile phone and my expectation was 2,000, so after consulting with my mother, my mother agreed to subsidize herself to buy a mobile phone for her daughter with 2,000.
After riding the tram to the mobile phone shop, the mother did not know how to think, suddenly regretted, felt that the price of the mobile phone was too expensive, and did not want to buy. In the face of her mother's sudden change, Xiaofang also resisted a few words when she was wronged. And then the mother's words denied the meaning of buying a mobile phone for Xiaofang, and at the same time took her daughter to stop at the intersection.
Although the daughter was aggrieved, she did not think much about the sudden parking of her mother, who knew that the mother suddenly raised her tone, letting everyone around her know that her daughter bought expensive mobile phones and could not meet her requirements. After a while, such a practice was watched, and everyone also pointed out to Xiaofang, and Xiaofang's grievances suddenly turned into anger, and they beat her mother.
The mother's set-up not only does not want to buy a mobile phone for her daughter, but also wants the money in her daughter's hand
In the face of the increase in the crowd of onlookers, Xiaofang changed from beating her mother to beating her violently, hoping to urge her mother to ride away from the crowd quickly, but her mother still did not leave while bearing the beating. The embarrassment of the matter made Xiaofang's heart completely collapse, and she could only beat her mother regardless of the image. Just hope to be able to leave.
As the audience grew, the mother began to complain again, expressing that the money in her daughter's hands should subsidize the family, rather than satisfying her own selfish desires and buying luxury goods. And the masses also felt that her mother's words were reasonable, so they persuaded Xiaofang that she should give the money in her hand to her mother and contribute to the family.
At this time, Xiaofang had already lost control of her mother's emotions, and only weak beatings and silent crying were left. Buying a mobile phone by herself, in the case of the original negotiation, how could her mother set up such an embarrassing bureau, and what did she do wrong? Why did my own mother treat me like this?
The lack of family education is not terrible, what is terrible is the lack of parental education
Xiao Fang's situation, in other words, can be deeply felt helpless and confused at this time. Is this mother mentally ill when she treats her daughter in this way? Things would have gone very smoothly, and wouldn't it be better for the family to sit together happily after the phone was bought?
Xiaofang in the process of the incident, in addition to her own grievances, did not accuse her mother of not, do not buy a mobile phone, will also be OK. However, later, her mother's approach did make her angry, and in the face of the masses spitting on her own uncultured, Xiao Fang's heart was not a taste.
The occurrence of this incident fully shows that the education of fire mothers is very lacking, the education is also very backward, and the treatment of children is not fulfilling their responsibilities. If Xiaofang's mother needs money, why not explain directly to Xiaofang, Xiaofang will at least accept, why do you have to go around such a big circle?
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Family education, we have always been aimed at the education of parents to children, and this premise is that parents have a certain educational foundation or ideological quality foundation. Facing Xiaofang's mother's practice, it fully explains the lack of family education of Xiaofang's mother. As a parent, how can you harm your children so much!
We are all ordinary people, or the most fully expressed human beings, tiger poison does not eat children, and Xiaofang's mother's approach is likely to make her daughter hate for a lifetime. Family education emphasizes the education of minors who are cognitively blank and missing as adults who have a rich understanding of things. If you don't meet, please respect yourself and don't harm the younger generations.
Xiao Fang's approach fully demonstrates the place of her self-cultivation, even if it is wronged, it is only a few words of resistance, if it is not the mother's careful setting, so that the masses do not know the beginning and end of the discussion drowned, Xiao Fang will not lose her mind. Even when he hit his mother, the words in his mouth were still: can't go, hurry up!
Finally, I hope that friends in front of the screen, in this beautiful moment of the Ruixue Mega Year, remember to warm family, warm friends, and the Year of the Tiger is auspicious! Cold snow contains warm and warm intentions, and warm spring caresses green and is often happy. In the year of Ruixue Mega, I wish all the best in the new year.
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